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I am AteaVey and I am active in the Pittsburgh BDSM and GLBT scenes. I am a toppy switch that can go from service top to sadistic dominant. I have a wide range of kinky skills including but not limited to rope bondage & suspension, cains/paddles, wax, fire play, E-stim, heavy impact, genital torture, and breath play. You can call me Atea for short. (It is pronounced At-tee-aa) I consider myself a femme dyke and gender queer. I am not interested in dating men but open to having one serve me as a submissive. I am very much single and available for the right woman. I prefer monogamous relationships but willing to revisit poly with the right person. I am a fan of romance and seduction mingled with one's kinky play. A whisper in the ear, the soft breath on the neck, and intense stare into the eyes can be more rewarding an intense than normal traditional impact play. For a lover and a partner I enjoy the passionate energy that is formed. I am a toppy switch that saves bottoming and for the special few. I am also willing and able to validate who I am and that the pictures on this profile are of me. If you can not do the same, then please pass me by. It is fair and reasonable request to ask someone you are considering dating/playing with from this site to validate who they are regardless if they are a Domme or submissive. We all can agree there are way too many game players and fakers here and this is the reason behind my request for validation. I do not appreciate dominants contacting me and referring to me as "Pet", "bitch", "Slave" or "Slut". I also do not appreciate dominants who demand me call them "Miss" or "Maam" from the beginning. Being a switch does not mean I am a submissive or a slave to everyone. My name is Atea and bottom terms are reserved for who I develop a relationship with. I do believe in getting to know each other and titles are saved for those who earn it. Remember negotiation is important to BDSM and those who do not take the time to get to know someone is UNSAFE. If you require me to play with someone else before meeting me, then you can go fuck off. There are tons of men online trying to scam women for pictures and play. If you can't meet me for a drink to negotiate a scene, you do not deserve my time. I do have references on my skill set as a top and dominant. I do presentations and share knowledge on kinky topics. To see a list of events I will be attending and potentially teaching at, view my account on F..E T___L...I... F .. .. E Here is a link to my profile on the better Kinky Networking site: http://tinyurl.com/ATEAVEY PROFILE
I am not into online roleplaying of BDSM. I prefer the real thing in person and a physical and emotional connection. Collarme friend requests should only be sent if we really know each other. I will not accept friend requests from people I do not know. These are the following People who have not showed up for an agreed upon meeting: vicki2725 - Agreed to meet, and even confirmed for me, never completed a play list and never showed up. Most likely this person is some guy getting off with an online fantasy.

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12/8/2011 12:24:50 PM

I am 32 Flavors and Then Some

 

So I am trying this site back out and after a few days, it is pretty clear the most of the lesbians on here are fake.  I have been to enough events and active long in the scene not everyone is a model.  This site just seems to be full of posers women looking for financial manipulation.

 

This is a very sad site for real single queer women.

 

 


12/6/2011 6:48:11 AM

Come join the Rainbow Munch as we have a social mixer for GLBT people interested in Kink. This event is open to all levels of experience from novice to master and all forms of gender expression and sexuality/orientation. Straight allies are also welcome to come hang with us.

This event wont have a specific topic and is intended to be a casual meet and greet. If you are new or questioning your kinky desire, this is a great place to start.

 

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

6:00pm until 8:00pm

Cattivo Bar

146 44th Street

Pittsburgh, PA


7/28/2011 7:37:22 AM

I just wanted to spread a good laugh.

 

http://www.spreadingsantorum.com/

 

 

 

 


7/18/2011 7:53:08 AM

FUCK YOU FAKERS FOR CONTINUED LIES AND WASTING MY TIME.  


5/10/2011 1:38:06 PM

Repost from the FL website (Collarme wont allow references to the better social kink site)

 

The Rainbow Munch is hosting an exciting demo and social on BootBlacking. This has been requested by many in our regional community. The Rainbow Munch and Demo will be Wednesday May 18th from 7 to 9 at the GLCC of Pittsburgh. The cost of the demo is $5 to attend and is open to all GLBTQ individuals and our straight allies and friends.

 

The Boot Blacking Workshop

This workshop will cover basic boot care, a bit about the history of bootblacking, and how to properly patronize (ha!) your local community bootblack. There will be a practical demonstration of how to shine leather boots, followed by some hands-on training where you can give it a try yourself.

