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OK, SUPPOSEDLY THIS ACCOUNT IS NOW UP AND RUNNING ... AND COLLARM SAYS YOU LITTLE SHITS HAVE BEEN SENDING MY MESSAGES TO JUNK MAIL!!!

wELL SEE HOW IT GOES BEFORE I SWITCH BACK HERE PERMANENTLY...
THIS PROFILE IS MALFUNCTIONING! I CAN RECEIVE MESSAGES BUT NOT ANSWER.
So read the profile and journal here .. and write me at my new account, AUNTYMAAM!
I will not respond to messages sent here!!!!

I am a No Nonsense Lady with a wicked sense of humor. You just know I have an implement of correction in the hand behind my back in my profile picture. But what sort of implement is it? You’ll just have to feel it to find out, LOL.

You might be the “boy nephew” or sub/sub couple for this Strict Aunt if you know what these abbreviations stand for:

WhAP
DWC
CFNM

I believe that boys respond best to a combination of chastity and chastisement: Caged and caned … locked and lashed … spanked but unwanked … swollen balls and swollen butt!

And girls ... usually respond to a good hair-pulling and lecture.

I am 53 years old, and relatively attractive in a Governess sort of way, as you can see. I was married for a long time and practiced Domestic Discipline. Now I am widowed and seek a younger man of 25-45 to serve me. You will be my “nephew” who has come to live with me to get your life together. Which you will, or your bottom will constantly be the color of this background!.

I also am open to a sub/sub couple. But you both must be truly submissive! No switches, let alone dominants!

Here is what you can expect, boy nephew (or niece and nephew):

1. You will respect and obey me at all times. I will always be addressed as “Ma’am” or “Aunty.” You will be addressed as “boy.” You will do my bidding, regardless of what it is. The phrase you will speak over and over again is, “Yes, Ma’am.”

2. You will be naked inside my home -- unless you are in one of the uniforms we will get you: butler, chauffeur, French maid. When I have vanilla company you will be in a uniform or locked in the small room I have prepared for you. When I have lifestyle company you may be naked in front of them.

3. You will be subject to regular corporal punishment, for misbehavior, for “maintenance,” and for my entertainment. It will be a rare day when my nephew is not thrashed. And I love to see tears. A niece will not be exempt, either.

4. My nephew will wear a chastity device when not in my presence. However, I like to see my naked boy walking around the house hard, so you better be able to get it up and keep it up. If you are a sub/sub couple, the girl will prick-tease the boy to the point of torture while I laugh.

5. You will work outside the home or have independent income, as you will pay modest “rent” for the privilege of serving me (like renting a room). At work my nephew will be in the chastity device, of course.

6. You will do all of the housework and yard work, and you better do it right or you will get a whipping.

7. You will have no orgasms outside of my presence, and of course only with my permission. Orgasms are not a right, they are a privilege. All cum will be recycled. That means you eat it. With a sub/sub couple, she may choose to volunteer to eat it for him. Or laugh with me while he recycles!

8. My nephew will be subject to CBT. I especially like to smack erections. I find the boy’s reaction quite entertaining. Both boys and girls will be subject to nipple torture.

9. In public with me, you will usually be in uniform. You will be subject to humiliation in public. I lecture, slap faces, pull hair, make you kneel, announce what will happen when we get home, etc.

I have not decided if we will have any kind of sexual contact. Sex for my nephew may be limited to you jacking off in front of me and then consuming it while I laugh. Or it may be much more than that. Your cock, like your tongue, will belong to me. With sub couples, your every sex act will be under my control.

Here are the characteristics you must have. Be a good boy and read carefully:

You are likely between 25 and 45, though I may consider other ages. You must be relatively attractive. Of course, I will be the judge of that. You must have a picture that shows YOUR FACE on your profile or send such a picture when you write. You must be able to relocate, and have a career skill which makes you employable just about anywhere. The only alternative would be if you own a nice house. I then might consider relocating to you.

You will address me as “Ma’am” in your messages. Your first message should begin, “Dear Ma’am,” to prove that you have read through my entire profile.

Special consideration will be given to those who actually have lived in a Domestic Discipline or Dominance/submission relationship, who own and have worn a chastity device, who are especially handy around the house or with cars, who are suberb cooks, or who have extensive experience with any of the items listed above.

I look forward to meeting my “nephew.”

Please note: While I will consider a sub/sub couple, a will only consider single females AFTER I have found a nephew.

Aunty Ma’am

3/22/2008 3:52:24 PM

OK, SUPPOSEDLY THIS ACCOUNT IS NOW UP AND RUNNING ... AND COLLARM SAYS YOU LITTLE SHITS HAVE BEEN SENDING MY MESSAGES TO JUNK MAIL!!!

wELL SEE HOW IT GOES BEFORE I SWITCH BACK HERE PERMANENTLY...

HELP, SUBBIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am receiving mail, but the mail I am sending is not reaching people, even though it says that it has been read.

PLEASE UNDERSTAND, IF YOU WRITE TO ME HERE I CANNOT WRITE BACK!!! SO READ THE PROFILE HERE BUT THEN WRITE TO ME AT AUNTYMAAM.

