My first tour to SYDNEY JULY6-21. Slaves, sub missives, bottoms and weird and wonderful fetishists may apply for sessions.  Only the polite and respectful will be granted sessions.  www.avikadevine.com

I'm in the mood for unusual fetishes... The weirder the better... Lots of anal play connoisseurs who really appreciate the fine art of exquisite anal play... and some discipline and humiliation sessions...  As well as some sessions for those who really want to explore themselves deeper... access personal transformation through forbidden erotic exploration... perhaps some ordeal sessions to really test endurance and boundaries only to come out broken, reborn and ecstatic at the other side ...  Come on Sydney, produce your bizarre kinksters for me.

 Note:  I am a professional Mistress and do not offer free play sessions to complete strangers from the internet.  My personal play is dedicated to those in my friends circle, my lovers etc.

Currently taking sessions in BRISBANE and will be making mayhem throughADELIADE's Fetish Palace from May 21-26. 

Taking sessions in Brisbane Sat 17- Friday 23. 

Touring CAIRNS Jan 13-22.  Slaves may apply to grovel beneath my feet.

BRISBANE 14-16 Dec only.  Currently taking applications from slaves, subs and kinksters

Taking bookings on the Gold Coast NOV 23-29  in Melbourne Nov 30-Dec 1st.  Get ready slaves because Mistress is in a particularly wicked mood.

Taking Bookings in BRISBANE (westend)  Thursday, Friday and Saturady (27th-29th of Oct) as well as Nov 9-15. MELBOURNE bookings available Nov29-30.
Otherwise, Bookings in BYRON BAY as usual. 

What is Conscious Kink?

“The erotic state – again, a mixture of concentration and spontaneity – is a hypnoidal state, probably the most powerful kind that we are capable of experiencing, and it is in this condition that unexpected regions of the self are revealed, as the majority of people know from experience.” — Peter Redgrove

 Conscious Kink is the art of deeply engaging with our delicious pervy play in a conscious, intelligent, embodied way for pleasure, self discovery and/or personal transformation.  It is the opposite of using kink as a form of escapism or disconnection but instead delves deep into our authentic eroticism and engages all of us, not just our genitals. This kind of play often leads to more satisfying erotic experiences, deeper awareness of our selves, others and All That Is.  Play that comes from a consciously authentic place is the most potent form of kink there is.

Play for pleasure's sake can be just as conscious as play for deep personal transformation.  In fact consciously valuing and engaging with consensual play for pleasure's sake is one of the most delicious things we can do as human beings.  Contrary to the work ethic our culture is seeped in, play and pleasure are one of the main reasons for living! Conscious kink engages with the full spectrum of kink from light and playful through to the intense and "out there".

Everybody is kinky.  Everybody.  Anyone who thinks they are not is just in denial.  Some folk deviate from the so called "norm" more than others but everyone deviates. Conscious kink is about finding your unique wiring and exploring it.

“One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious. The later procedure, however, is disagreeable and therefore not popular.”  Carl Jung

Just like our dreams, our eroticism does not come from a politically correct part of our consciousness.  When interpreting dreams, the popular view is that each person or object in the dream represents an aspect of you.  It may seem like you are dreaming about that person down the street but that person really represents an important part of your psychological process.  How you act towards them and feel about them in the dream is not how you act or feel towards them in everyday life. A dream is your subconscious mind processing important parts of us that have nothing to do with everyday logic and consciousness.  In short, it is an altered state of consciousness.

Our arousal comes from a similar place within us and our kinks and fantasies are equally an altered state of consciousness.  When engaging with kink consciously and consensually, we are accessing a really powerful tool for pleasure, self explorations, personal transformation, intimacy, authenticity and spirituality.  Not to mention that consciously engaging with this part of ourselves makes it even more arousing and deeply satisfying.  It’s goddamn sexy!