In order to participate in the training portion of the workshop, you will need to bring the following items with you:

 

A pair of boots
An old toothbrush
An old pair of gym socks
Clothes to wear that you don't mind getting stained

 

We are limiting the hands on training portion to 20 pairs of boots (that's 20 people max). If you want to participate in the training, please email AteaVey

 to RSVP. If you don't have these items -- even the boots -- you can still participate! We will have a few spares that we can let you use; they are first come first served, so be sure to mention it in your RSVP to AteaVey

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You also can optionally pre-order a basic bootblacking kit to take home with you from the demo. The kit is $20 and includes everything you need to do basic bootblacking, such as polish, soap, various brushes, and special tools. We will only bring as many kits as are requested, so please make sure you request one in advance by emailing Elroi

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To be clear, you do not need to buy a kit to participate! You can bring your own, or share from the supplies the instructor brings. This is just a convenient way to take home the tools the same day as the information. The hands on training is limited to 20 but we have room for those who wish to come and watch and not participate.

 

BIO:
Elroi

 identifies his orientation as "leather". He is a genderqueer bootblack, a switch, a native Pittsburgher, and a surviving polyamorist. He has been a longtime Burghermuncher, was a co-facilitator of the Three Rivers Polyamory Network from 2004-2008, and was the Bootblack In Residence (a non-competitive post) at the Steel Sancturary until just before its closure. In the past, Elroi has also attended the Triangle Munch Group of North Carolina, and was an officer of the short-lived but long-storied Oberlin BDSM Club in Ohio. He is honored to have had a few collared servants over the years, and a few more un-collared ones, and to be a collared servant himself.

 

This event is open to all GLBTQ people and their supporters. Light snacks are available during the event. Next Month’s Demo will be all on tickling.

 

date: Wednesday, May 18, 2011
time: 07:00 PM to 09:00 PM
where: GLCC of Pittsburgh
address: 210 Grant Street Pittsburgh, PA, 15219  map

cost: $5 donation (Scholarships available) (kits $20)
dress code: Casual but sexy

 


4/4/2011 9:53:06 AM

Join the Rainbow Munch and the Feminist discussion group as we team up and host one of our favorite local presenters and kinksters, Elroi, as he teaches a class on Civil Disobedience. Doors open at the GLCC at 6:30 and the class starts at 7:00 on April 20th, 2011. The cost is $5.00 for the event and as always scholarships are available.

 

CIVIL DISOBEDIENCE:
Owners often place a very high value on obedience in their servants. But one of the consequences of "perfect" obedience is less-than-perfect service. This leads to some questions, "why disobey?" "When (if ever) is disobedience good?" "How can one disobey in a civil manner?" and "What can one do with disobedience when one encounters it in a servant?" In the first part of the workshop, we will address these questions. The second part will be a group discussion and question/answer time.

 

BIO:
Elroi identifies his orientation as "leather". He is a genderqueer bootblack, a switch, a native Pittsburgher, and a surviving polyamorist. He has been a longtime Burghermuncher, was a co-facilitator of the Three Rivers Polyamory Network from 2004-2008, and was the Bootblack In Residence (a non-competitive post) at the Steel Sancturary until just before its closure. In the past, Elroi has also attended the Triangle Munch Group of North Carolina, and was an officer of the short-lived but long-storied Oberlin BDSM Club in Ohio. He is honored to have had a few collared servants over the years, and a few more un-collared ones, and to be a collared servant himself.

 

This event is open to all GLBTQ people and their supporters. Light snacks are available during the event. The Feminist discussion group is held monthly the second Monday each month and the Rainbow Munch is held the third Wednesday each month. Exceptions sometimes happens as not to conflict with other events. The next Rainbow Munch presentations will be on boot blacking and tickling.

