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Gay Male Master, 40,  Denver, Colorado
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I will know if you didnt and delete your message without reading it.

I am DDF and intend to stay that way.

I am a Dominant Man looking for a live-in,young,pet slave,twink type boi that wants to please his owner! Ill do it all except scat to you if you deserve the attention ) I am laid back, and easy to please, but believe in rules that are firmly enforced.


1. My word is law and your absolute desire to uphold

2. You are not entitled to clothing unless the law requires

3. You are not allowed to touch yourself while I maintain ownership

4. Absolute honesty at all times. Lies will not be tolerated in the slightest

5. I will not tolerate the use of drugs in any capacity

Following my simple rules earns you the privilege of being played with in a manner you like as a reward. But I will use my property in ways that pleases me most of the time. Break the rules, and an array of punishment awaits my naughty little boi. A cage, a king, a whipping, a loss to the right to cum for a long time, or suffering a dislike of yours.

Message me to get to know me and we can see if you are the right boi for me. While they will be tested, I respect limits.

I am seeking Doms for friendships and ideas only. I do not seek domination, but rather to grow and further my knowledge, or share what I have with other Doms. subs and slaves are welcome to tap into that knowledge as well. It should be every Dom and subs goal to be the absolute best for their other!

After you have read this and want to contact me put ty as the first word in your message. If I contacted you first, this does not apply.











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 Dominant Male



 5' 10"

 175 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Submissive Male

Switch Men

Sub/Sub Couples

Male-Dom Couples

Friends Only

 Lives For:




 Orgasm Denial




 Amusement Parks



 Hiking (Expert)


 Anal Play



 Body Worship


 Electrical Play

 Genital Punishment


 Housework Service



 Massage (Getting)

 Obedience Training

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Sensory Deprivation


 Wax play


 Card Games

 Horror Movies

 Puzzle Games


 Online Auctions


 Conservative Politics



 Lifestyle BDSM

 Country Music

 Nineties Music

 Punk Rock Music

 Rock Music




 Ice Hockey




 Bird Watching


 Renaissance Faires



 Martial Arts


 Ultimate Frisbee


 Canes and Crops


 Foot Worship

 Gas Masks


 Massage (Giving)

 Mental Bondage

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap



 Board Games



 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction


 TV Sports

 Web Surfing







 1950s Household

 Alternative Music

 Blue Grass

 Classical Music




 Pop Music

 Seventies Music







 Kick Boxing



 Art Galleries


 Coffee Shops

 Garage Sales

 Musical Theater



 Arcade Games

 Comedy Shows

 Romance Novels

 Goth Lifestyle


 Eighties Music

 Electronica / EDM

 EMO Music

 New Age Music


 Show Tunes


 Feng Shui







 Curious About:


 Scuba Diving



 Eye Contact Restrictions


 Speech Restrictions

 Alternative Medicine




 Sky Diving


 Bar Hopping


 Flea Markets


 Going to the Opera


 Skate Boarding


 Heavy Metal Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Industrial Music

 Opera Music





 Body Building





 Historical Shows

 TV News




 Female Supremacy




 Auto Racing


 Hard Limits:


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Journal Entries:
4/5/2013 10:30:11 PM

It's been a while since I needed to do this.  But for fuck's sake.  Is it so hard for people to read?  It must be.  For the most part, the Doms that want to talk to me actually read my profile, and contact me as I asked.  But the subs on here just don't get it.  And can't seem to read.  Then, if you delete them without "reading" teir message, they get pissed.  TO fucking bad bois.  Message me right, so I know you know what I am looking for or be deleted.  If you can't follow a simple rule on how to message me so I know you know what I want up front, then how am I to be expected to even think you know how to submit and do as you are told.

8/4/2012 9:02:05 PM

Today, I went to lunch with a friend.  We went to a Chinese place.  Great food.  I get my fill and the bill.  It is, of course, accompanied by a fortune cookie.  And how often do they contain an actual fortune?  Never.  They didn't disappoint.


Instead, there is a phrase (I guess).  And my mind just went for a ride when I read it.  "Life to you is a bold and dashing responsibilty."  That's no fortune.  It's a statement.  Homer Simpson wrote better fortunes.


To my point though.  It seams that some fortune cookie writer and a server have me figured out.  Is that not the statement of a Dom?  Is that not why I am working on a boi to own?  Because I find life as a responsibilty?


Well, it is.  It is a bold responsibilty to own a person.  These days anyway.  Unlike in the 1860's when it didn't matter if your slave lived or not other than to bring in the next haul of cotton.  But those days are long since over, and I don't have a plantation.  Yet the fact that I need the responsibilty of a slave boi to control and take care of is simply a part of me, my life.  Yes, I said need.  Just like a sub/slave needs to submit and be controlled.


