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* According to national statistics, there are 5.8 males to every 1 female on sex-related websites.......given the fact that I am extremely picky, I should have somewhere around a 1 in 880,614,317,533.32 chance of finding what I seek on here.
Oh, joy.............
ABOUT ME:
I am extremely picky, and very guarded. I don't open up easily to females........I don't have " trust issues " I'm just not a social butterfly. ( Get to know me a little.....perhaps find out why I don't up easily to others. ) I know what I want and I shall not settle for anything less. I am actively seeking THE one sub for me.
I am not seeking perfection, and I am not shallow and only go by looks, however I do demand and require certain personal and physical traits and attributes in my potential sub. ( HINT: Small chests drive me crazy !!!! )
I am clean cut, athletic, 6'4", 205 pounds, total 100 percent Alpha~Male ( confident, NOT cocky ), short light brown hair, demanding blue eyes, I do not drink alcohol, do not smoke, I am 100 percent clean, I have never had any STD's, and absolutely no drugs of any kind. I have also never tried any drugs of any kind......nope, not even marijuana. I have no tattoos, but I have a few scars on my back, neck, and legs thanks to my chosen profession, and one bullet wound earned down in Central America. I have been a " Sheepdog " and protecting others since I was 18 years old. ( I served for 7 years in Army Special Ops before leaving the military and joining my chosen profession. )
I am not here to make warm & fuzzy friends, socialize, talk about the weather, attempt to be someone I am not, and I for sure will not attempt to impress females on the internet like most insecure men do on here. I have nothing to prove to anyone.......I have already proven myself to me. I'm extremely kinky, I'm a gentlemen, and I have class, so no cheesy / immature cock pictures on this profile. I have plenty of good friends and I have a life.......I would just like to find THE one sub for me. I do like to be goofy at times, laugh, have fun, enjoy life, and I like to secretly prank friends.
I am straight forward and honest, and I am NOT politically correct. I was born & raised in the southern Midwest, so I am NOT a liberal.
I am a true Alpha-Male and Dom in a very Alpha-Male profession and I have no problems leading other Alpha-Males. I am in no way better then them....I've just earned their respect as a leader.
I am by no means an " expert " Dom however I assure you I am not a novice Dom. I watched half of that Fifty Shades of Gray movie and turned it off, and I'm intelligent enough to know it is a freaking movie !! No where near real life. To me, the power exchange, control, teasing, and physically & mentally taking a sub to levels she has never reached is more important then the sexual aspect of being a Dom. Seeing certain looks of excitement, pure bliss, and pleading in a sub's eyes is extremely rewarding to me. Watching her eyes and body shake after I give a sub permission to cum is incredibly rewarding and powerful to me. The sexual aspect is important, but for me, it is far, far deeper than sex. If I can make my sub's body continue to shake uncontrollably as I am holding her in my arms several minutes after her body has exploded from an incredibly powerful orgasm, my goal has been accomplished. To me, that is rewarding.
I am well grounded, confident - not cocky ( big difference ), and if I do send a female a message on here, which would be very rare, it is because she has attracted my attention with her profile / pictures and I am at least some what interested........otherwise I would not be contacting you. No matter how interested I am in someone, five or six word response and/or one line responses from a sub is a clear message to me.....you don't have the time to make an intelligent reply, then I don't have the time for you.
I don't take too many things in life seriously, unless the bullets are flying at me, and I for sure don't take myself seriously. Having said that, a message on a computer screen should be a reflection of yourself, and it represents yourself. I will automatically assume you are not worthy of my time if your message is short, weird, shows a lack of intelligence....................OR if the message is from a guy.
I am not hung like a horse but I've never received any complaints, and I'm not rich with money however I am very wealthy with happiness. I don't have a six-pack stomach like I use to, but I don't have a fat, gross beer belly sticking out of a dirty, food stained wife-beater t-shirt either. ( Good mental picture, huh ? ) Bawahahaha !!
The best " tool " I have to excite my sub is......my brain. I'm not a college professor but I am college educated. I'm not as fast now as I was when I was 21, but I'm a heck of a lot smarter. I also know how to properly treat a sub, which includes discipline AND spoiling her, along with training her, protecting her, guiding her, listening to her, exploring her desires and fantasies, being her everything and helping her grow.
I know, understand, and I am experienced enough to know that every single Dom / sub relationship in the world is unique, special, and completely different from one another. I understand that it takes time, trust, patience, trust, dedication, more trust, above average listening skills, even more trust, intelligence, and more trust to lay a foundation and build upon any Dom / sub relationship, and that the Dom should guide and set the example for the sub to follow. I will NOT be jumping into your pants anytime soon.
