I have read countless times while I peruse profiles here that people don't seem to comprehend the difference between dominate and dominant. Perhaps I should just leave well enough alone and pick and choose my battles a little more carefully or selectively, but tonight my mood is just off and maybe this is some form of therapy for me. I am sure over the years I have inadvertently switched the two words. Shit happens, right? But when I see someone's profile where they refer to themselves a number of times in terms of being a "dominate", I just want to scream (hence my written scream here). Can you really be a "dominate" with over tens years of experience when you don't know the difference? I don't know that I am eloquent enough to properly explain, but for those of you who don't get it, to dominate means the act of being in control or in charge. You "dominate" when you give instructions to someone or are in charge/control of someone or a situation. A Dominant is the person who is taking the control. Being a Dominant is a personality type.

If during my little rant here, I've pissed in someones Cheerios, sorry (not really).

I am undergoing a major surgical procedure fairly soon.  I am therefore not really looking for anything at this moment unless you are willing to wait until I've recovered which hopefully will be no later than the end of Oct, first of Nov.   

Lately I seem to be thinking about a few things almost obsessively.   My mind, when occupied on this lifestyle, seems to always end up painting very vivid images in my minds eye about cuckolding, chastity, felching, etc.  As my profile states, I have a little experience as a cuck, but this latest wave (of thought) is very different.  I'm not sure if it is just a really profound fantasy or if it is truly what I desire.  I find myself viewing profiles looking for indications that she might be open to this.  And I've found myself passing up opportunities to meet because they don't seem to share in that or they seem to vanilla.  Perhaps it is something that I might not be able to handle, at least to the extent that captivates my recent fantasies.  I've written several stories in the past about this subject.  No, these are far from new interests, just that lately, they've been very much in the forefront of my sexual (or non sexual as it may be) mindset.  I find myself becoming almost envious of some of the relationships I see on here that include that.  And I'm just thinking out loud here.  I would enjoy speaking to others who have experience in all of this if only to determine where I am truly at so that I can either focus more or move on.  Any thoughts, advice, input would be welcome.  :)

It is truly sad to see the demise of the English language happening right before my eyes.   I by no means have perfect grammar or spelling, however, to see an entire letter or profile composed in text speak simply reeks of laziness.   I guess that perhaps I am just to old for the text speak generation.  I guess if you are on a cell phone and corresponding, that's one thing.  But when using it to create a profile or to send a letter of interest to someone, what do you think that tells me about you?  Sad.