“One of the greatest ordeals a human can ever face is the journey of becoming their true self.  Finding your personal truth and then taking the steps to embrace and explore what that truth means to you requires bravery, courage and vulnerability.  Though*far* from being limited to the pursuit of sexual explorers, by embracing the eroticism of authenticity, kinksters of all stripes have an inroad to this journey that others might not have”.   - Lee Harrington “Sacred Kink” pg 86.

  Suppressed and unconscious kink leads to a destructive cycle of compulsion that keeps us stuck in one place or spiralling down into disconnection with ourselves and our loved ones, or simply leaves us feeling a little empty afterwards.  When suppressed, it can also erupt in unhealthy ways into other aspects of our lives.  I argue that consciously engaging with our kink is in fact an essential part of being whole, happy and fulfilled.

“The shadow, including its erotic manifestations, holds the key to the whole self as opposed to the limited self to which most of us have become accustomed.  When shadow material is denied a safe outlet, pressure builds for it to push beyond the safe boundaries of the imagination and become destructive.  The shadow is darkest when we refuse to look at it”.  - Jack Morin, “The Erotic Mind”

As a lifestyle and professional player, there is nothing more satisfying on ALL levels than fleshing out someone's authentic erotic wiring and engaging in that place.  The act of living out the aspects of the subconscious in a scene, session or ritual is one of the most thrilling and potent forms of interaction there is.

As a conscious kink player, I bring my kink skills and experience to the table as well as utalise aspects of Tantra, Taoism, various erotic shamanic traditions, erotic bodywork and all my skills in the conscious erotic arts including breath techniques, and consciously engaged states of body, heart and mind to enhance any kinky experience.  Having a clear intent for a scene also makes it conscious.

In order to get the most out of a session with me, I get you to fill in a session playsheet outlining your levels of experience and tease out your unique wiring.  We then have a phone consultation before we begin to work out the kind of experience that would best work for both of us.  We discuss intent, specific tools and activities and safe words.  We are then free to let go and fully enter into the experience when the time for our session begins.

I will be taking sessions in Brisbane Oct 6 & 7 as well as Oct 27-Nov 5. 

I will be taking sessions in Melbourne November 29 & Dec 1

Otherwise its pervy fun in Byron Bay as usual. 

Forced Bi sessions with a real (masked) male slave are the flavor of the month.  (Melbourne and Byron only). 

Anal play, Kinky tantra sessions, kinky psychodrama for personal tranformation or play, golden showers, personal maid training, needle play, xdressing and perverted school girl bully sessions are also current favorites.  Many other sessions available. 

Alrighty!  Now I have a forced bi slave, any male game to be forced to do dirty perverted things to another male for my entertainment?

Taking applications for bookings in Brisbane Thursday the 6th of Oct and Friday the 7th.  Otherwise it perverted fun in Byron Bay as usual. 

WANTED:  men to be used sexually in "forced bi" sessions in the Northern Rivers area. Screening will be intensive so disrespectful idiots need not apply - funnily enough. References required.

This is not a paid gig. 

Is loving all the closet perverts in Byron area!

Bookings in Brisbane every Thursday and in Byron Bay Monday-Wednesday and some Fridays. 

Sessions in Brisbane this Thursday only... Sessions in Byron Bay for the rest of the week.  Regular sessions in Byron now available...

I'm excited to be setting up a dungeon in LISMORE, NORTH NSW.  I will be taking bookings from a hired venue July 11- 15TH but it won't be long until I have my own little dungeon paradise to work from.  I will also do outcalls in Byron Bay and surrounding areas. Back in BRISBANE July 18-22.

Taking bookings in the GOLD COAST (Mermaid Beach) all this week. 

Sex Worker V's Pro Domme: "She's just a hooker with a whip"

Sex is a touchy subject around professional Dominas, Mistresses and ‘old school’ slaves. It is frequently said that a Mistress who has sex with her slaves, bottoms, subs or erotic adventurers are not real Dommes. That a woman who does that is “just a hooker with a whip” and can’t possibly also deeply understand other reasons for engaging in BDSM. I disagree.

