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| I am a 29 year old Dom, who has been into aspects of this lifestyle since I was about 15. To be completely honest it wasn't until I was 21 or so until I realized this could be a lifestyle for me and not just some kinky fun at night. Before I get into all the juicy details about myself, my likes and what I seek there are a few things that you need to know first and they are;
1. While I am into giving pain and having rough sex with my submissives, I believe in respect. Respect is a two-way street and a crucial part of a Dom-sub relationship. This means that I will respect your limits, wants, wishes and desires. In return though failure to respect me will result in great amusement of myself and a load of pain and misery for you.
2. submissiveness is a gift, you my sub are giving me your body, mind and some believe soul as a gift for my own keeping to do with as I wish. I will cherish this gift of yours and am humbled to recieve it. My gift to you is to provide you with love, respect and to a warm feeling knowing you are protected by me.
3. submissive vs slave, really in my eyes these terms are one and the same. It doesn't matter if I call you sugar, kitten, slut, slave, or sub. What matters is you attitude, my attitude and our chemistry when in a scene or living this lifestyle 24/7. Words are just descriptions or titles, nothing more and some people place way to much importance on them.
4. Finally, looks they don't matter to me. Again this is about your attitude and willingness to give me the gift of your submission.
So that is out of the way lets talk about me, yes I am 250 @ 5'8" which makes me overweight. Not gonna hide it, not gonna lie about it, however overweight does not equate to out of shape. I can hike, bike, etc all day long and I walk for 4 hours a day at work. So if stamina and strength is a concern of yours, rest assured if I need to or want to, I can rough you up any day of the week. I have black hair, blue eyes and unfortunately need to be clean shaven due to the kind of work I do.
While I am on the subject, I do have a job and its important for the sake of my income that this part of my life be controlled. I can do this publicly but only in certain situations to ensure confidentialy of my activities. If my clients knew what I did, well there may be questions asked and I may loose my job.
I am looking for an eventual 24/7 situation, which means no cyber or phone only crap. If I need a picture to jerk off too, Google Images has plenty for me to find. I believe in domestic discipline, living to some if not all Gor theories and making this as much of a lifestyle as possible. Closet BDSMers are okay so long as you are willing to be in this lifestyle in the home even in front of friends.
My likes are varied and my limits are no guys and no T's, its that simple, that easy. We can discuss likes, wants, fetishes later as we get to know each other.
You, what am I looking for in a sub?
Well for starters a female, looks non-important, and you must have a submissive attitude. You must be willing to be trained to serve me in any capacity in the home any time I wish. You must be willing to follow rules that I create, and be willing to be harshly punished for failure to follow them. I can respect your limits dependent upon what they are, and that again can be discussed later. Really I am open to a semi-wide variety of people as I believe I will only be able to find the sub I am seeking once I get to talking to her and know her better then what a single e-mail, IM, text or profile can say.
So if you are interested or like whats here, you know what to do oh and pic for pic. Again I work in a sensitive industry and I kinda need an income to pay the bills.
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