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I imagine fetish-based D/s relationships fail for the same reason sex-based vanilla relationships fail. I am not interested in professional Dommes, nor those making money from their lifestyles. I am not here for entertainment or to play games.
Understand I am an intensely independent and principled person. I neither need nor desire to be taken care of, and I like it this way. A male is useful to neither himself nor she whom he aims to benefit if he depends on her. I go places on my own, do things on my own, and do not demand attention.
By independence, I do not mean stubborn or resistant, but rather that I am not needy. I do desire to be wrapped around the finger of a dominant woman who believes the proper place of her male is one of service.
Submission is obedience to authority, not a sign of weakness. It is given in the form of service to those who have power to influence behavior. This service is given out of admiration. Hence, genuine submission requires reason to hold an authority in high regard. Males who think otherwise have no respect for the women whom they are supposed serve and use this service as a currency for masochistic gratification.
To this end, I must like and admire you.
I am interested in women who are ethically secure in their dominance: those who neither feel nor pretend to feel guilt for satisfying their interests; those who believe it is appropriate for women to be authorities in relationships; those who do not hesitate about or apologize for this. I consider serving one's own interest the highest virtue.
I tend to be more attracted to women older than me or at least my age. This is because I find emotional maturity attractive. This means being emotionally stable. That is those who understand what they want, implement appropriate means to achieve their ends, and act according to their value scale. I hope to find women whom I honestly like. If I were interested in play, I would find professionals. As I have said, however, I am disinterested in playing games, and I find this silly.
If you do not immediately think I am what you are looking for, I still invite you to message me. Don't be shy. We can still talk about the finer points of whatnot, or that thought you have but don't tell anyone about. There are no external value judgments here, only understanding.
Shock me.
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