Here are all the people I have written to … in alphabetical order! (that took a long time).

acuckoldsucker

AlternateMan

atomant94560

barbitv53

bbg257708

BeaumontSubMale

bigdawg28

blistermybottom

bluetuesday

BrianSub1

bttrflysub

cabbie

caned

CanPleaseU2

cdcrystalgurl2

chrisSmith

collegecareerman

crissytv100

CuteSubMale

cyclingsub

dafreak

Dartagnan44

disciplinedfocus

DitaAnne

docileventenne

Drxxxxxph

DT26

ebonyslv

engineersub

Epok

esclavenico

Frances

goodotk

goodslaveboy40

italiansubmale

Jennicdboston

jonnel

kiltedandkinky

kinkyATL

LINDERMAXWELL

maleslave4usenow

mariatvuk

maryannstpierre

mathias123

milles

Mistresss

mommyslilson

ndm13

NealForHer

new101

niece2Aunty

ocsurftoy

olderslave4home

overtheknee4you

pawne8

rda61483

reeducated

risub1968

Rolly67

seeksWHAPwife

Serfboi

ServingMlady

sexyluv100

SirAxis

sissylittleone

sissyslut69

spankedkass

slave2abuse

slave24seven

slavebboy

SlaveBoySteven

slavefromitaly

slavegary1198

SlaveNothing

slaverobby

SlinkyCD

slurp

sub8568

subbie1001

subbie6

subbseeksu

subman11

submissiveman4u2

submissivepearl

subnikki08

thebutler

tonishowponi

toserveandamuse

TwistedSlave41

USayIDo

VeryVeryNawty

victoriacd

vincent20

whiteslavecpl

Wyntersblase

Yankee560

YMCC

ymforow

Yours4service

Yvonnecd02

 

3/22/2008 11:43:26 AM
I am not an expert on chastity devices. Mostly the CB series... If I could find something more severe and secure that still allows for urination and defecation, that would be ideal. Anybody know about such?

Aunty Maam
3/22/2008 11:22:13 AM
Here's a clue, boys: If I view your full profile, I may be interested in getting an introduction from you (if I haven't already), or a second message if I have.

It does make sense to check "who's viewing me."

Just a little common sense. Oh yes, I forgot that most boys don't have that!

Aunty Maam
3/22/2008 7:51:30 AM
Sigh...

I have updated my profile with my city of residence. I had left that off because I did not want California boys to think I was too far away. But I am getting so many one-line emails asking me where I live. Which just shows how ignorant they are, since collarme now tells how many miles a person is away from you. I guess that technically they don't know which direction.

I do not want to be inundated with San Diego boys who don't qualify. And I don't want any boy anywhere to think they are too far away. If you are not relocatable than I am -- for the right situation. I don't work and my house can be sold -- or kept.

I do love San Diego, though. Perfect climate, book stores, music, Gas Lamp, neighborhoods. It's a big city that also is a small town. I would only leave for the perfect nephew.

Aunty Maam
3/22/2008 5:01:52 AM
This is a note to all Trans. It does NOT mean I have changed my interest in a nephew, just that I have broadened my scope. Full boys are still invited to apply.

Dear Trans:

I've been thinking about this possibility, and actually looking at some profiles to hear what you have to say, and it seems that what would work for me in the Trans community is a crossdresser ... and probably not the others.

I want a boy/girl who is comfortable being either gender, in public and at home ... and will do so at MY whim and command, not his/her desire. S/he should be able to PASS in public as either gender.

S/he must have a cock that can get erect so that I can tease and torment it (though it will have no sex). A Trans for me could be gay, bi or straight, since s/he won't be getting much anyway, locked away in a chastity device. I will tease you with whatever gets you hard -- boy or girl visitors who will stick it in your face and tease you with what you won't get. All orgasms will be under my command and will be EARNED.

Not to be negative, but here is my list of "don'ts":

1. I don't want a Trans who always has to dress as a woman.
2. I don't want a Trans who is pre-op to the point of not being able to get an erection.
3. I don't want a Trans who needs to take it up the butt ... or even have regular sexual contact of any kind with men. You might occasionally get to swap BJ's for my enjoyment.
4. I don't want a Trans who is definitely on the path to operation and total conversion.
5. I don't want a Trans who has an issue with performing any duty that is traditionally male or female: You will be a French Maid AND a Butler.

This likely eliminates a lot of you. But maybe there are a few out there who will apply!

Aunty Maam
3/21/2008 4:17:34 AM
Whether or not you believe in Easter, spring is the time of renewal. The whole world begins growing again. It is the season of hope.

You'all know what I am hoping for.

Aunty Maam
3/20/2008 5:08:58 AM
My vagina has had its fun. It is now retired.

My clit is semi-retired. It can occasionally be lured "back to work" by a tongue-wagging "pup."

My whipping hand will never retire. I will be buried with a hairbrush in it. Seriously; it's in my will.

Aunty Maam
3/20/2008 4:57:39 AM
I have received many well-written deferential interesting messages from men older than me.

Are all guys younger than 45 stupid? Or are they too busy wanking to be able to write a serious letter.

