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I am looking for a submissive playmate. Someone with their own life - hopefully someone who is a professional but not required.
This is for enjoyment, I am not looking for a relationship other than friendship with adult activities. You and I can be exclusive - and play for years but sorry - I am not looking for a girlfriend, 24/7 or marriage - this is simply something extra.
I think I have been "kinky" since my first girlfriend in high school. I remember fingering her in a movie theater until she begged me to stop - I didn't - she but she enjoyed the experience.
I found my way into the Chicago scene in high school and as I have traveled, I 've met people who shared my taste for a little sex with my pain.
Since then I have had five submissives - each for over 3 years. At first a few at a time but the last one - was one on one and that is now my preference.
I am now looking for a subbie in the Jefferson county, Waukesha county area. I am willing to travel further of course. I will gladly met interested ladies for a "look see".
The ideal: smart, sane, safe and 25 years old or older and looking for a Dominant friend with benefits. Looks, size, older - don't matter - this is more about minds than bodies - but of course bodies are nice.
ME: A big guy, work out daily, 6'0 230lbs (muscle with a layer), professional, kind of a yuppie, good looking and African American. If you have fetish for black men - great, if not great - it doesn't define me - I am too complex -- this is an exploration so only open minded ladies apply.
IF you are looking for a purple cape, leather mask and shock wands - been there - done that - I've grown pass it. Not to say I won't - simply that is a discussion to have once we've met. I may buy a new TENS machine for a good girl.
Rope, spanking, psychological torture, physical creative play - all day long.
I am VERY creative.
I will email you a G-rated picture if you reply with an interest. Cock shots are lame - I'll simply show you in person.
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Recently, a submissive lady questioned how could someone who claims to be Dominant and in the lifestyle since 18 end up with a "nilla" person in his life.
I thought about it and was put off by the combative nature of the "submissive's" reply. I do not understand the purpose of the question or even if it was a real question but I think it maybe worth a mass answer.
First - I am looking for smart people. Smart isn't simply commonsense or degrees (which helps) but emotional intelligence. Cultured is the term for it but I do not think you need to have traveled and speak five languages to have it.
Second - I never said anyone in my life was va-nilla. Simply this is a public free site. I will not outline the details of my relationships to a stranger. If I meet someone face-to-face and it comes up - I'll gladly explain how "adult relationships" work but I will not waste my energy explaining it to someone who simply may not be intelligent enough to understand. If a stranger asks my in a respectful way - I may answer it but please - if it a concern simply push on.
Third - I will answer reasonable questions. I respect skeptics and love debate - but please lets try to use a little be of maturity - especially when dealing with a Dominant man who MAY have clue - you MAY actually want to impress me. I have traveled to Europe, the Middle East and Asia (all as a student not military) - and dated beautiful women all over the world. I may have even MORE than a clue. |
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| Age: 23 |
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