 

date: Wednesday, April 20, 2011
time: 07:00 PM to 09:00 PM
where: GLCC of Pittsburgh
address: 210 Grant Street Pittsburgh, PA, 15219  map

cost: $5 (With limited Scholarships)
dress code: Casual but sexy

 


3/17/2011 6:45:14 AM

Join the Rainbow Munch of Pittsburgh as we welcome back Lee Harrington for another wonderful sharing of information.  Proceeds from this event will go to a GLBT charity known as Camp Ten Trees as Lee is making a non-profit tour across the country, traveling with Minnesotan sex educator Scott Thomson.  Pittsburgh has been picked as one of the stops.  Way to go Pittsburgh Scene!

 

On Monday April 11th, Lee Harrington will be back with us to teach “Bondage and Breath”.  Here is what the class will involve.

 

Rope bondage effects how we breathe- from the constriction of rope corsets and chest harnesses to positional asphyxia. But how we breathe also has the power to effect how we do bondage-chest breathing vs. belly breathing, intentional breathing for connection, and more. We will look into how breath moves through the body, how bondage positions effect how we breathe, then work to see how ties effect breath before diving into styles of breathing, breath training for bondage bottoms (and riggers too), and connecting through breath in our ties.  This lecture is hands on.


While this sounds awesome, we want to let you know there is extra awesome for this event.  Lee will be traveling with another presenter who is also willing to do a class for the Camp Ten Trees Charity Tour.  So if Bondage/Breath is not your thing, attend and meet ScottThomson as he teaches “Sensational Safer Sex: Making Your Sex Hot Steamy and Safer.”  That’s right, two amazing classes to choose from, benefiting Camp Ten Trees:

 

Are hot sex and safer sex the same thing? For many of us, having sensational safer sex can be a struggle. Whether it is talking about STIs with partners, the awkward dash into the other room to find a condom, or the seemingly impossible task of holding a dental dam in place, putting the safer into the sexy can be a challenge. In this workshop we will expand our definitions of sex, reengineer the role that barriers play, and explore techniques and strategies for the seamless integration of safer sex in to all of our hot, steamy action.


Could there be any more Awesome?  Hell Yeah, to also help raise funds for the Camp Ten Trees Charity, Lee Harrington and Scott Thomson will have dinner with five individuals prior to the class.  Five special tickets are being made available for this dinner.  Three of the tickets will be available for sale on a first come first serve basis.  These tickets are $100 each.  Two tickets will be raffled off.  Raffle tickets for dinner with Lee and Scott will be available from AteaVey.  She’ll make herself available at the TNG Munch 3/22/11 and Burgher Munch 4/5/11.  The five tickets will include dinner and non-alcoholic drink and will be at 4pm Monday April 11th.

 

Here’s a recap of the event:

When: Monday April 11, at 7pm
Where: GLCC of Pittsburgh, 210 Grant Street Pittsburgh, PA, 15219
Who: Lee Harrington and Scotty Thomson
Cost: $20 at the door (Limited Scholarships available)
Fundraiser for Camp Ten Trees: http://www.camptentrees.org

 

Lee Harrington is an eclectic artist, spiritual and erotic educator, gender explorer and published author and editor on human sexuality and spiritual experience- including “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé” and the “Toybag Guide to Age Play”. He has also worked as an anthology editor on such projects as “Rope, Bondage, and Power” and “Spirit of Desire: Personal Explorations of Sacred Kink.”  Well known for his fun and informative approach to education, he approaches sexuality as yet another art to master, or simply an art to enjoy to its fullest! He has been an active part of the international kink and sex positive communities for over 14 years, and his stories make people laugh while showing you that eroticism can be as serious, sexy, or silly as you make it. Lee’s writings and photography have appeared in numerous anthologies including “Dark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM and the Ordeal Path” (also under his previous name, Bridgett Harrington), and his image has been seen everywhere from PlayBoy TV to the pages of Skin Two Magazine. To learn more about Lee visit http://www.PassionAndSoul.com

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Scott Thomson began his career as a Sexuality Educator at the University of California at Davis in 1991, shortly after attending the Folsom Street Fair for the first time. He worked for Planned Parenthood for nearly a decade as a Reproductive Health Specialist and Sex Educator in Northern California with a focus on HIV and STI prevention. As a trainer, Scott has developed curricula and provided training for health care providers and educators to help better address their clients’ needs focusing on sexuality and HIV / STI treatment and prevention.  Based now in St. Paul, Minnesota, Scott is a Leatherman, craftsperson and outspoken activist, continuing to do outreach work wherever and whenever possible.  Always an innovator, Scott’s workshops are dynamic, interactive and entertaining. With a focus on nuts and bolts skills, communication and self-discovery, Scott’s approach is geared toward both new and experienced community members and offers something for everyone.

http://.com/events/46774


Don't forget to join us at http://.com/groups/10811

 for all of our Rainbow Munch Events for the Pittsburgh Region.

