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Hello. Welcome. I know my profile is a bit lengthy, however, if you take the time to read even some of it, you will get a sense of what I seek in my life and what I do not. At 52-years old, one can only hope that I am clear about who I am, while still being open to what another has to offer, within my own values and personal desires. I generally don't initiate emails, so feel free to say hello if you are local, single (and unencumbered), dominant, not a 'player' (not a switch) and enjoyable to be around.
You:
You are LOCAL to the immediate SF Bay Area. Long distance no longer works in my life.
You are between 49 and your mid-60's.
You are intelligent, honest, caring, you inspire (rather than beat down) those in your life.
You have created your own successes and are proud of how you move through the world.
You have the ability to be in solitude, with someone or with a group of people.
You know how to have fun, how to laugh and be playful - balancing all of that with the life we each enjoy - BDSM.
You are at ease with who you are and wish to share that with a submissive who can meet you in these areas.
You are a non-smoker (ok, an occasional cigar isn't horrible!! ) and a social drinker.
You are pleased with your life and accomplishments, without being an arrogant jerk.
You have a great deal of real-time experience in BDSM (no, once every few years is not a great deal of experience, sorry).
You are SINGLE or completely DIVORCED (which means you are not "separated" with a pending divorce)! You are not a "player", liar or a game-player. It's such a turn-off.
You also know that even BDSM-based relationships require being honest and present and you are willing to bring your 100%, as am I.
You are quietly confident in your Dom/Master abilities and do not require all the pomp and circumstance or public events to display that you are a "Master".
You value your privacy and confidentiality with your submissive and desire to share this side with her - not with groups of people and traveling all over the country to BDSM parties and gatherings.
You understand that we are equal compatible opposites and we can each learn from one another.
Me:
I am 53-years-old, single, living in southern Marin County.
I am 5'9", (not a waif or model, nor obese)
I am a non-smoker
I drink socially (never think about it when I am alone, but I do enjoy red wines and an occasional vodka gimlet).
I am submissive behind closed doors (meaning, I am private about my submissive nature)
I am a successful business owner (which does NOT mean I wish to support you) ;), intelligent, insightful, observant, fun, creative and passionate; one who enjoys and appreciates the people, friends and successes in my life.
I am a 'thinking man's submissive'.
I am submissive - fully and completely - with the RIGHT dominant. AND yet, I choose not to submit to just anyone and have no interest to submit to someone after meeting them right off the bat. Some may consider that wanting to maintain "control" on my part. For me, it is about values. I personally do not value being intimate to someone whom I do not know or care about. So, why would submission be any different? I value true intimacy (and if you think that is solely about sex, you don't really know what that is about). If that is a problem and you do not have that kind of self-discipline or insight, I know you will not reply to this post.
I still maintain a hope of finding that local, mature, experienced, compatible BDSM counterpart.
We are equal compatible opposites. An odd concept for many, but true, nonetheless. He is my other half as i am his other half. He is not better than i, but we complement one another and fulfill that side of one another that we cannot fulfill ourselves The man that allows me to be wholly feminine as a balance to his being wholly masculine. I am there for him in his strength and in his most vulnerable moments, just as he is there for me in those same moments. When we are together, my surrender balances that masculine/dominant energy of his.
Where I grow and thrive in his every male trait - from his most confident to his most vulnerable, he becomes more through my unwavering pleasure, respect, and faith in him. This faith and respect is earned through the continuity of his words and the consistency of his actions.
He will never harm me, rather he seeks to give me the sublime pleasure only he is capable of giving through the beauty of BD/Ds and yes, S&M. He does not confuse S&M with true "harm". He will cherish me above all else as i will cherish him.
He is a wise dominant -recognizing that he need not demand my submission. He is experienced enough to know how to inspire my surrender. I am with him because i have chosen to submit and surrender and he has chosen me to watch over, to guide me to his likings and preferences. I will seek to anticipate what he wishes, and offer him all that he desires. In that, he will only wish to offer me all that i desire, as well - even when i don't necessarily know what that may be.
If you are local to the immediate SF Bay Area and fit the basic criteria I seek, please feel free to email me.
I wish you well in all that you seek.
Aurora
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I don't usually initiate an email. If you are interested, you are welcome to email. |
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Welll, a "summer" business project away turned into 8 months away! Holy moly! thankfully, I missed the bad weather that is now slamming the midwest and east coast. It's wonderful to be back home in Marin! :) |
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I am on the road with a project for much of the summer, unfortunately taking me out of the Bay Area far longer than I would like. Gosh, I miss the Bay Area. It is truly "home" for me. |
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No, I am not a switch. I LOVE my "dominant" role in my career and the vanilla aspects of my life - but not in the BDSM aspects of my life. |
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Local, local, local PLEASE! I am not relocating. I know, not very "submissive" of me. Local, please :) |
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Just back from a month long vacation - Istanbul, sailing/crewing the Turkish coast and some smaller Greek isles - then Paris -- what a wonderful month it was! Traveling and exploring is what I want to continue to experience for as long as possible. |
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No MARRIED MEN, No online role-play, No Long distance! Thanks for understanding. |
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I know that this will cause some to question whether I am a "true" submissive or not, but if you have an expectation that I submit to you in any way when we first meet face-to-face, you might want to find someone else. I am not seeking to submit just to prove to you that I am submissive. That mentality is for Jr. High schoolers, not for adults -- well, at least not for this adult. :) |
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For those who are married or separated, withholding that information with hope that your charms will make you irresistable and then telling me after we already have had some dialogue will not ever cause me to change my mind or priorities. The fact that you would play that game in hopes that I would shift my values sounds more like the behavior of a child rather than that of a mature, responsible and honorable man. I am seeking a relationship WITHOUT limitations - and being involved with a married or separated man, by definition comes with a boat load of limitations. That is not what I want in my life. Thank goodness, at 45-years-old, I am clear on what I do want in my life. :) |
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