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Id say first and foremost Im looking for a committed relationship with a guy around my age. Im definitely down for making friends with whomever, but relationship wise Im seeking a male in my age range.
I can only be in monogamous partnerships. I crave nothing more than feeling like I have all of someone and they have all of me. I respect the fact that others are different and I pass no judgments on that, but I cant share.
Id like to build a decent foundation with someone, before progressing into any shared kinks. Id love nothing more than to be able to give all of myself to the right person, but I understand its a process.
Im looking for a kind, attentive, funny and intelligent partner. As far as physically, I just want someone who cares about their fitness and being healthy. Ive worked very hard over the past few years to get into shape and thats something Id like to have in common with my partner. My physical attraction is weird. Ive never been initially physically attracted to partners Ive pursued in the past. It just came over time, or maybe throughout the night with them. I have to observe someone for a while and feel them out before I start to notice them in other ways, that builds my attraction towards them.
Humor is key. Its very rooted within me. I enjoy someone who can engage in witty banter with me, and Ive been known to let out a few good one-liners. I need someone who is laid back, who can also provide a safe space for me to explore the kinks that I like. I need someone who is very patient, but can push me to be better in all ways considered.
For some time, Ive admired people who were really talented with rope and suspension. Ive never been able to experience that, and am definitely interested in that. Ive mainly experienced being in a chest harness, hogtied, frog tied, or tied to the bed. Im comfortable in chains, tight restriction on my waist and cuffs. I have my eye on a really nice and pricey arm-binder but havent pulled the trigger on it. Once I meet the right person, I will. My experience with those havent been great, but the couple times it did work it was like a sense of accomplishment. Ive come a long way from having nerve damage in the past, but it is something that can be hard for me. It can often be difficult to locate the right spots to apply pressure. I would like to be measured out and fitted for one that is costumed made for me. It also seems like the more in shape I am, the better that works out.
Im also into collars and pet play. Id like to be walked around by leash, privately indoors, or possibly a play party. Id like to get involved with someone to the point I can wear a collar publicly. Its a tender thing to me to have a collar that is just for me, given only to me to wear, and there is a sense of comfort in sleeping in it as well.
Ive always been drawn to watching videos entailing pony play and I am interested in that, but never pursued it. I like the look of black shiny latex, and ballet boots. Ballet boots is something else that Im not only interested in but also partly terrified of, haha. I definitely want to experience it, though.
As it listed in my profile, I am seeking a dommaster. Im looking for bedroom only bdsmsome days where I can experience being under complete control for most, if not, the entire day. Im not wired to be a 247 submissive partner. If thats what you desire, Im not the right fit for that. Im looking for someone who can push my boundaries in an environment that feels safe. I need someone who is experienced enough to do this. I want someone who takes care and puts time into what theyre doing when setting up a scene, so it is an enjoyable experience for both of us. Aftercare is extremely important to me! To me its the most important part of all of this.
Other things I enjoy as far as kinks, are masks and ball gags. Although my jaw does have its limits as far as size, so Id like to be as forthcoming about that as possible now. I like my butt slapped. In the past, it used to be a great way to get me started in the right head space.
The more I adore and respect someone the more Im eager to give. How you treat someone outside of the bedroom impacts what youll get inside the bedroom, obviously.
I dont think you can base a relationship off BDSM, but I definitely think it is a very passionate thing that I want to have in mine. Thats why Im here. I dont just want anyone, though. My goal is to find someone where this is the icing on the cake. There is plenty in this life I want to experience outside of this with someone as well.
I am into running, getting out and exploring my city and being outdoors in general. I love concerts and I have a wide variety of music I appreciate. I admire musically artistically inclined people. I feel like I used to be one of these people but got lazy with it. My goal is to change that, more so with drawing. My attention just got consumed with other things. I also admire people who are smart enough to be as funny as they are, and enjoy comedy shows.
Im STD free with proper documentation to support that! I will not engage in anything unless you have proper documentation and your ID up front. I dont think thats a big ask and it is non-negotiable! Ill show you mine, if you show me yours and then Im happy to show you more...if I like you
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