What I am looking for is to meet and make new friends in the Toronto area who have similar interests. My boy and I are also interested in experimenting with others on a casual basis. If you are NOT from Toronto, please contact me only in the context of penpals, I am not interested in relocation or long distance relationships. As for my likes sexually, which I'm sure you've all been wondering about, I am a masochistic Domina, though I did start my exploration of BDSM as a submissive. Since I have met my wonderful boy roopurt I can not imagine myself in a 24/7 relationship with anyone else, let alone with myself as the submissive. As a masochistic Dominant, I enjoy receiving pain though I maintain control of the scene as much as possible. As for specific turn ons, you'll just have to get to know me and find out for yourself. On a non-sexual note, I enjoy reading books that capture your attention, listening to music that inspires emotion, watching movies that make you think and cooking food that makes you think you've gone to heaven. I am open minded and always looking to expand my horizons and learn something new. My turn ons include sensitive nipples and the ability to carry on an intelligent conversation. I can not stress this second point enough - The most sexy quality a partner can have is a well used brain. Physical features aren't really high on my priority list, I don't have a "type" other then someone who takes care of their body. No smokers or drug users, but other then that I'm pretty open - if we click physically, you'll know. You will enjoy mental stimulation almost as much as physical, and can carry a good debate (which is different from arguing). You will appreciate the concept of foreplay, and realize that it's not always heavy breathing and petting (though that certainly has its place). While I do have a fairly high sex drive, I'm not looking for just a quick roll in the hay. I'm complicated (as all people are) and you'll have to be able to deal with that. A sense of humour, self-confidence, loyalty and honesty will round out your persona. One final note: IF YOU ARE CHEATING ON A SIGNIFICANT OTHER, A SMOKER, HEAVY DRINKER, DRUG USER, ARE OVER THE AGE OF 35, ARE NOT LIVING IN TORONTO OR PLANNING ON MOVING TO TORONTO OR ARE LOOKING FOR A MISTRESS TO TRAIN YOU PLEASE DO NOT EMAIL ME WITH "ROMANTIC" OR "SEXUAL" INTENTIONS. If any part of the previous sentence discribes you and you would like to be email pen-pals, please state so in your initial email or you will not be replied to. Thank You.