Aunty Maam
3/20/2008 4:55:55 AM

For all you guys typing one-handed:

I do not respond to chat requests.
I do not respond to be added to your friends when you have't even written.
I do not webcam.

I do IM. once I am interested at "level 1."
I do telephone once I am interested at "level 2.".
I do meet in a public place once I am interested at "level 3."
I do have weekend tryouts once I am interested at "level 4."

If you can't figure out "level 5," then I am not interested!

3/19/2008 8:54:13 PM
I long for an intelligent service boy. Someone who doesn't send one sentence at a time. A boy who thinks with the head on his shoulders, not the head in his hand.

Aunty Maam
3/19/2008 8:53:48 PM
Here's something that will get you deleted quickly: Have something in your profile that is contrary to the message you send me. You think I don't look at the full profile if I am the least bit interested?

Aunty Maam
3/19/2008 7:15:56 PM
I hav changed my profile to allow for the acceptance of sub/sub couples. Must both be subs!

Of course, such couples are very few and far between....

Aunty Maam
3/19/2008 4:00:48 AM
I do NOT want your money. I want you to pay a modest rent to augment my modest retirement. I do not want your retirement account, your savings account, your investments. You might not get to spend any of that under my command (unless it is needed for health insurance or whatever), but you certainly can and should will it to your children or other loved ones.

"Modest rent" means what you would pay for a one-bedroom apartment in California. Which may not be considered modest to some, particularly from elsewhere in the country....

Aunty Maam
3/19/2008 3:48:29 AM
I have relaxed my profile somewhat, including the age restriction.

But I just can't take on anyone in their 50's or older. There has to be some age difference.

I understand not putting a picture up with your profile, but anyone not willing to send me a picture with their introduction is not serious. Sure it's a risk -- I could spread it around the internet. So what? You can be fully clothed, totally vanilla. Just show your face. That could wind up on the internet from anywhere.

Aunty Maam
3/19/2008 3:38:41 AM
It is a fact of human history that men can't keep their cocks in their pants ... or loin cloths ... or whatever the cavemen wore. It's an urge of nature for them to spread their seed around ...

Even our so-called moral leaders in the priesthood can't restrict their fucking to their good right hand. Which honestly surprises me because I have seen so many boys have so much ecstatic fun jacking off. Most guys past the age of early 20's get off much faster in the hand then in a pussy ... or even a mouth. Of course, their hand knows exactly how to make them feel. The young guys might get off faster in a pussy, but that's because they're premature ejaculators.

A boy with me can earn a wanking on a regular basis. If he is especially good, I will offer him a handjob, though I have found that many guys prefer to do it themselves ... in front of me. That makes them really hot, to perform for me.

Look at the porn kindg: They have trained themselves so that the only way they can cum is in their hand! So the actual FEEL (without the mental part) of the hand must be superior.

I KNOW that boys get more pleasure fucking their hand, with much less anxiety than pussy (Am I getting her off? Does she think my dick is big enough?). But still they go after fresh pussy, ruining their relationships and their lives.

I figure there are two reasons: After a while, even the best things (hand-fucks) get boring. Maybe it's like too much ice cream: It always tastes delicious, but you can't have it every meal.

This nephew who was with me for six months said he had everything he wanted, that he was gloriously happy. And he acted that way, too. But there he was, slipping out of his chastity device and fucking some whore at work who wasn't even good-looking. So he got the boot, despite his begging and pleading and promising. Though I thrashed him really good before I threw him out.

So where is the true submissive boy who really wants to be under the strict hand of an older woman -- and KNOWS he doesn't need pussy to be happy? Maybe I need a gay guy who wants to be dominated by a mother type. But then he'll be chasing cock, I guess. Sigh.

Comments appreciated!

Aunty Maam
3/18/2008 8:04:48 PM
Hi,

I am hearing from so many girls: born, CD, TV, TS, TG ... and I appreciate it. ... At the same time, my profile and journal are quite clear: I seek a nephew with a cock that can get hard for me to tease and torture (though it will never enter me).

So all of you born guys, PLEASE understand: You would have to have a cock that works and be willing to dress as a boy at times. If your goal is to be female 24/7, then I respect you and wish you well ... but you are not what I am seeking.

Having said that, a niece is not out of the question ... once I have the nephew. The niece could be a born female or male, but must be willing to be dominant over the nephew, since the male must be at the bottom in my house.

Aunty Maam
3/18/2008 4:36:14 AM
You can catch my attention by telling me about your childhood. We may all be hardwired for domination or submission, but what happens in childhood still is crucial. So I want to know about the power dynamic in your family of origin -- who controlled you, punished you, cared for you, and in what manner they did so.

And childhood continues to 18, if not 21. After all, adults can drink and kids can't! So include the power dynamic in your early dating experiences.... And any information about being bi, gay or straight as you grew up...

Aunty Maam
3/16/2008 6:58:36 AM
I don't have a great body.

You'll worship it anyway.

Aunty Maam
3/16/2008 6:55:29 AM
You know what's really funny? I've been gone for six months, and now when I go through the messages, about half of them are from accounts that no longer exist. Now do you think all of those boys found their true love and are living happily ever after? Or do you think they are wankers who got scared and dropped off?