This issue arises from a complex set of ideas and opinions that has its basis in some real and valid ideas as well as some outdated sexism and sex negative prejudice. I seek ways to honor the valid reasons at the same time recognise and address the limiting and unhelpful aspects of the anti-sex and anti sex worker attitude.

There are many different states of consciousness, states of embodied pleasure, release and sensation that are possible. Different techniques and intentions result in different results. One is not inherently more valuable than any other. It all depends on what you want to experience.

For folk right into our BDSM(Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism) fetishes and D/s (Dominant/Submissive) explorations, the goal of our activities is often a particular state of consciousness called subspace and/or topspace. These forms of play can be about eroticism but it is not necessarily about overt eroticism and might not be about eroticism at all. The focus is in the state of consciousness that can be achieved through these activities and exploration of the pleasure, intensity, transformation, deep peace, trust, intimacy and plain old fun these states can evoke.

Traditional, penetrative sex could in fact hinder the person attempting to access these particular mind /body states of being because it releases different chemicals in the body, guides the mind down a different route to a different destination and if ejaculation is involved, can cut short the powerful journey created by all the other activities. For many people, cumming breaks the spell of subspace /top space.

BDSMers, fetishists and power exchange players (here on shortened to the umbrella term “kinksters”) have traditionally faced a lot of prejudice and misunderstanding throughout history. When outsiders come along, they frequently think we are sick and misunderstand what it is we are trying to achieve with these seemingly perverted and extreme activities. On the other extreme outsiders become fascinated and want to join in. Initially they assume it is all about traditional sex and “horniness” and have never in considered the other possible reasons for engaging in these activities. This can be a source of frustration to kinksters because these new comers are often pulling in a different direction to us and making all sorts of false assumptions about what is on offer.

As a pro Domme I am flooded with enquiries that misunderstand the intent of what I am offering and assume that it is all about “kinky sex”. It would be easy for me to become frustrated and put those people down for “not getting it” but really, what is actually wrong with enjoying, actively exploring and delighting in “kinky sex”? I sure like it! It’s just another option on the menu for me to explore, savour and revel in. Some folk that initially come to me for Kinky sex, end up exploring other states they didn’t know existed and therefore could never have asked for. Others remain delighted to explore all the kinds of forbidden sex they have never had an opportunity to experience with anyone else.

I believe that a lot of the tension between those into kinky sex and those into exploring subspace/topspace for its own sake, is based on constant misunderstanding of the intent of what one is trying to achieve. The reason people engage in kinky sex is different to the reason that kinksters engage in BDSM for its own sake. If you use certain tools or activities and have certain intents, you get one kind of mind/body result. If you use another set of tools, activities and intents, you get a different mind/body result. One is not inherently more valuable or “better” than the other. Both are different options and both are valid in their own right. Not just valid, but deeply pleasurable and rich sources of ecstatic living.

It is not useful when exploring a sex positive, femme-empowered place to assume that all sex workers are victims that don’t enjoy what they do and are inherently degraded because they have sex for money with clients. Sex work may not be something that you could or should do but that does not mean all of us are wired the same as you. No doubt there are as many opinions on this topic are there are people so I shall just stick to my perspective.

I do many different things. I am a pro Domme who guides people into a variety of different states of consciousness in body and mind. Some are overtly erotic and others ecstatic... still others are a deep quieting of the mind... others intense adrenalin pumping highs... or about transformation and self discovery... some about submission... some about “getting off”... because guess what! “Getting off” is FUN! This idea that getting off is not as noble a goal as the others is based in an assumption that pleasure and play for delights sake is somehow wrong, less valuable than “serious” intents and adds to the cycle of sex-shame our culture has nursed for millennia.

