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| Downstate NY (Poughkeepsie), but I can and do go to the city pretty easily. College student, so I do spend time at home as well, which means central NY, Syracuse area.
I'm a dominant male, which doesn't make me just a sex fantasy, or just interested in sex, or not interested in personal connection, or any of that. Control is worthless without affection in my mind- after all, play is no fun without good aftercare. I'm hoping to meet a submissive who's fun to be around in and out of role, someone whom I enjoy as a person and as a sub.
Now, because it's the point of having a profile here in the first place, I'll hit the kinky business first. I've had strong dominant tendencies for as long as I've been aware of my own sexuality. Collars. Verbal humiliation. Body worship. Begging. Objectification. Spanking. Speech restriction. Service. Bondage. Leashes. Crawling. Much more, but we have the fetish list here for that. Nothing can compare to a loyal submissive, one who understands that in exchange for control, she receives my care and affection in turn. I'm not a harsh dominant, I believe that a command obeyed gladly and willingly because the power and thought behind it is understood is much more pleasing than making a show of enforcement. The same hand that slaps and pulls strokes and rubs as well, and they're both because of affection. There's no point in writing a novella here, but if you want to talk on the matter, I'm more than willing. This stuff is why we're (probably) both here, after all!
All of the above said, there's loads of other stuff that's really worth saying. Yeah, D/s is fantastic, but so are books, so is music, so are video games, so are computers, so is hiking, so is anime, et cetera, et cetera. I'm not huge on the term, but I have a lot of interests that most people would classify as geek stuff- tabletop RPGs, video games, anime, and a knowledge of the WH40K and LotR universes that's maybe a bit better developed than it needs to be. I love the gym with all my heart, and fitness is very important to me, but the culture around that stuff is still sort of offputting. I think it's great to have differing interests, few of my close friends and I share a lot in that line, but if we share some of what I mentioned above, awesome, let's talk about it!
tl;dr the idea of shared affection in a D/s dynamic with a person I like as a person is just beautiful to me.
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