Aunty Maam
3/16/2008 6:51:16 AM
Here's a single-sentence warning: I do not reply to single-sentence messages.

Aunty Maam
3/16/2008 3:13:11 AM
sam (makemeYourgrl) can write me again if you have a new profile...

3/16/2008 2:43:36 AM
There really is no reason not to send me a picture.

I understand not posting one with your profile, being a 'fraidy cat for whatever reason.

But you certainly can send one with your polite introduction.

Messages without pictures get read last ... if at all.

And one-liners get recycled. Like your cum should be.

Aunty Maam
3/16/2008 2:41:21 AM
I have dismissed my nephew. He worked out fairly well for six months ... 33 and a very spankable butt. Turns out, though, that he was shagging a girl at work. He found one of the CB3000 keys and was getting out of the device. I discovered the extra key missing, and when I confronted him he lied about it. Now see, if he had told the truth I might have kept him (and beat the hell out of him). I know male animals have that uncontrollable urge to spread their seed around. But when a boy lies to my face about something important ... Well, I expect him to lie about whether he got in the cookie jar, but not about whether he's getting some at work. Funny about that, isn't it? "Little" lies are acceptable (I don't call them white lies because that's probably a racist term); in fact, little lies are fun to punish. But big ones are a big problem.

So ... after many months not on collarme ... I will accept introductions from nephews (and maybe even nieces or service couples...)
7/5/2007 7:30:47 PM
The second pic is up. It was taken several years ago. Yes, that is my husband's bare bottom I am caning. And yes, I miss his subbie butt. And yes, I am lefthanded -- you spankos who are used to getting it worse on your right cheek from a righthanded Domme ... will get it worse from me on the LEFT cheek!

You like the governess or strict headmistress look? I am very much into CFNM -- You might NEVER see me nude, unless I let you be my bath attendant.

Aunty Ma'am
7/4/2007 12:11:23 PM

I thought I would share some of my life story as it relates to D/s:

 

I was raised in a matriarchal spanking household – to none of your surprise, I’m sure. This was in Pittsburgh in the 50’s and 60’s. My parents actually had a seemingly traditional relationship. He worked and she stayed home and raised the kids: Me and two younger brothers, spaced out by two years each. Mother cooked and did most housework; Dad (and later the boys) did all the yard work.

 

There was (seemingly) little that was nontraditional. But we did have a rule that “the one who cooks doesn’t clean up,” which meant my Dad almost always did the dishes (until the kids were old enough to help). Dad also cleaned the bathrooms. He did this on Saturday morning, when all of us from a very young age had “Saturday duties.” The most public nontraditional thing was that my Dad did the laundry (also on Saturdays), including hanging it out on the line, where (I later realized) all the neighbors could see the man doing "woman’s work".

 

My parents were fairly strict and believed in corporal punishment; each of the three kids had a paddle with our nickname on it hanging in full view in the kitchen. My name is Margaret but I went by Maggie – and the nickname on my paddle was “Naggie” (as in nag). From a very young age I was known as the “Little Boss” of the neighborhood, organizing games and telling just about anyone what to do – including adults. Most of my paddlings were for “being bossy.”

 

My mother did all of the spanking. This did not seem odd to us, since she was home with us all day (and in the afternoons after school once we got to that age). Mother never said “Just wait till your father gets home,” in fact, she seldom even told him about spankings during the day. She just took care of it, and the beauty of spankings was (and is) that the offense is paid for quickly – and then the issue is over, with no need for lengthy discussion or reporting to the spouse.

 

Mother almost always spanked in the kitchen, since that’s where she usually was. She would order us, “Go get your paddle,” and then she would pull out a chair from the kitchen table and sit on it. We would come by her left side (like me, she was lefthanded) and we would stand up straight, still holding the paddle, while she gave us a little lecture about what we had done. We then had to repeat our transgression so she was sure we understood it; this was difficult, since we were mostly worried about the pain to come, rather than listening.

 

She then would say, “Hand me Naggie. Now pull down your pants and get over.” She did not say “get over my knee” or “bend over.” It was always “get over.” I will never forget that.

 

She always paddled bare. She said that was “necessary for the full effect.”  If I had shorts or long pants on, I pulled them and my underpants down together. If I had a skirt on, I reached up under it and pulled down my panties – which mother always called “pants.” She didn’t seem to differentiate boy and girl underwear, or even underpants and “overpants.”

 

We then would “get over” and she would go to work. She did not count, she just kept on smacking our bare bottoms until she thought we had gotten the message. She asked questions as she spanked: “Will you ever spill the milk and not clean it up again?” “What are you going to do the next time you spill the milk?” She expected appropriate answers, too, so you had to actually pay attention, which was no easy task. She also liked to ask, “Have you learned your lesson?” Of course we always said “yes,” to which she often replied, “Not yet, you haven’t!” I had something of a sassy mouth, and once said, “Well, then, why did you ask?” She absolutely blistered my butt; I never again sassed her while across her knee – which was a pretty stupid thing to do!

