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| am a black man in KC MO enjoying a range of erotic possibilities. At 6'2 and 220bs, I remain in great shape. I now stay in shape by spending a lot of time outdoors. My home base is in kc mo and the USA.
I say do what feels good but know your limits and communicate them. We are all adults here (I hope) and appreciate people who are straightforward and don't play high school games. The whole point of this lifestyle is to do what you feel and shed the fear of judgement by the hypocrites out there who lack the strength to act upon their desires. Sexuality is something to be enjoyed with those with a similar outlook. Indeed, I believe that the sincere people in this lifestyle are more confident and enlightened than the general population. Sexual exploration is a natural state for people and those that repress it are missing out on something special and empowering.
Respect is important to me. I believe in respecting other's preferences (sexual and otherwise) and limits. Over the years, I have learned that human sexuality is infinitely varied and changes from person to person. This is very exciting to me.
My preference is to meet people seeking an erotic friendship and not just one nighters. My general rule in this lifestyle is to play only with those that I would hang out with in the "vanilla" world. A first step for me is to meet for dinner or drinks with no expectations other than to meet some like minded people. I love to share stories from this lifestyle and always appreciate hearing from others on their experiences. Talking about sexuality is always of interest to me.
Smart people who like good food, wine and conversation are always welcome. In the end, this lifestyle is all about making connections and new experiences, not just random sexual encounters.
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