I’ve had enough shame about sex drilled into me from an uber religious upbringing, anti sex feminists, cultural fear of sexually powerful women and dominant ideas about how sex work is inherently degrading to women. Indeed how sex itself is inherently degrading to women and just the act of engaging in sex means the woman is being submissive. After all, only men want sex right? Women like it when they are in the “honeymoon” period of a romantic relationship but that wears off right? Then women use it to “get stuff” like a nice house, their way in an argument or a new perfume... The worst of these are sex workers who clearly only do it to get money... it is just assumed that men want sex more than women do and to “give it to him” is about his pleasure, not hers. Especially if it is particularly dirty sex. Oh and then there are the positions women naturally get in for sex... Unless she is on top, those positions are inherently submissive right?

I can't speak for other women but when I close my eyes and search deep into my body and mind, strip back cultural expectations, assumptions and politics to search my authentic being for answers, I find that I feel very powerful when engaging in sex of all kinds. I love what I do. I love being a sex worker, a teacher of the erotic arts who guides people into deeper relationships with their shame-free ability to experience limitless erotic pleasure... I also love my work as a pro Domme who facilitates journeys into submission and other kinky altered states. I also really love having good old fashioned sexy fun with open minded, respectful clients. Fun for fun’s sake rocks my boat too. I do not value one path over the other.

The key is to be very clear about what it is that each client is trying to achieve and what I want to achieve with each client. I choose the tools, activities and intents together with the client in order to best achieve the desired outcome based on their particular wiring and our combined dynamic. I do not engage in activities I do not want to. If I feel inside myself and it feels wrong, I don’t do it. If a client is not respectful, I do not offer them a session. I do not accept every client that asks me for a session. I ensure that we are matched first. Otherwise I recommend another professional who they may be more suited to skills, goals and personality-wise.

Working this way has lead me to develop some intense and mutually beneficial professional relationships with clients that have opened and changed us both. I cannot tell you how incredibly delicious it is to be part of someone’s erotic and/or BDSM journey. That moment when someone slips into a new state of being that rises from deep within their authenticity through a session I have created for them... OH. MY. GODDESS! I cannot imagine a more rewarding way to spend my time on this planet. (Of course as part of my “work” I constantly explore my own ability for erotic and ecstatic pleasure... oh poor me! Such a victim!)

As a professional, I am not replacing the intimacy of a romantic relationship. That is not my role. My role is to explore, teach and facilitate certain experiences utalising my highly trained skillset. The result is different to that of the kinds of play I engage in with a romantic partner and for me, one is not a threat to the other. For me, engaging in sex outside of fluid bonded, romantic, intimacy does not take from the sex in my romantic relationships at all. In fact, it really adds to it because having a career and spiritual path dedicated to erotic exploration means I constantly feed the fires of my eroticism and do not suffer from “bed death” after the honeymoon period has finished. The way I engage in sex work is not damaging or degrading to me or my personal relationships.

To summerise: Whether our goal is to explore sub/top space or other states of consciousness for its own sake, to revel in the pleasure of kinky sex, to explore transformation, dirty horny deliciousness , intensity, submission or spiritual connection it’s all valid. We just need to be clear about our intent and use the right tools to achieve our goal. Not every professional wants to explore all these different modes. Many specialise in the none sexual sessions and that is fine. Each person has to do what is right for them and honor the way they are wired. This does not mean that someone who is a pro Domme and a kinky sex worker is not a “real” Domme. Putting one form of exploration on a pedastool over another is just another form of prejudice. Instead I invite us to value all the paths possible and consciously choose which person is right to explore our unique wiring with based on compatibility of intent, skill level and repoire.

There is no such things as a “real” Domme. It is just a matter of whether or not the professional you seek understands and can cater to your particular aims for a session. Every kind of Domme is perfect for someone.

GOLD COAST from May 30- June 8 and BRISBANE June9-22

Taking bookings on the Gold Coast tomorrow and Saturday (May 28-28).  Eager slaves, bottoms, subs and erotic adventurers may respectfully apply for a session.  Entice me with your session suggestions and requests and delight me with your perverse pleasure seeking desires.  Perhaps your dirty dreams will be granted to you. 

