Just pondering role play and consciousness... Fantasy and role play often has a bad rap amongst tantra people for taking our minds away from the moment and being fully present.
It is an interesting game consciously agreeing to be the canvas on which someone else projects their erotic fantasy. Conscious role play is the art of not only allowing that projection but bringing it to life by accessing that archetype deep within ourselves.
Done with awareness and skill, we are no longer play acting to get a bit of erotic titilation but we are harnessing our deep erotic wiring to engage in personal subconscious patterns through sexually fuelled ritual. Powerful stuff. In my experience, not only does this lead to more satisfying sexual and/or bdsm play but ripples out into our whole lives in a positive way. |