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| Sex and play? Our bodies are instruments capable of a greater range of sensation than we allow ourselves to believe. I'm a sensualist. I find pain and pleasure equally arousing. I find vanilla love making as rewarding as getting butt fucked until I have carpet burned my forehead. Sometimes a needle through the labia is as romantic as candle light and flowers. I'm not afraid to admit that from the right person a kiss to the back of the neck is as knee weakening as an entire orchestrated scene with someone else. I like some really fucked up stuff. I hate some really mainstream kink. This is not because I'm edgy, hip or elitist ... It's because it's not my bag.
Power dynamic? With the singular exception of physical strength I'm not likely to be bested - I'm a powerful, intelligent, independent woman. The control I have over myself will always be greater than the control we both imagine you have over me. I'm not a princess and I've got this shit handled. I don't need a minder to watch my back or a instructor to give me guidelines. I'm a grown ass adult woman. I'm naturally drawn to leaders because I like to be inspired. Be inspirational. I hate managers. It lacks vision and speaks more of limitations than of aspirations. I do not get on with insecure something to prove Alphas or passive aggressive walking victims. This is not spectacularly surprising. I really like people who can mind fuck me into a corner. There aren't many of you and I enjoy your company.
Service? My positive self affirmation does not come when you call me a "good girl". If you like your coffee served just so that's great, so do I: milk and two sugars. We can take it in turns. I respect those for whom service is a core aspect of their relationship. It's not going to be mine. Relationships with me are successful when benefits and burdens are balanced. We both care, with both coddle, we both contribute. I'll cook for us because it please me to, not because its pleasing for me to do so.
... So I'm looking for an attractive, grounded, experienced individual who wants a relationship based on aspiration, respect and inspiration. I want a person who challenges and will be challenged in their notions of sensuality and play. I will adore a person who is not help down by what is preconceived but who forges together something we both desire.
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| Age: 26 |
| Aurora,
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