Next Brisbane bookings will be June 9-22.

My last 2 days in Brisbane before I go and explore Lismore and Byron Bay...

In the mood for cross dressers, sissy sluts and anal ravishing. 

I will be taking bookings in Brisbane from May 12 -May 21. 

Wow what a busy week seeing all my regulars one last time before I move!  I'm going to miss the repoire built and the play we've had together. 

One week until I move to North NSW and begin taking sessions in Brisbane and the Gold Coast!

Back from Thailand and inspired to play.  While I will be busy in the next month before I move to North NSW, I have decided to take select sessions here in Melbourne until the end of April.  I will be taking bookings in Brisbane and the Gold Coast and North NSW in May.

I am currently sipping cocktails in Thailand but will be back in Melbourne In April.  I will be taking select bookings then.  I move to North NSW in May and will be taking sessions in Brisbane and the Gold Coast once a month.  

Only this week left to make a booking before I take off overseas...

Back in Melbourne and itching for some humiliation sessions *wicked cackle*

Back in Melbourne and ready to play...

Taking bookings for Brisbane this Thursday (27th Jan), Friday (28th) and Saturday (29th).  I have reduced my schedule due to the floods but given that there was still some keen interest I will see those who pre-book. 

Taking bookings for sessions at Fetish House this Tuesday coming (11th Jan).  All bookings must be made through me directly as I am an independent Mistress and do not sit on shift.  If you want to experience a session with me you will need to contact me directly and pre-book. 

Slave on his knees with lacey, red, slutty knickers pulled down... open mouth and hands spreading butt cheeks to expose his holes for my use...  training on my strap on... suck.... lick... swallow my cock slave... prepare for what is coming...

In the mood for some dirty play and public humiliation... lucky is the slave who gets me in this perverted mood...

"BDSM bodywork: Journeys through subspace and other states of embodied, erotic consciousness"

Combining my experience in BDSM, sexological bodywork, erotic trance states, Hawaiian, Toaist and Tantric techniques I have developed a unique method of facilitating journeys into embodied ecstatic and blissful states of deep release some refer to as subpsace.

There is a thriving bodywork industry with many people discovering just how powerful  manipulating the body through touch, breath and consciousness exploration can be in accessing pleasure states, healing and inner wisdom.   The body stores emotions, past experiences and special kinds of unconscious knowledge in its “muscle memory”.   Conscious bodywork develops ways to works with the body to as a tool for exploration of self, ecstatic and other altered states of consciousness,  deeply relaxing release and  inner body wisdom.  It is about connecting to something I can only call an inner wordless, wisdom that knows things the conscious mind does not.  Bodywork is also used to release trauma from the past and heal on a deep unconscious level.  Bodywork creates shifts in us that lasts far longer than the pleasure of the session but ripples out into our whole lives.

Most bodywork excludes eroticism from this equation, carefully hiding genitals under tucked towels and avoiding the existence of the anus altogether.  I am offering sessions that purposely access erotic states through experiences tailored to the individual’s needs.  Options of any or all of the following are included:

Pleasure and/or pain sensations, sensory deprivation, restraint,  role play, full body sensual stimulation and manipulation including genital and anal (external and/or internal)  which all can be used in conjunction with breathwork and various Hawaiian, Toaist, Tantric methods of touch to create a journey of embodied consciousness.

Kinky bodywork can be used for several different kinds of goals.  Some want to explore healing, others want to expand their capabilities for experiencing pleasure and ecstatic states... Others choose to use this method to connect to their own inner wisdom as a spiritual journey.   Most people are really good at accessing their own eroticism through a few faithful methods but do not actively seek to access the full spectrum of erotic pleasure they are capable of.   Kinky bodywork can assist in unleashing that potential within us.  Once accessed, we can always get back there.  The more pathways to deeper pleasure the better!