 

Mother did not care who was in the kitchen when she decided one of us needed a spanking. The three kids regularly saw each other’s bare bottoms turning bright red, and we were spanked in front of relatives, her friends, our friends, and I even once got it in front of the Fuller Brush man (for those of you who know who that was).  He probably couldn’t wait to get out to his truck and get his hand in his pants.

 

The paddles hung in a row on hooks by the kitchen door. Three with our nicknames on them, as I said – plus a fourth one, larger than the others, with no writing on it. As little kids we would ask, “Whose paddle is that?” and she would say mysteriously, “That’s Mommy’s little helper.” It wasn’t till I was about 11 that I figured out that it was for Dad – that she spanked HIM too! I had sort of guessed at the possibility, but one night I actually heard him getting it. We never ever saw Dad getting spanked, and it apparently always happened well after we were sent to bed. But as I got older and stayed up later in my room and went down the hall to the bathroom, which wasn’t that far from their bedroom, I could hear the swats and his grunts and her firm lecturing voice. When I told my younger brothers about it, they did not believe me at first, but as they got older they realized it was true.

 

Speaking of brothers, they got it much more than I did – which is common in spanking families. They were more blatant in their mischief, that’s for sure; I was devious and seldom got caught. But it wasn’t just that. Mother liked to say, “Girls obey words, boys obey whacks.” She would tend to talk to me, and explain the issue, and get me to explain it back, whereas with the boys it was straight over her knee.

 

Once I turned 12, and started babysitting them, I began spanking them myself. They were 10 and 8 and did not think they needed to listen to their big sister. It was the 8-year-old I spanked first; he did something (I don’t recall what), and I said “Go get your paddle” –

and he did! I paddled him in the same chair my mom used. The 10-year-old heard it and came rushing in just as I was finishing and said, “You don’t have to let her do that!” The 8-year-old had just got off my lap and was crying, rubbing his eyes with his pants down around his ankles. “She made me,” he said. And then he said something I hadn’t even thought of: “I knew if I didn’t get over that she would tell Mom. And Mom hits harder!”

 

With that, a look of acknowledgement came over the 10-year-old’s face – and a bright light went on for me. “Now YOU go get YOUR paddle!” I said to the 10-year-old. And I whacked him good, which the 8-year-old quite enjoyed.

 

That began a six-year-run of little brother spanking, which mother approved of, saying that when she was gone, I was “in charge.” That only ended when I went off to college – and they were 16 and 14 and would get little hard-ons when I made them pull down their pants. Which I have to admit I truly enjoyed – and is probably a big part of the reason I want a nephew now!

 

7/4/2007 3:51:02 AM
For all the married guys who have contacted me, most of whom start with the lie: "My wife knows all about my search for a woman like you, and she doesn't mind":

Submit to your wife

Do ALL the housework. Get up early or stay up late to beat her to it. Ease the broom right out of her hand with the words, "Please, Ma'am, that should be my job." Tell her: "Doing toilets is beneath you. That's a servant hubbie's task."

Lick her whenever she wants it, and never ask for a blowjob again. Your cock will survive feeling only pussy lips, without face lips! Learn to enjoy cunnilingus so much that you do not brush your teeth afterwards: You WANT her taste on your lips.

Tell her that spankings will make you a better boy, that you are somewhat immature (as she well knows), and that when she is aggravated with you, corporal punishment might work better than the fights you have been having. Then WAIT. She may have to think about this. 

Ask her to look at the following really classy informative site by finding the link for:

"Real women don't do housework"

Your Domme is right in front of you.

Aunty Ma'am

P.S. And stop bothering me! I seek a live-in nephew! How could a married man fill that role? Have a divorce judgment in hand before you even THINK about writing me!
7/3/2007 4:36:34 AM
Hopefully a second pic will be up soon. The color is poor, as I had to scan a print. It is several years ago, of me caning my husband. (I have cropped out all but the edge of his bare butt.)

I do have that strict matron look!

Aunty Ma'am
7/3/2007 4:33:07 AM
It occurs to me that there is one time when you would be vanilla in my home: When your
child(ren) would be visiting (if you have any).

If you have no children, you would never be vanilla. In fact, I would quite enjoy seeing you sign for a UPS package in your French maid's outfit!
7/3/2007 4:23:58 AM
Boys (and girls): I WILL give you a humilation assignment early in our conversations. And I will have a way of proving you did it, like talking to a salesgirl or waitress or ...

This proves two things to me, both of which I require:

1. That you follow directions.

2. That you accept embarrassment.

Anybody who has good ideas for such assignments may send them to me. The one I tried recently was to send a boy to Victoria's Secret and tell the salesgirl he was buying panties for himself and ask for her help. He also had to get her name and the store phone number so that I could call.

How about others?
7/3/2007 4:20:41 AM
A couple of things:

One way I am going to weed down the list: If you have children under 18, then moving to live with me must not take you farther from your children.

Aunty-nephew certainly could be considered age-play. But I am definitely not into adult-minor play. I don't want to read any such stories or descriptions in your emails to me. I'm talking about any form of sexual play. I don't mean corporal punishment. Aunts spank nephews all the time without it crossing the line of being sexual.