 


3/8/2011 8:27:00 AM

3/16/10 - Fire, Fire, Fire

 

A Rainbow Munch Demo on Fire

 

 

Join the Rainbow Munch of Pittsburgh as we share more knowledge with a demonstration and class on Fire Play.  Wednesday March 16th at 7pm we will be hosting this event at the GLCC of Pittsburgh.

 

The class will show some of the beginning ways one can play with fire in a sensual and non-sensual way.  The class will cover basics from fire baton construction to more advanced play such as fire cupping.  This class should be a really hot time.

 

Where: GLCC of Pittsburgh at  210 Grant Street Pittsburgh, PA, 15219

 

Who: The Rainbow Munch of Pittsburgh instruction by Atea

 

Cost: $5 donation (Scholarships available)

 

When: March 16th, from 7pm to 9pm

 


2/17/2011 5:20:15 AM

Presented by Lee Harrington March 5th

 

Join the Pittsburgh Rainbow Munch Saturday March 5th at the Gay Lesbian Community Center for a hands on class on bondage for lovemaking. Rope bondage is a wonderful tool for spicing up your sex life- from binding legs open for access to the loins to turning a bed into somewhere a lover can’t escape from, giving into their desires. We will learn how to make simple restraints for spread-eagle poses or binding lovers to chairs, as well as exploring ways to bind limb to limb, body to body, crotch ropes (and how to convert them into pieces that can be fucked through), and more. Let’s explore and think creatively about techniques for adding bondage to your style of sensuality and sex. Bring at least one 25-30ft piece of rope, and a dildo if you have one, for hands-on play, though limited supplies will be available to borrow from the instructor.

 

This event is open to all individuals 18 and over from novice to veteran. The tuition for this sexy class is $20.00 and will start at 6:30 and run until 9:00 pm. Comfortable dress is recommended for those participating in the hands on bondage drills for the class. For those needing help with the tuition, please see Atea for scholarship assistance to help with financial aid as we wish to share all the kinky knowledge we can.

 

When: Saturday March 5th at 6:30

Where: The Gay Lesbian Center of Pittsburgh, (GLCC) 210 Grant Street, Pittsburgh PA

Cost: $20 regular (Contact Atea for Scholarships)

Who: Lee Harrington

 

About the Lee Harrington:

 

Lee Harrington is an eclectic artist, spiritual and erotic educator, gender explorer and published author and editor on human sexuality and spiritual experience- including “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé” and the “Toybag Guide to Age Play”. He has also worked as an anthology editor on such projects as “Rope, Bondage, and Power.” Well known for his fun and informative approach to education, he approaches sexuality as yet another art to master, or simply an art to enjoy to its fullest! He has been an active part of the international kink and sex positive communities for over 14 years, and his stories make people laugh while showing you that eroticism can be as serious, sexy, or silly as you make it. Lee’s writings and photography have appeared in numerous anthologies including “Dark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM and the Ordeal Path” (also under his previous pen name, Bridgett Harrington), and his image has been seen everywhere from PlayBoy TV to the pages of Skin Two Magazine. To learn more about Lee visit www.PassionAndSoul.com.

 

 

http://.com/events/42859

 

 

 


1/24/2011 8:12:45 AM

This Friday is the Bridge City Bombshells Ladies Night Burlesque Revue held at Belveder Lounge. Come join me for a cocktail as we watch the ladies dance and tease us with their show.  Here is the link for the event here on :

 

http://.com/events/40449

 

 

 

Come hang out, have a cocktail and meet kinky friends.


1/13/2011 8:31:05 AM

CONSIDERING SERVICE SUBMISSIVE

 

I am currently considering a service submissive for my household.  This would include a chore list and impact scenes for sloppy work.  My household is comprised of two toppy women but I would administer the discipline.

