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Hey everyone!

I'm a 22 year old female who is on the site to make new friends and learn new things. I previously had marked that I was seeking dominant men but took that down as I don't want to lead anyone into thinking that I am available. I am in a committed relationship and we are both doing our best to learn what we can. I would love any and all suggestions on how to better myself as a submissive but I am not looking to meet with anyone for official training at this time. When my boyfriend and I progress to that point, I will definitely make sure to change this.

I'm a sociology major with a minor in computer science. I've got 3 wonderful, very fat cats who constantly keep my life exciting. My favorite hobbies include starting to read new books that I never finish because I'll inevitably find a new one that looks REALLY good, spending too much time on the internet, baking cupcakes just to decorate them, discovering new ways to annoy my cats and going to the movies. I also play World of Warcraft.


I had someone ask a question about my hard limit on plastic wrap so I'll explain why I've listed what I have as hard limits. I've no experience with any of them actually, so maybe it's not quite fair to list them as such but I'm about 98% sure I wouldn't like them anyway. I can't stand to be restricted in such a way that I cannot move at least a little bit or see at least some light. Therefore no hoods or plastic wrap. (Assuming it's full body plastic wrap.) I can't stand being shocked so I'll assume electrical play is a no-go and I hate being humiliated so I couldn't perceive any enjoyment from that. I don't think I need to try water sports to know I don't like it, haha.


9/26/2011 4:18:38 AM

Since I was up earlier than my boyfriend this morning, I got up and made us breakfast. He's on the early shift this week and it always stresses him out so I thought maybe eating something would help...

 

He just said he wasn't hungry and didn't even bother to try it. =/

9/25/2011 4:41:44 AM

When did I first realize I might be submissive? When I sat at a man's feet while he stroked my hair and everything felt right in the world. I still remember the outfit he was wearing and the weather outside that day, cold - dead of winter. Strange how memories work. I was 14 at the time and he was 19. We'd sneak off to abandoned, dark classrooms during church. He opened my eyes to the world of kink. He would always leave first and I'd have to walk up the stairs, searching among the dark hallway to find him. He'd come out of nowhere, pushing me up against the wall to kiss me, pin my arms above my head, tease me as best he could given the circumstances. He showed me the very brink of what being submissive meant and I've not looked back since. 

GodessLola
 
 Age: 47
 Auburn, Washington