I don't know if it's me or just the usual learning curve but being new to CM has been a lesson in futility. As a submissive woman, I am still a human being...I don't know what in my profile might portray me as anything other than that. For me, I believe the mental should proceed the physical but nearly every contact goes directly to the physical aspects. Even on the first meet and greets....right to the toys/likes/whatever. Should I be asked or expected to go without panties on a first date? I think you need to know me first. When I do submit, I'm surely going anyway we want to go. With everything I've got. Maybe I'm a prude, not submissive enough, on the wrong website? I don't really think so. I think I need to keep looking. I'm looking for some respect, some mental dominance and see where it goes. |