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I am not seeking a companion or sub/slave at this time. I will never be seeking a female companion or sub/slave.
I am here to meet new friends and to visit and chat with old friends and continue to learn more about the lifestyle.
I'm sure that the right person is out there somewhere. When we meet and it's right, we will both know it.
He will be masculine, not effeminate, have a mind of his own, be capable of making his own decisions and forming his own opinions. I would not expect, nor would I want, his thoughts and opinions to be a carbon copy of mine. If he feels I am wrong, I expect to be challenged and questioned just as I would challenge and question him.
He will be an intellectual equal, capable of conversation beyond "How may I serve you Mistress".
I am completely capable of handling most of lifes day to day duties as well as my own personal needs. Occaisional pampering is a lovely treat but I would prefer it be done of your own volition and initiative and not simply because ordered to do so.
I have no desire nor do I find it necessary to control every aspect of another human beings life.
I am secure and comfortable with who and what I am. I do not need to have my ego stroked and bolstered by having someone else humiliated and degraded. I will not participate in the humiliation of another human being.
In the same vein, dominance comes from within. It does not come from having ones name or personal pronouns capitalized. While some place a great deal of importance on those things, I do not. If I am addressed as Ma'am because one has been taught and trained that way, that's fine, but I do not require it. I treat all with simple common courtesy and only expect the same.
I will earn your trust and respect as you will earn mine.
I f I am not everybody's idea of a Domme, so be it. There are no black and white rules here. People and personalities differ and each relationship, whether D/s or vanilla, differs accordingly.
The rules will be made and change as the relationship grows and evolves. I will not set rigid and petty rules with, of course, the exception being the toilet seat being left up and the lid off the toothpaste.
Finally, and perhaps most importantly, a sense of humour, humanity and compassion is a must. I f you are lacking any or all of these qualities, move on now. Everything else is negotiable (except the toilet seat and the toothpaste).
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A fairly local self proclaimed dom emailed me and the questions quickly went from 'where are you located?' to 'would you make me cum' and 'have you ever had anal sex'.
Sheesh...didn't even take the time to disguise his desperation and status as a full fledged poseur.
Where does it say in my profile "submissive female looking for a Dom to please sexually"
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Why is it that when you exchange messages with a seemingly nice genuine person, within hours or days, at most, their account has been deleted.
Hmmm...maybe their wife found out....
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| Age: 18 |
| Wyoming,
Michigan |
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