I like playing. Submitting to your will. Letting you take me where you want to go. Its an incredible high.

I live in the Washington DC area, but travel frequently for work. I'm interested in either short term play or long term ownership.

Irish Ethnic background. Reddish hair. I wear contacts or glasses. Single, never married.

I’ve been attracted to BDSM ever since second grade, when two female second graders tied me up and hooded me. I’ve been engaging in BDSM play since 1993. Most of my BDSM activity has been through the Black Rose and other DC area groups.

I view BDSM play as an intense roller coaster of mental, emotional, and physical sensations.

My hottest fantasies center around intense humiliation “strap-on dildo/cuck sucking whore slut” scenes and complete mindfuck and lots of sadistic punishment scenes. Bondage for control and to render me even more helpless.

What do I desire in a Mistress? Someone who is very verbal, comfortable with intense humiliation scenes, is physical, and can make me feel helpless.

Verbal: I like teasing, taunting, and mindfuck. Forcing me to beg. Calling me a slut. Telling me I really want this. Teasing me about who has a Bigger cuck(i.e. your dildo is much bigger than my Useless cuck). Sexual name-calling. i.e. come on, little cuck-sucking whore slut, beg for it.

Intense Humiliation: Boot-licking, Dildo-worship, public humiliation (in front of others or outside), leash + collar, etc. Golden showers. Strap-on penetration. It is ok if you humiliate me to the point where I start crying.

Physical: I enjoy flogging/whipping/ corporal punishment. Feeling your hands grab me, hold me, pull my hair, twist my nipples or my balls. Feeling you slap me or kick me. The physical touch feels so personal and commanding and intimate. Gloves add authority and add more dehumanization to the experience. Sitting on top of me and/or pinning me to the ground while abusing me and tormenting me.

Punishment can be very sadistic if it turns you on. If you enjoy inflicting punishment, I will suffer greatly for your enjoyment and get satisfaction out of your enjoyment of my suffering.

Bondage and feeling Helpless: I like to feel helpless. i.e. I’m being forced to be a slut when I have no ability to resist. I have no choice but to give in to whatever you desire. I LOVE HOODS because they allow me to feel like I’m safe in the womb and they allow me to turn off all of my inhibitions. Dildo gags are also very nice as well as humiliating. When they are the perfect size and fit like they were made for my mouth, I’m in heaven.

From a fantasy point of view, my hottest/deepest/darkest masturbation fantasy is to be helpless and fucked by a Mistress taking my ass with her strap on while I’m forced to suck on a man’s cuck(or another strap-on). Sometimes the restraints I'm wearing in the fantasy vary (sometimes I’m in a straight jacket, chained, or tied up). Sometimes, I've been fantasizing that I'm wearing a blonde ponytail out the back of the hood (to play on the genderfuck) while sucking off a man and being play raped up the ass by a Mistress.

How to make someone more submissive and inspire deeper submission?

At first, tell them to do something they want to do anyways. Get them used to following your orders. Don't give orders that they can disobey, unless you are prepared to punish for failure or force them to obey. Follow up your orders with verification and reinforcement. If you treat your orders as important, then so will the submissive.

Create in the submissive's mind that you are in a position of authority. The submissive should view you as the dominant. You are in control. They should respect your control. A good example of dominance/submission would be the White House, where the staff addresses him as Mr. President.

Voice tone can be very important. Almost like dog obedience. A firm, not harsh, commanding voice works well. i.e. not a drill sergent type of voice. But an officer's voice, or the voice of someone in a position of authority.