 

I will considering both female and males for this position but have a preference to feminine types.  Sissy queer boys are welcome to apply.


1/2/2011 6:46:38 PM

Party Jan. 15th

 

It's been way too long since the Pittsburgh Chapter of Dykes on Bikes hosted a charity but they are back with their legendary Wet Tee Shirt Contest.  Join them as the DOB shooter girls sling jello shots, present cleavage kisses, and a raffle to wet down a contestant.  DJ Adele will be on site spinning our favorite dance music. 

Proceeds will go to the Beth and Tracy Fund.

Join us January 15th at Cattivo to start off the New Year and have a great time with Dykes on Bikes while making a difference for our community.  The party starts at 10.


12/27/2010 12:38:24 PM

January 8th, 2011, Sinferno at Cattivo

 

Come see me do rope bondage and suspension January 8th at Sinferno the annual fetish/goth night held at Cattivo.  You are welcome to come up and ask for rope bondage as I will have plenty of rope.

 

Sinferno will be at 144  44th Street, Pittsburgh, PA at a bar call Cattivo


12/23/2010 8:15:32 AM
Fakers......LEAVE ME ALONE

There is a special place in hell for those who impersonate others online. Karma will return the pain you have given to others.

12/23/2010 8:12:15 AM

Loves Contradiction

Love to some means so much
Late night whispers and a gentle touch
A feeling of completeness and eternal happiness
A life worth living filled with everlasting bliss

Other find security lasting to life's end
Days spent with their lover and their best friend
Other simple pleasures that they take for granted
This meaning of love in our mind is planted

This definition I often dream of
Life granted me a different meaning of love
Love stolen by the Grim Reaper's hand
Dying love in my arms no one can understand

Further lessons in love have afforded me this
Broken promises sealed with an empty kiss
Betrayal & Lies is what I get to believe
This is what love has become to me

 


12/15/2010 7:57:55 AM

QUEER MUNCH FOR GLBTQ FOLKS

Join your fellow kinky queers on Wednesday January 12th, 2011 for our Second Rainbow Munch in Pittsburgh. This will be a social dinner held in the restaurant portion of Cattivo on the main floor from 6:30 to 8:00. All gay/lesbian/bisexual/transgender individuals and friends are welcome to attend. There will be a cell popping demonstration during the munch as well as a discussion on a kink related topic.

Our next Rainbow Munch will move to the third Wednesday each month and is scheduled for Wednesday February 16th.

 

Come help build a queer munch for the GLBT kinky community.

 

date:

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

time:

06:30 PM to 08:00 PM

where:

Cattivo

address:

146 44th Street, Pittsburgh, PA 15201 (Lawrenceville)

 


12/14/2010 12:47:08 PM
Blackened Heart

Why can't I be angry
Why can't I hate you
Promises you did break
With my heart you did screw

 

Why can't I write you off
As easy as you did to me
Why did you profess your love
If we were never meant to be

 

Why do you say you still love me
I wonder if you ever did
Your behaviors don't support your words
After hurting me you ran and hid

 

What inside is wrong with you
What inside you is to blame
Maybe you need mental help
Or is this some sick perverted game

 

What did I ever see in you
I see you truly now as you depart
You're incapable of genuine love
For inside you is a blackened heart


12/10/2010 6:11:26 AM
January 15th, 2011, I will be hosting a wet t-shirt contest for the Pittsburgh Chapter of Dykes on Bikes® at Cattivo.  Watch here and for announcements.

12/6/2010 5:37:11 AM
QUEER MUNCH FOR GLBTQ FOLKS

Join your fellow kinky queers on Wednesday December 8th, 2010 for our first Rainbow Munch in Pittsburgh. This will be a social dinner held in the restaurant portion of Cattivo on the main floor from 6:30 to 8:00. All gay/lesbian/bisexual/transgender individuals and friends are welcome to attend. There will be a short rope bondage demonstration during the munch as well.

Our next Rainbow Munch will be scheduled for Wednesday January 12th.

 

Come help build a queer munch for the GLBT kinky community.

 

date: Wednesday, December 08, 2010
time: 06:30 PM to 08:00 PM
where: Cattivo
address: 146 44th Street, Pittsburgh, PA 15201 (Lawrenceville)

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