BDSM bodywork is not trying to “cure” your kinks but rather celebrate them and use them to travel deeper into self awareness, embodied consciousness, self fulfilment, inner peace, erotic pleasure and delight at being alive in this crazy, beautiful world.  Cultures around the world and across time have discovered various methods, that could easily fall under the BDSM umbrella, for shifting the focus and attention to ways of experiencing inner worlds they are normally not aware of.  These methods have been used to access states they equate with connection to the Divine and Shamanism for millennia.   BDSM bodywork aims to follow in their footsteps in a way that is relevant to your personal journey.

It is about exploration of the full spectrum of potential experiences in an aware and empowered way.   My role is to guide you through and help you access and harness your own potential for even deeper journeys into sensation and states of consciousness.   However, it is not a one way power dynamic but a dance between us.  I can introduce you to new methods, guide you through pathways to various conscious states, be an extra pair of hands providing bdsm techniques and bodywork with expertise, but ultimately you are in control of just how much you are willing to open up, communicating what it is you need to trigger your unique body and neural pathways and using your safe word to stop any activity that is not working for you.  This is not an average professional Mistress session but a bodywork session incorporating BDSM elements.

I welcome folk of all backgrounds,  genders, ages, physical states of health and (dis)ability .  Legally Sessions can be held in the comfort of your own home, a hotel or a licensed venue such as a professional dungeon.  Legally I am not allowed to provide the venue.

Email me for further details.   

ANAL PLAY, SUBSPACE AND TRANCE STATES

One of my absolute favorite things to do is to take someone deep into a subspace aroused trance through anal play.

One of the interesting things I have learned as a sexological bodyworker, is the notion of anal massage and anal breathing. Done right, anal play does not have to hurt a bit (even if you are role playing being ravished). There are pressure points, massage techniques and breathwork that can help release and open the internal anal sphinctre. Some techniques can be used to take a sub into a heightened, excited state and others can take them down into a deeply relaxed, profoundly open, erotic trance.

One technique to aid this process is called "anal breathing". It is pretty hard to describe online and takes a little bit of practice but the results are well worth the effort.

Start by breathing into your diaphram and feeling your rib cage expand and contract. Without forcing it, breath all the way out before breathing in again.

Then notice the difference when you breath all the way into your belly, filling it right up and then letting every last bit leave your body. Again don't force it. Just let it all the way out.

Finally take a deep breath in, breathing all the way down into your pelvic floor. Feel yourself filling up like a balloon to the point where your anus opens a little when you breathe in. Then let all the air out again gently. Let the out breath be slightly longer than then in breathe and contract your butt hole slightly with the out breath. having the out breath longer than the inbreath is important because it helps take the body and mind down into an aroused, present but trance-like state. Repeat for several minutes until it becomes easy and you no longer have to concentrate so hard. Just notice how this feels. Imagine what it would be like if you were doing this while a skilled Dom/me was playing with your arse, accessing pressure points, guiding you to keep breathing and opening you fully to their desire.

This technique helps to take the person down into a down regulated state. That is, this is good for those subspaces where one wants their sub to be aroused but deeply relaxed... Awake but below dream state... In this state, a skilled Dom/me can take their sub into an anal pleasure trance that directly links into their parasympathetic nervous system. This can open up a direct link to the unconscious in a way nothing else can. People report almost supernatural experiences of seemingly being able to feel what the other person is feeling... think what the other person is thinking... and communicate without words using this technique.

If you match your breathing with your sub during this process and remain fully focused on being present in the moment, mirror neurons kick in to do their thang. It feels like a synching up... a merging of beings... the two become one creature moving and breathing together and there are no words to descirbe this trance.

As a Domme, it is one of my favorite things to have my finger or fist inside my sub and take them that deep into submission. To be so intimately linked and have them completely open, vulnerable, aroused and exposed by the touch of my hand and the fall of my breath. The best thing is this works just as well on female subs as it does male subs despite the biological differences when it comes to prostates.

Mistress Avika