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A different entry this in that I'm looking for someone who can be deeply submissive or someone who wants to be owned but my key aim is to find someone who can handle - in the real world - the role of personal assistant. Ideally therefore perhaps a "creme de la creme" PA who loves bdsm.
Physically you might be anything between your mid twenties to mid forties. You’re certainly slim (flat chest, flat tum, pert bum) and you’re probably not more than about 5’ 6” tall. You want (need) to be punished too at times. I’m looking for a relationship which, if we're lucky, will be long term and full time but could perhaps be part time.
I own and run my own company and so I enjoy life’s comforts and as I cut back my involvement in my business I want to continue to enjoy the advantages of having a competent personal assistant to make my life easy and to add to the fun.
Your role in life is to look after me, to serve me, to suffer for me, to ensure my happiness and to do this in a business and social context which demands quality skills; you need to be comfortable organising a board meeting or a private jet (or at very least able to become comfortable quickly).
Interestingly this total focus on me is clearly the role of a slave and one sees profile entries here in CM yearning for just this, but it seems foolish to me to say to someone "uproot your life and be my slave 24/7". And yet it seems to me entirely practical to say to someone "would you like a job, a significant career-change, hopefully a move for the better?". One could debate the differences and similarities between a master/slave relationship and an employer/employee relationship but if you haven't got the point by now you may not be suitable for this role.
Certainly I'm expecting an interestingly subtle and deeply personal relationship. You're someone who knows they need to be submissive but who is not, and never could be, a mindless wimp; someone who can and should be treated as a worthless slut but who behaves like a lady. Your character is fascinating - you are of course highly intelligent and capable but beyond that your profile is less clear.
Whatever your background, you’re bright and you’re good company. It may be that inside you have a conflict: you can see you are brighter than most people you know and yet you have a deep-seated need to be submissive. You feel more fulfilled being controlled than controlling and you enjoy giving satisfaction through serving. You feel this need for submission so much that you want (you need) at times to be made to suffer – bondage excites you and the physical pain of punishment gives you a high. You gain limited satisfaction, however, from submitting to just anyone – you find that confident, successful, older men are more interesting and dominate more naturally than younger men who try too hard to impress; you respect bulging biceps less than a strong mind.
You understand the importance of (and you need) physical punishment at times (which is why I’m looking here rather than through a job agency). Punishment of course is not on a daily basis – real life is not usually like that – but on occasion our arrangements would mean that punishment would be earned or deserved. We’d learn in time what was the most appropriate form for both of us.
I could go on but by now you’ve got the idea. If this interests you do please let me know and we can talk further.
And whilst I’m clear on what I’d prefer, I’m sensibly flexible on what might work; if a permanent arrangement were impractical I could imagine a temp position being satisfying too.
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