So.  While the fortune itself sucked, it was very correct about me.

7/22/2012 8:41:33 PM

Do you know what grinds my gears?  Yes, I know Peter Griffin said it and did an entire show on it.  But here it is anyway.


I've recieved a few friend requests.  Okay, that's cool.  But not as the first means of contact.  A new message pops up.  I go to my inbox and find it's from someone that I have had no prior contact with.  Is it a message?  No.  It's a friend request.


This isn't Facebook people.  Go for it.  Try to find me on there.  Good luck.  I don't have one.  I have accepted only one friend request on here.  Out of all of them, just one.  The guy actually messaged me a few times.  I of course reciprocated (shit big word there, I hope you understand it).  And then he messaged me that he would like to add me to his friends and sent a separate friend request at the same time.  At least he got to know me a little bit first.


This site is not about building a list of people that you are "friends" with.  It is about finding people that you might or do connect with and then getting fucked.  In the long run at least.  And I mean sexually.  Not screwed over or scammed.  It's a dating site no matter how you want to look at it.  It's just one that is tailored to our kinky needs.


Making friends is nice.  I have made a few on here.  If any of those bois want to send me a friend request, I'll accept it.  But I don't use the site to build a list of friends that is longer than someone else's.  Each one of the friends that I have made on here are actual bois that I would love to get my hands on and own.  They are just not willing to relocate, or are looking for something a little different than me.  And so we are friends.


The point is, in case you missed it, that I will accept friend requests from friends.  Not strangers.  Message me first and get to know me a little before asking to be my "friend."  Hell, even an invite to chat with a stranger is more welcome in my book than a friend request from a stranger.  And I don't care if you are a sub, Dom, or switch.  The same protocol applies.

4/28/2012 11:29:38 PM

Hello Doms.  Or so called Doms anyway.  If you are a real and respectable sub/slave, please feel free to read on.  you might appreciate it.  If you are the proverbial doormat, you probably don't want to continue.


I have come across a few profiles in my short time on this site that belong to subs being approached by Doms that give the rest of us a bad name.  If you intend to make contact with a prospective sub/slave, you better make sure you pay attention to their profile and approach them accordingly.  It is very disrepsectful to those of us that are real Doms on this site to approach a sub, that has decided it wishes to insure its safety and well being by finding the Dom that will give them the control they desire with respects to its limits and desires, without regards to its wants and needs.  Those of you that are that disrespectful make it very difficult for those of us that truly deserve our boi to find a boi that is willing to converse with us because they have been approached with unreasonable demands from insane Doms.  And on their first day on this site.


If you are a real Dom, your sub is out there.  If you are just someone that wants to be a Dom, do your research and learn your role.  Then try to get into this lifestyle after you know the basic ropes and know what your true role is.  Being Dom, Switch, or submissive is engrained in you.  Not something you become.  If you don't like that fact, take it down the road, because those of us that are real (and that does include the Sadists, not the insane; there's a huge difference) don't need you making the waters so merky we can't find our true subs.

4/25/2012 6:16:48 PM

"Hello Sir."


Ya.  And????


That is no way to greet me.  Sure, it shows some respect.  But WTF does it mean.  I keep getting these messages.  And they mean squat to me.  Sure, I say hi back; but WTF else am I supposed to say.  I haven't got a clue what you're looking for.  Do you want to be owned?  Do you want to be friends?  Are you looking for information about me or the lifestyle?  Hmmmm.  It truly makes me wonder if the person on the other end here knows what they are.  A slave?  A sub?  A kinky play toy?  Do they even know what the difference is?


For me, that was the last "Hello Sir" I'm ever going to respond to.  It's not worth my time.  The mouse over feature to check messages is very nice.  So I can tell if it's one of those and delete it unread.  I wonder if I should just start blocking these morons?  I'll take suggestions on that from anybody that wants to comment.  And make sure you know the difference between a comment and a rant.  I'm Dominant, so I will rant.  If you're submissive, don't rant; it's unimpressive when you do.  And it makes a Dom wonder if you really are willing to please.  A disrespectful sub does not deserve to be owned.  And an unownable submissive is pretty much going to be a sad one until they figure it out.  And make sure you understand what "ownable" means.  It has nothing to do with whether you want to be owned or not.  I've had subs that I didn't own, I just played with them when I wanted and they were available.  But they were ownable, even though they didn't want to be owned.  Watch out for the hole there.  That is a pretty deep thought I just posed; and I don't want all the shallow thinkers to get stuck in it.

3/31/2012 9:50:32 AM

Happy weekend to all, or at least most of you.


