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Aspiringnobody

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I am seeking something very specific. I am seeking a part time dynamic of extreme psychological domination and subjugation for an ongoing basis. We enter and leave this dynamic as equals, but while we are engaged in this relationship it will be one based on inequality with a clear differential between Owner and property.

Me
I have many years in the scene and lifestyle. I understand SSC, RACK, PRICK etc. I am familiar with negotiation, consent, and safewords. I am approaching this search with absolute clarity. I have bottomed in many scenes and have had many play partners, but deep down I have always craved something more and was not sure if it was even something possible. I seek slavery, not pretend. I need to be able to completely let go and just be for the sake of someone else.

You
Dominant, preferably a woman or couple. Have fantasies of owning an absolute slave who you can treat however you wish and demand anything from. Someone who will allow you to be as selfish as you want with, who you do not have to respect as an equal, or reciprocate. You want someone who will expect nothing in return, and yet will be grateful for any attention you give them. Someone who will be obedient and never make demands of their own.

I would like this dynamic to play out over the course of regular meetups. I believe that by having otherwise separate lives, it will allow us to be present for the intensity this type of a dynamic might create for us. I have seen many full time Ms or Op dynamics fail because folks try to accomplish this 247. The reality of 247 means that owner and property have to adjust to the challenges of the real world and that requires shifting headspace and that often leads to one or both parties feeling disappointed. Resentments start to and the dynamic falls apart. The pressures of 247 are not for everyone. Does that mean we shouldnt be allowed to have that intensity for ourselves if we cannot live full time in that dynamic?

I have other healthy relationships in my life. I am poly. I get my needs met in every other way through others. My needs, beyond my need to be allowed to serve are not something you need to burden yourself with. If you want to, you can, but I do not need or expect it myself. I want you to be able to be as self centered as you want in this arrangement. I am open to discussing areas of control outside of our time together as well. For example chastity and orgasm control. I am also ok with being on call for when I am needed to run errands and tasks. I do seek an ongoing relationship with this type of a dynamic.


SexxyDawn27
 
 Age: 27
 Oxford, United Kingdom