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I'm a laid back guy who's into almost anything - as long as it's exciting. I'm dominant, but know that's not a license to be pushy or rude, or to expect certain behavior from strangers.
I love music, cooking, philosophy, sailing, and meeting people. Conversation is my favorite hobby. I'm intensely relaxed. I believe that music is the language of the gods, that education is the only important social or political issue, and that life is prescious but if all you do is hold on to it- you're wasting it. I'm honest and direct. I'm confident. I don't need someone else to get me through life, I just want to meet people who are looking for similar experience along the way.
On the kinky side, I like to be around people that understand D/s is about more than kinky sex games and complicated clothing - that the relationship is about people pledging to take care of each other in their own ways, and each showing respect, deserving trust, and giving affection. That doesn't mean I can't be into something painful or harsh, but I'm only going to consider that sort of thing with someone once trust and respect exist to the point that I know we both understand that the scene is just a scene and that before, during and after I'll be caring about them.
Being submissive doesn’t mean having no opinions any more than being dominant means always being right. I’m intelligent, and find very few things sexier than spirited conversation. Too many people confuse being submissive with having no personality... or think they're dominant when in all actuality they're just overbearing and unpleasant. A healthy relationship, with or without power exchange, should lift everyone up and make them stronger, not tear anyone down.
I'm friendly and love to talk with everyone, so feel free to say hi. I'm NOT a fan of the 'so, you wanna come over and screw?' type of online meeting or dating. I'd love to have a relationship with the right person that lasts forever. But I think looking for a relationship is a great way to disappoint yourself and miss out on great people that could have been good friends along the way. So if you're a cute single girl with a submissive side... I'm still going to want to start with friendship. If more develops, that's fantastic... but I'd rather make 20 great friends than date the same 20 people in a row, break up with them and not have them in my life. Connections are the only thing that give life depth.
Also, no I won't come over to your dark house late at night for a first meeting. Unless you promise me puppies AND ice cream and have a letter of introduction from your congressman.
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