But remember, my primary interest is a boy (or girl) WILLINGLY giving up control, AGREEING to bend over my knee. I might use minimal force, like taking you by the ear. But you actually are still going willingly. That's why I'm not much into bondage. For you to have the self-control to stay in position during a severe whipping is much more exciting to me than tying you down and giving you the same whipping. Your self-control is a gift. Tying you down is a "taking." I much prefer the gift.


Aunty Ma'am
7/3/2007 3:54:55 AM
I don't smoke.

I have occsionally lit up a cigar in order to blow smoke in a subbie's face and flick the ashes in his mouth. And stub it out on his ass. (OK, I didn't actually do that, buit I would.)

Now I'm going to get a million messages from smoke fetishists!

I do NOT have a foot fetish. I like foot massages, but I do not want your mouth on my toes. I don't care if you want to polish my shoes with your tongue, though.
7/2/2007 4:33:35 AM
Just to clarify the sexuality issue for you boys (especially those who list themselves as "trans"):

I definitely would accept a crossdresser -- what we used to call a "transvestite."

I definitely would not accept a born male without a penis -- what I call a "transsexual." I want a penis to do CBT on and make fun of and stick out while you are doing chores naked.

I will not accept a gay boy; I want a boy who is excited by me and wants me  -- and whom I will enjoy teasing and denying.

I will not accept a boy who considers himself to currently be bisexual -- that is, he still hopes to have sex with a man sometime in the future. That's because I want this relationship to be for life. Boys who list themselves this way will be ordered to give up the thought -- and change their profile -- to be considered.

I will definitely consider a totally straight guy -- though at the very least you will occasionally wear a French maid's uniform. You don't have to like it, though.

I will consider a niece (a biological female) -- after I have a nephew!

I hope this helps!

Aunty Ma'am
7/2/2007 4:12:38 AM
I have gone to "stage two" with a couple of prospective nephews. But that doesn't mean I have excluded anybody that I have responded to.

Aunty Ma'am
7/1/2007 10:07:22 AM
I moved this message forward because I wanted more to read it:

I can cum without touching my clit.

One of the most exciting things I ever saw was a demonstration in which a guy came without anything touching his cock. He followed the commands of his Mistress, watching and listening to her, and THOUGHT himself to an ejaculation. (She did flog his ass to get him extra hard, and also caressed his face, and both yelled at him and cooed in his ear, but nothing touched his cock.)

That ability is much rarer in men than women. Of course, women have a more highly developed imagination, and much more self-control....

I would be glad to talk with a boy who has experience cumming without touching. Of course, I might make you prove it....

Aunty Ma'am

P.S. He squirted on her boot (and the floor). Do you know what happened next?
7/1/2007 9:59:40 AM
I do love humiliation. It's an incredible turn-on for me when a boy is red at both ends.

Red cheeks on the bottom from what I did to him physically.

Red cheeks on the top from what I did to him emotionally.

It's fun to have a contest: Which set of cheeks is redder?

Aunty Ma'am
7/1/2007 9:43:19 AM
I am blunt. I am brusque. But I am not rude, as some on here have accused me.

I don't curse at you bad boys. I don't call you names. I just tell the truth as I see it. Which is all the truth you need to hear.

Aunty Ma'am
7/1/2007 9:39:45 AM

About half the messages I get are one line long with no picture. I can't delete them fast enough.

Boys who are so disobedient that they cannot read an entire profile and follow the instructions are of absolutely no interest to me.

They are just wankers.

I want a boy who can go a month without wanking. These guys can't read for five minutes without their cock spurting all over the keyboard!

I hope the keyboard jams up and they have to take it to be fixed and the technician says, "Why is it all sticky?" LOL

Aunty Ma'am

7/1/2007 5:03:39 AM
Sigh...

I spent quite a bit online with a boy named paulie. As I plan to do with all prospective nephews, I gave him a humiliation assignment. I told him to go to Victoria's Secret and buy panties and tell the salesgirl they were for him and ask her to help him with sizing, etc.

He claimed to have done it and described the experience in detail. But when I asked for her name and the phone number of the VS, so I could confirm he had actually done it, he promised to send the info the next day -- and then disappeared.

I'm sure he had fun wanking.

I don't seek a wanker. I seek a real service-sub nephew!

Aunty Ma'am
7/1/2007 4:08:55 AM
I don't mind if you are somewhat overweight. You won't be after a few months with me, as I will control all of your food and all of your activity, with regular punishments for not reaching your weight goal.

Obesity, on the other hand, is a problem because it is a medical condition.

And remember, I give priority to boys who can pass as girls, and that means being thin.

I also give preference to boys 5-10 or under. The slighter the better.

This is NOT to say I wouldn't acccept a nephew who is 6-4 and 250. It's a preference to be slight, not a requirement. And eventually you would be 6-4 and 190.

I'll whip it off you!

Aunty Ma'am
7/1/2007 4:00:10 AM
The one-line question I get most is, "Where in California are you?"

Which just proves they did not read my profile.


7/1/2007 3:49:57 AM
I really really really like a boy who can pass as a girl in public.

This is not a requirement, just an advantage. For you to be my nephew OR my niece! We would get you two chauffeur outfits, one with a skirt. Oh my!

Aunty Ma'am



7/1/2007 3:47:16 AM
I do not switch.