I can't believe some of the things that go on here.  I need to clarify one thing that is not in my profile.  I didn't think it was really necessary to be honest.  I am DDF.  I intend to stay that way.  I have zero tolerance for drugs, with the exception of 420.  I do not tolerate or use any mind/state altering drugs.  Period.  Do not ask me if I like any of them.  I merely tolerate 420, but I still won't even use it.  I won't even use prescribed narcotics for pain unless it is absolutely necessary.  I am type A personality.  If you don't know what that is, look it up.  I suggest the pushers get a life or push themselves off a cliff to make room for decent people.

3/29/2012 6:46:10 PM

Something to think about:


I've been working on a slave for a long time now.  I've had several submissives that were a lot of fun to fuck around and play with.  But finding that one person that fills the place of service so desired by a Master/Dom is not the easiest task.  It's a lot like trying to find your boy/girlfriend that is more than just a hole to fuck.


I agree that not every Master/Dom is looking for a slave/sub to have a romantic relationship with, but it is necessary to find the right person for the position no matter if romance is desired or not.  Many like the no limits, tortureable and damagable boi/girl to serve them.  And plenty of them want that level of submission and control.  But then there are those that want to find a partner to love and play with.  And either type of submissive takes time to find.


Is your perfect Master/Dom/slave/sub on here?  Maybe.  Maybe not.  But you have to endure the search to find them.  But there is no place for jealousy.  No matter what the reason for it.  If you desire someone, then talk to them.  Appropriately and respectfully for the desired relationship.  But leave the teenage, high school bullshit where it belongs.  We are all adults here, so act like it.


You're going to run into fakes and flakes.  Believe me.  The world is full of them.  My search on CL was nothing but.  They email you with commitments and agreements.  And then they never show up to meet you.  Or they do meet you, but then realize they can't handle what they said they want and then disappear.  If you stay true to yourself, and hold your course; the flakes become easier to spot and weed out.  So keep at your search, and good luck.  Maybe, and I truly hope so, you can find that person that is your Master/Dom/slave/sub just as I have.

3/25/2012 8:13:16 PM

There are some major issues with this site.  Technically, it has very few issues.  Private chat could be better, and the filters for mail could be better as well.  But I am really talking about the users on here.


I know it is very hard to do.  And the published rate is obviously incorrect.  But it amazes me how many people cannot read.  Illiteracy is a big problem here, and it amazes me that these people can even put a profile together.  Or maybe they pay someone to type it all up for them.


But seriously, read before you message anyone on a site like this one.  We are all looking for something specific.  And it is very disrespectful for a sub or slave to contact a Dom assuming that they do not know what they truly want.  At least ask if we are willing to consider something outside of what our profiles say we are looking for.  Otherwise, do not expect any of us to give you the time of day.


As for me, I am not looking for anybody older than I am.  For a reason.  Or bigger than I am.  For a reason.  So I will no longer respond to the disrespectful people that cannot figure out that they should at least ask about my willingness to consider someone outside what I am looking for.  you can expect to be blocked without a response.


I am willing to consider making friends if you approach me in such a manner.

2/24/2012 3:11:04 PM

So it has come to my attention that there is someone on this site that likes me.  This is absolutely amazing.  I have been on here less than a week.  I've spent 6 months on CL trying to find what I'm looking for.  That place is full of flakes.  Good luck to anyone still searching there.


Now I wish I had checked this site out earlier.  But then, it does have its problems as well.  Like the people that still do not read a profile before contacting you.  Amazing what I apparently meant to write in my profile.


But then, I do need to give credit where credit is due.  Thank you to everyone that views my profile, and pays attention.  I don't have an issue with anyone sending me a message, I just want a message that is appropriate from you.  If you are at least close to what I ask for, then go ahead and see about being my slave.  If you are not close, don't try to be my slave.  It has nothing to do with wishing you to not have the control and discipline you need.  It's just, I'm not the one to give it to you.

2/23/2012 5:32:01 AM

So I set this profile up a few days ago.  It is amazing how few people in the world can read.  And I'm not talking about the ones that don't or haven't checked their messages.  I use the mouse over feature myself to quickly check my mail and open them as I see fit.


No, I'm talking about the people that check out your profile, and ignore what is written there.  Specifically the first part that describes what it is that I want for a slave.  But then they proceed to read into what I've written and assume it means something else.


A few tips to gain any respect from me.  Read the profile.  Pay attention to what is written in the profile.  Don't try to read between the lines, there's nothing there.  If you have questions about me after, ask them.  If you don't fit what I'm looking for in the opening of my profile, you can still contact me, but don't try to get me to change what I want because you think I'm looking at the wrong group.  Ask if I'm willing to consider something outside that first.


And a slave should never get pushy about setting up a meeting.  If you strike my fancy, I'll set it up.  But thanks to those that contact me and accept a not interested reply.  At least I said I wasn't interested instead of ignoreing you.

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