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Greetings fellow perverts! Of course we do not mean that, after all we (members of CL) are all probably closer to being our true selves than anyone else out there. We believe true perversion is to turn a blind eye to the inherently good sexual nature of human beings; ignoring sexual impulses and urges to the extent of causing repression and self-degradation. Who me? I know, right? We believe that in order to live a healthy and productive life with in a society, a person needs to be able to control his own impulses and urges. Everyone has sexual urges. Everyone has the need to form a relationship, to bond, to love and be loved for who he truly is. If we had to name a passion in our life, this is it. We are a married couple of 15 years. We have included others in our life to various extents throughout our relationship. What we have found the most pleasure, thus far, in helping others understand themselves and their partners. We have been members of CM for many years now, meeting lots of interesting people and continuing to grow with in the lifestyle. We relocated to Texas not long ago and it is time to start making acquaintances with the locals! We are a dominant couple in respect to meeting others. Our own relationship is a dominant/submissive one. We believe every relationship has a D/s dynamic, whether you consciously desire one or not. There is typically one person who steps up to run the household. We are aware that it is possible that a relationship could be a 50/50 joint venture, with neither partner having more influence than the other, but we do not see it very often. We have talked to many couples that make the claim, but eventually one partner tends to show his influence over the other. I digress; the point is being dominant or submissive is not an act, it is an integral part of the human condition that should be sought out in each and every person. It should be identified, understood, and nurtured to help each person lead a more productive and gratifying life. Yes, it is a philosophically hedonistic point of view, but why not seek out pleasure while trying to mitigate as much pain as possible? We are actively seeking people who are genuine and sincere in wanting to be a better dominant or submissive. We are interested in people who love their significant other and would like nothing more than to be seen for who they are and loved for their true self. It is sad that we live in a society where we cannot openly talk about our true self without repercussions, but it is in fact our current state of affairs. We are open to talking to anyone, provided you meet these stipulations. You must be sincere in your request and you must give us enough information about yourself and your situation that we can write a proper response. Enough with the generic email blasts. If we start reading a banal response or nonspecific one liner we will simply send it to the trash. For those of you who have a genuine interest the email should be taken as a golden opportunity to reach out and get what you want. We are not saying we will respond to everyone, nor will everyone pique our interest, but the more honest and straight forward you are about your situation the more appealing you will undoubtedly be. With all of that being said, this is not an act of altruism on our part. We are seeking play within the lifestyle; it just so happens we enjoy helping others with in a different dynamic as well. Of course we are always seeking those who fit well with in our tastes be it whatever the gender, age, race, sexual preference, etc. We are not adverse to traveling to see others, we have done it in the past, but it will be on your dime. I wouldn’t get ahead of the game and planning anything just yet, start simple and we will work our way. So, tell us about yourself.

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phoem
 
 Age: 18
 Newcastle, United Kingdom