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While being relatively new to this lifestyle, I am open to exploring new interests outside of those I've highlighted. I am seeking a long term relationship within the lifestyle and because of children and job, I am unable to relocate.
Now, about me....I have been described as a Alpha Female Pure Submissive by an Old World Master. I seek a strong minded Dom who can become my Master. I seek one who is like minded in his sense of adventure and play, open to trying anything new and adding a spicer touch to old stuff. I love toys, and being out of doors...skinny dipping is a huge favorite of mine. I am intelligent, witty, charming, humorus, polite and caring of others, yet am also no nonsense when the topic is of a serious nature. I tend to be whimsical, and sometimes flighty, but I'm always fun to be around. My outside interests include Ga Bulldog football, shooting pool, dirt track racing, Augusta GreenJackets Baseball, music of any and all kind (ewwww, except Rap, Cant Touch That), water related activities, weekend jaunts, flea marketing and yard sales, and lots and lots more. It really depends on my mood and the season.
Contact me if you'd like to get to know me better or in more depth.
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I am currently involved in discussions with a particular gentleman who's asked me why I label myself as a sub, when perhaps as a Domme or a Switch is more accurate. I am of the opinion when one is labeled or labels themselves then they are pigeon-holed into this label.
How can anyone truely understand themselves and their needs for fulfillment when they allow themselves to be classified?
How can one label truely understand what it is to be the other without experiencing all the roles entail?
I've discovered along the way in my journey to self discovery there is no clear definition of me as I am constantly changing and evolving. Aren't we all?
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I continue my quest to seek out the definition of "me" - to assign myself into a specified role seems to classify myself into the terms others have deemed what the definition is. How can an explanation used for one be the same for all others?
I understand my tendencies and my desires, yet the path for fulfillment continues to remain elusive and at times unclear.
How can I ask for what I don't know I seek?
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I was told recently I am too strong minded to be a submissive...is that truely possible to be too strong minded? I noted he did not say I was too strong willed but made reference to my intellect....is the idea of being a submissive meant to mean one must be an idiot or completely give up one's thoughts and ideas? Surely not! I seek the release and comfort in giving to another the gift of my will. Is there no one who can accept this gift without wanting to crush or alter my spirit?
I've noted the majority of DOMs who have contacted me seem to more interested in the use of physical punishment to get me to bend to their will. I believe the mind is stronger then the body, and for one to have the strength to over power me on a moreso intellectual and spiritual level has succeeded in receiving the greatest gift I have to offer.
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 Been contacted by several so-called DOM's and the results are all the same, whether here or on other search engines..its all bs, all talk. I have been searching for quite some time for one that truely understands the meaning of being DOM, one that perhaps would have studied the lifestyle from an old school Master.
I inquired to one DOM whether or not he's ever experienced the sensation of being flogged or caned, and he responded with "Are you out of your fucking mind? I am a DOM. DOM's do not get whipped!" All I could do was shake my head and feel sorry for the sub who settles for him. How can he understand what doles out if he's never experienced it for himself? How can he understand the depth of the submission he receives if he has no understanding of the scope of the release he's providing? The search continues.....he's out there somewhere. |
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| Age: 34 |
| Vancouver,
Canada |
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