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First, let me say that life is all about change, and as we continue to grow, expect our likes, dislikes and limits to change as well. As we try new things, something you thought you would hate, you may find that you absolutely love, and something you have always loved may become tiring. The only constant should be us. Everything else is subject to change as we grow and discover new pleasures. Just as every person is unique, so is every relationship. How we react to one another and what we enjoy together will also be a unique combination. As we discover what works for us, you may realize this is what you've always wanted, but never even knew what to ask for.
I've been involved with this lifestyle for a few years, and have always been fascinated by it although circumstances prevented me from participating for many years. I've met a few people along the way, but nothing that became permanent. I'm free to be with whomever I choose, and will only accept the right people in my life. Ideally, I eventually want to find someone who will be mine forever.
I'm only looking for a submissive woman or one who is submissive to me but can be dominant with another. In other words, if you have your own female pet, that's fine. But, she must be someone I get along with, and, perhaps we can all play together at times. Yet you would be my primary concern and I would be the only man and the only dominant. If you are monogamous, I will be also. As long as you fill my needs, I don't really need someone else. In any case, my main interest would be you, and I can easily live without another person in the picture.
If you prefer to be called a slave, a little girl, a slut, a brat, or some other term, I want to know and will use terms that create the right emotions in you. It simply gives me an idea of your desires, and I will call you by names that I know turns on your heart and your passions. In the end, you will be mine, and you will know it no matter what you are called. That does not mean you need to be a doormat, stupid, nor ignored. It simply means that you will give your full heart and love to me. And, I will give mine to you, although we each take our own roles in the relationship.
I'm not a sadist, and I am not going to abuse you to the point where you may need a doctor visit. I get no real joy from your pain, but, will enjoy spanking, flogging, whatever, if pain is something that you need, desire or turns you on. It is your pleasure that will give me joy, even if it is pleasure from something that stings. I'd want to know you so well that I'll know exactly how you will react physically and emotionally to anything I say or do. I will take control and lead you as I see necessary to fulfill your needs and desires as well as my own once we have established your needs and desires. You will feel (and be) both safe and cared for when you are with me.
I've been told that the above makes it sound like I'm just saying whatever I think will get me the most women. Far from it. I know that most on here want someone who is much stricter and more sadistic than I will ever be. If I were going for the most women on this site, I'd be saying how I'm going to hurt you, not how I'm going to learn everything I can about you and then use it to control you and pleasure you. Which brings me to my next point, being a Daddy.
While I don't need to be called 'Daddy,' I'm mostly the Daddy type. I tend to pay a lot of loving attention to you when you are my girl, guiding you, teaching you, and expecting your respect and love. And, your respect and love will be earned by me. I don't understand why anyone would serve someone they don't love or respect, and the key to having your respect and love is for me to act in a way in which it is deserved. We both should be good people who earn and deserve all those incredible deep feelings and connections that exist in a fulfilling relationship.
I don't have a closet filled with toys. My favorite toys are your mind and your body. I prefer touch to other toys, although, variety is the spice of life and toys do have their place. There is always much to learn (there is always something new), and we can learn and grow together. This goes for all aspects of life. If you know you need something which is new to me, I'm willing to find a way to fulfill you. I'm curious by nature anyway, and enjoy learning something new. And, after all, your well being is my responsibility.
I don't see myself living the lifestyle full time. At least not in a visible way to the outside world. Being together 24/7 is something I'd like... as in a real long term relationship. No one will know what goes on in private. However, the person I'm with will have my attention and thoughts 24/7.
Due to family and professional concerns, I am not going to post a face photo on here. If you are interested, I'd be happy to send a picture.
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