I do not want a switch.

I will not correspond with boys who list themselves as switches.

What, do you think I'm going to let you dominate your girlfriend in front of me?

You can't possibly think I am ever going to sub for you!

Aunty Ma'am
7/1/2007 3:43:20 AM

If you have kids under the age of 18, they should be your FIRST priority! I will not consider a nephew who wants to move farther from his kids to be with me.

There is no greater turnoff than a parent who turns away from parental responsibilities.

You can be a great sub and still be a great parent! Those who do not believe this are idiots.

Aunty Ma'am

6/30/2007 1:24:40 PM

For those who may think otherwise, I am extremely sexual. When the boy is nude and I am clothed, it makes me wet. When the boy is cleaning house in his French maid's outfit while I sit in my easy chair and watch, it makes me wet. When I slap his hard cock, it makes me wet. When out in public he walks one step behind me and to the left, in the "heel" position, it makes me wet. When I am thrashing his bare bottom, it makes me wet. When he says, "Thank you, Ma'am, may I please have another?" it makes me wet. When he begs and pleads and cries real tears, it makes me extremely wet.

Just because I seldom allow oral, and seldom use a cock for anything other than a CBT toy does NOT mean I am not sexual.

The turn-on for me is power and control. When I take power, it excites me, When a boy willingly gives me the gift of total control over him, it makes me the wettest of all. Like when I send him for the cane, and he brings it to me, and kneels down before me with his eyes downcast, and holds the cane out in both hands, and whispers, "Please correct me, Aunty," knowing that he will be crying and begging and pleading and will have welts that last for days. Such a gift!

Aunty Ma'am

6/27/2007 3:38:16 AM
Dear boys (and occasional girl)

I have been away for a couple of days addressing some health concerns which have turned out not to be serious. PATIENCE to all boys with whom I had arranged a chat.

I hope to catch up with my mail this evening.

Hail to all early risers!

Aunty Ma'am
6/23/2007 7:21:43 PM
I have gotten messages from several supposedly dominant men. I'm not surprised by this ... just a little irritated.

I have found that most men who claim to be dominant are really what I would call "serial switches." That is, every few months they have a need to submit. They usually do this with someone who does not know them as dominant (often a professional). That is, they are only dominant to some people (women) and only submissive to others. This is different from a "full switch," who wants to alternate being dom and sub with the same people (which is very rare).

These serial switches do not identify themselves as switches because they know that most sub women would not consider them if the women knew. Most sub women who see their dom submit lose respect for that dom.

I understand serial switches and have no problem with it. Professional Dominatrixes frequently talk about the high-powered men who come to be beaten and dominated. It's a form of periodic "release" from the tensions of being in charge so much.

What irritates me is that these guys would contact me, knowing that I am looking for a permanent nephew who is submissive 24/7.

But ... I would consider meeting with one of these dominant guys -- WITH THE WOMAN THAT HE IS DOMINATING. That's right, I want to beat and humiliate the so-called dom in front of his girlfriend. The chances are likely that one of two things will happen: She will dump him, or she will turn dominant over him. Either way, I have furthered the cause of female supremacy!

Aunty Ma'am
6/23/2007 7:08:56 PM

Just so you know -- I read EVERY SINGLE EMAIL ... before I delete most of them. The main reasons for deletion are:

1. No picture.
2. Wrong age.
3. Did not follow directions.

It's amazing how many naughty boys cannot follow directions!

Oh, and several girls have written me without even TRYING to follow the directions in my profile. Do you think you are exempt because of your gender? No way, girlie....

 

6/21/2007 7:45:21 PM
Another thing that will help your chances is to include your picture in each and every message on collarme, so I can remember who you are. There are so many "nephews" that it's all a blur!

Aunty Ma'am
6/21/2007 7:17:17 PM
Oh, yes ... another thing that gets my attention is if you have absolutely no hair on your body other than the top of your head.... and can prove it.
6/20/2007 9:59:22 PM
I am keeping up with the messages! But not with yahoo chat. I have several boys I have given my chat ID to, but have not yet talked with. Be patient! I am still interested!

Speaking of chat, to me it is rude for boys to include phone numbers, e-mail addresses or chat ID's in their initial e-mail. Very presumptuous.

Ways to get my attention: Do everything asked in my profile. Do enough research to explain the three abbreviations. Send a picture of you dressed UP! (Either as a male or a female, LOL). Spell well. Sign your first name. Provide some detail but don't write a book! Don't include what I haven't asked for.

Aunty Ma'am
6/20/2007 2:41:45 PM
I have been contacted by several young ladies asking about being my "niece." Might be an interesting idea: A nephew and a niece together!
She would have to understand that she would be serving alongside a man. Which would drive him even more crazy: A cute naked girl that he wasn't allowed to touch!

While I am dominant to all, and would use corporal punishment with her, I do not engage in humiliation with women. For that reason, she would probably have a place slightly above the nephew.

I have not "been" with a female since I was a 14-year-old virgin -- and that was a LONG time ago! Not sure how I feel about that possibility.