It is very rare for me to make a promise, but when I do, it is a rock-solid promise. I do like some age play, I'm probably 51 percent a Daddy & daughter Dom, and all of my past subs have been younger than me. Age is not that important to me, but maturity is.
I am not here to play games or tell anyone how great and perfect I am. I am no better than anyone else, however I do hold myself to extremely high standards. My goal is to find what I seek, which I know that more than likely will not happen on here, however if I do this profile will be deleted and all of my attention will be given to my sub.........like a real Dom should do.
ABOUT MY POTENTIAL SUB:
A cute ass is nice, but small / perky tits is a huge plus and major turn-on for me. Seriously.....small tits just drive me crazy. All of my past subs have had small tits, and they have all been younger than me. I know most guys like huge, after-market chests but in all honesty, those are actually a turn-off for me. Granted, I do find some large breasts sexy, it is rare but it does happen, but a in shape, younger sub with small perky tits will stop me in my tracks and obtain my full and undivided attention........IF she has her head screwed on properly. In addition, I find shyness to be very attractive however I am respectful of a sub's shyness and I know how to make them comfortable. I am also attracted to subs who show pictures in their profile showing that they have some " class ". Each Dom has his major turn-ons......mine is small tits.
Cheap, trashy, or meaningless tattoos are also a big turn-off for me. If a sub has 1,000+ male " friends " on here, yeah........not interested. I'm really not interested in seeing pictures of my possible future sub with another man's cock in her mouth. Not saying you're a bad person, but if you have multiple videos of you getting fucked on your profile, that's cool, but you are not the sub I am looking for. Dozens and dozens of pictures of yourself ? Yeah......not interested.
My potential sub must be intelligent, have her life in order, like me she must also know or have a darn good idea of what she is seeking, she must be in shape, small tits are a plus.....small perky tits are a HUGE plus, have some class and self respect, financially stable, have a strong desire to please, learn, explore, and open up to me once the foundation of trust is established, and above all she must be honest. She must live her life in an honorable manner, and she must know that any hint of deceit, dishonesty, or disloyalty to me will leave her abandoned and alone.............immediately. I do NOT tolerate dishonesty, and I do NOT give second chances when it comes to being honest. My sub should expect and demand the same from me. I never have, and never will, hurt a sub, but I will turn my back and walk away without hesitation once the bond of trust is broken.......and I will not look back. It will be her loss, not mine, if she chooses to be dishonest with me. This might sound harsh, but if you think about it, what do you have without trust ? Not much, maybe a fuck-buddy, but that is not my style.
I do not share my sub with other men. Ever. My sub never has to worry about another man touching her. She will belong to me and no one else. However she may be allowed to play with another female sub......if she earns that pleasure.
I will always ensure that my sub feels safe, protected, and she will know and feel that I will never, ever let anyone harm her. THAT I can promise her.
A girl in blue jeans, baseball hat, a bouncy ponytail sticking out the back, and a smile on her face will catch my attention waaaaaay faster then a girl in a fancy dress. Nothing wrong with dresses........just saying. Girls who wear a lot of make-up is another major turn-off for me. Yuck.
I am not looking for a doormat. Rather, I am looking for sub who is strong, respects herself, and not easily collared by just any Dom, and once she decides that I am the Dom for her, she freely gives her gift of submission to me. That gift cannot be taken, only given.
I am NOT a wanna~be Dom and / or a Cyber Dom.......whatever the hell THAT is.......and I will never attempt to control a female on here, make her call me Sir or Master, and demand that she do something. Not only would that be disrespectful, it would clearly show a total lack of confidence on my behalf and very little experience as a Dom on my behalf.
Key-board Doms and/or Cyber Doms are obviously not true Doms at all......they are Bravo or Charlie males who fear the Alpha Males, thus they must hide behind the protection of their computer screens and pretend to be Doms. They have no courage, no self esteem, no confidence, and they run from the gunfire............instead of towards it like the Alpha Males do.
I am extremely respect towards all females, and I am a gentlemen.
OTHER INFO:
Stuff I am NOT into.......
