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Trust.

I highly value trust in any relationships. Yet it is the biggest issue I have been facing throughout my life.

I am a highly sensitive person. I am also an empath. Overtime, I have learnt to trust my instinct. But having to constantly act on it had been so emotionally mentally draining that I had since pushed it away.
So now, I tend to withdraw at the first warning sign of my instinct.
I would rather break off the relationship early, than to invest too much and get hurt again at a later part. (and yes, this is based on past experiences, applicable to both relationship friendships.)

So let me first apologize in advance should I choose not to respond back, or to abruptly cut you off.


I am seeking a Long Term Relationship (NOT online), and hope to find a Dom who has the patience to guide and nurture me (especially since I am still rather new to all this).
I have always been interested in this lifestyle since my exposure to it when I was 15. But I had been content with staying within my own comfort zone behind my readings...until recently.

I know I have my fair share of problems. Im definitely not perfect. But I am open to learning and will be interested to hear what you have to share.

I strongly believe that a DS relationship requires trust between partners. Hence, be aware that I will only continue the relationship further if I am comfortable with you.

I am also a very shy and quiet girl, who prefer stimulating, deep and engaging conversations over mundane small talks.

If what I wrote resonate with you, do drop me a message and we shall see how things goes from there.
(I am NOT willing to relocate, neither am I looking for anyone younger than me. Though I would prefer someone within six years my age.)
Bella09
 
 Age: 23
 Lagos, Nigeria