I haven't really had a chance to think much about having a niece as well as a nephew, but it's an interesting thought!
6/19/2007 6:48:15 PM
OK, yesterday I actually kept up with all the messages, but tonight I get home from work and I have pages and pages of them.

But that's all right. I seek a nephew who has the virtue of patience. This is a rare quality in a male, who mostly can't wait to get his rocks off.

But I seek a boy who can chauffeur me somewhere and then wait by the car for hours -- maybe wishing he were inside with me, but never being so rude as to complain. I seek a boy who can serve as a waiter at dinner parties, standing still in the corner with his eyes on me until I give him a hand signal for service. I seek a boy who can wait a really long time for an orgasm -- and crave that anticipation and get harder and harder just dreaming of the day when I finally say "yes, you may cum, nephew."

So ... the boy I seek may very well be among these 100 unread messages. And he will not lose heart. He will wait ... to hear from his aunty!
6/18/2007 9:14:47 PM
You know what impresses me? A picture of a boy really dressed up. In a suit, or even a tux.

I'll expect you to dress as a butler or chauffeur. So you need to look good dressed up.

It's incredible how many pics show boys dressed sloppily. Who is that impressing? I asked one boy for a dressier pic and he sent me one of him in a polo shirt. Another guy said he owns one suit but never wears it. Wow -- how impressive.

I wear skirts. Just about always. I like to look nice. See the photo?

Make a little effort to do the same.

I'd much rather see you in a suit than see a picture of your cock. Guess which I've gotten more of so far!

Aunty Ma'am
6/18/2007 9:07:36 PM
It's amazing how many silly boys want to know what city I live in. As if I didn't INTENTIONALLY leave that out.

I'm seeking a boy who can relocate. So what does it matter what city I am in?

I'd have left the state out to, but collarme makes you pick one.

Aunty Ma'am
6/18/2007 6:38:56 PM
I like my feet massaged, but I don't like them licked, or my toes sucked on. That just feels weird.

I do like my boots and shoes licked, though. I like the humiliation of it. Plus it keeps them clean so I can wear them indoors.

Aunty Ma'am
6/18/2007 6:21:47 PM
For those into detail ... if and when I ever get to telephone with you ...

I pronouce it "Awn-ty" (rhymes with Monte as in full monty) and not "Anne-ty" (rhymes with panty as in your French maid panty outfit).

"Awnty" is the southern pronunciation, and I prefer it.

You may spell it with a "y" or an "ie." Makes no nevermind.

Aunty Ma'am
6/18/2007 6:05:12 PM
I don't think much of the male ass. The female ass is much prettier.

I'm really not into ass play. I strap-on occasionally for the Dominance aspect, especially to humiliate a boy.

But if you dream of having your ass played with, look elsewhere.

6/18/2007 6:02:52 PM
I seek a boy between 25-45 years of age. I have made that crystal clear.

I have had to block several older men. I understand that they would like me to be interested. But I am not. A nephew is younger than an aunt (except in the strangest circumstances).

boys under 25 are too young to know what they truly want. Even 25-30 is questionable.

My age limits are non-negotiable. A 20-year range is quite broad -- generous of me. To those outside the range writing me: You're just wasting your time.
6/18/2007 5:42:56 PM
My picture being posted has accelerated the messages. Be patient!

Several boys have been diligent enough to follow my instructions to the letter. Which is the least you can do to begin to prove yourself.

Several other boys have been extremely impatient, wanting an immediate phone call. They probably had their cocks in hand. This will happen at MY pace, not yours.

Here are the steps I envision (subject to change at my whim):

1. E-mail on collarme, several exchanges. I seldom "chat" on the first "date"!
2. E-mail and/or chat on yahoo, several exchanges. This may include an "assignment."
3. Telephone, several exchanges. This may include an "assignment."
4. Contract design and reference check.
5. Face to face in a public place. Signing of trial contract.
6. Trial weekend.
7. Signing of permanent contract.
8. Steps to relocate.

At each step, I will decide whether to go to the next step.

Please understand that I expect respect, submission and obedience at every step.

Aunty Ma'am



6/18/2007 4:56:14 PM
Do you know how offensive it is to send cut and paste jobs? Well, obviously not.

boys, every woman (dominant, submissive, switch, vanilla) wants to feel she is SPECIAL. A cut and paste job guarantees she will NOT feel special.

You aren't even smart enough to make sure it's all the same font and size! BLOCKED!!!
6/18/2007 4:26:12 PM
Do NOT send me a chat request before you have introduced yourself and been given permission to chat. Would you walk up to a strange woman in a bar and say, "Let's have an intimate chat right now?" Without saying "Good evening" first? Well, maybe you would. That's why you keep getting blocked.

Aunty Ma'am
6/18/2007 4:24:38 PM
Hooray! Photo approved!
6/17/2007 8:44:37 PM
They say the picture takes up to 72 hours. Be patient, boys...
6/17/2007 8:32:20 PM
I've been on this site just a few minutes and already blocked four boys. They sent messages which did not address me as "Ma'am" or did not include a picture. I guess they can't read. Or they thought I was kidding. Their loss.

I have heard from a couple boys who seem like potential nephews. We'll see.
MitchMcbelle
 
 Age: 52
  Michigan