No blood, no scat, no animals, stupid stuff, I have no desire to ever seriously hurt a female physically, mentally, or spiritually. Erotic pain and abuse are two totality separate things. Discipline is required at times, however my sub and I will have lengthy conversations about discipline before anything happens. Again, it is a trust-building conversation. I see enough abused and battered women at work, and in my opinion, I think cowards who hit females should be forced to meet me in a dark alley. Jerks who abuse females are a major pet peeve of mine, and it is one of the reasons I love my chosen profession........because I get to introduce myself to these cowards and watch them pee their pants, watch their legs shake, and watch them cry like the cowards they are. Anyways, continuing on....no needles, no drugs, no children, and no stupid / weird stuff. Anyone who harms children should just be shot on sight....maybe tortured a little first.
Did I mention no needles ? ACK !!!
There are A LOT of " WTF " kinks on this website, and I'm not knocking anyone who does the extreme, strange, bizarre stuff, but I'll leave that stuff to ya'all. I have no desire to put large metal hooks into my sub's skin and then hang her from the ceiling like a trophy while she bleeds from the hooks......if you're into that, move along......nothing to see here. ( Seriously..........WTF !!!??? )
Anyone who hurts animals needs a fist slammed into their face......repeatedly. I'm a hunter and I have no problems hunting for food......humans have been doing that for a little while, ya'all. I'm pro-gun but not a gun nut or gun idiot.
I like to restrain my sub from time to time, however I am not into rope play, suspended a female from a ceiling by ropes, from trees, from lamp posts, etc. etc.
If you call yourself a " brat " we are for sure not compatible. My sub must be single......I could care less whatever those other " relationship things " you have, like protecting, in a pack, under the protection of, sister-hood, under the protection of, etc. etc. I'm a adult and I act like one, and I don't have time to play teenage games.
If you are in a " open relationship " then feel free go to be " open " with someone else. I am not interested. If you have a " play partner " I am not interested. If you are " Dating " then I am not interested. Single and/or uncollared are acceptable.
If you profile contains the words " spoil me " in a material / financial way, I suggest you go get a job.
If you profile has the word " sugar " anywhere in it, move along.....nothing to see here. If your profile has the word " Daddy " in it, feel free to say hello :)~
I am not into needles, knife play, cutting skin, or putting the personal safety of my sub at risk for ANY reason.
Tattoos on a female's chest just does NOT do it for me.
If you like laying next to me in bed with nothing on but a thong and eating Peanut Butter Cap'n Crunch while watching a movie you will immediately get my FULL and undivided attention !! :)~
Oh, my sub must also like dogs, i.e. German Shepards. That would more than likely be a deal-breaker for me if she didn't.........
And fair warning: I very much enjoy extreme teasing, orgasm control and orgasm denial, more than likely at a level you have NEVER experienced before, and I love to hear begging......especially for permission to cum.
Lastly, and this is important, ladies........words are very, very easy to type on a computer screen. Any man ( or boy ) can call himself a " Dom " on the internet, and any man can make whatever claims he wants. The words in my profile are true and correct, and can easily be proven by getting to know me........if I am interested in you. If you find a few things about me interesting and attractive, then feel free to get to know me a little and see for yourself how true they are. This is the internet.......and females should be, and need to be, careful on here. Sadly, there is evil in our world and there are some sick, evil men who walk the Earth. If you honestly believe that there are no evil people in this world then you are simply a victim going somewhere to happen. I understand, and respect, that any sub / female who communicates with me on here needs to be careful and put her safety first. In fact, I find that very attractive. I won't be jumping ahead and asking personal questions, prying into your private life, or asking anything that would make you feel uncomfortable. Just remember....I do expect and demand honesty.
Take a look at the fetishes I like, and if they match yours or if you have any questions feel free to say hello and ask away.
Oh, and if Daisy Ridley is on this website and is reading this, you have my permission to message me anytime ya wanna. :)
" The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.....whom face is marred with dust, sweat, and blood. He who knows the great triumph of victory and the agony of defeat. And if he shall fail, at least he shall fail daring greatly, so that his soul will never be among those cold, timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat. "
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O.K., I'm just a Southern boy, born & raised, transplanted here in ?????? State thanks to good 'ol Uncle Sam and the U.S. Army..........but why do 99.9999999 percent of the subs around here have large or huge tits !!!??? Does all the rain around here make 'em grow !!?? Is there something in the water ?? WTF !!??
Where are all the small, perky tits that just drive me crazy ???
Ugh......my search continues..................
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I am simply amazed at the lack of intelligence of some women on here. Being submissive does NOT mean you have a 7th grade education level !!!
I'm not looking for a post-doctorate degree here, but sending 7 or 8 worded messages with mis-spelled words is really, really not attractive. One can only imagine what you must be like in person if you cannot even communicate intelligently on a computer. UGH.............
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