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	I don't like being thought of as a bully. That's just childish. I don't take things from people and if that's what you think your partner should be then you may need to re-evaluate that. It's not healthy. Domination isn't supposed to be about taking everything and giving nothing. If you're looking for someone to abuse you physically or emotionally, I can do nothing for you. What I'm looking for is to have a relationship with a woman who desires a close friend in their lover and someone that they can rely on, just as I am. I've come to a point in my life where meeting new women is rare, as I am fully nocturnal and working the graveyard shift. I hope that I can use this place to fix that. Let's go see Disney movies together and come home to play Mario Kart. Sex is something that everyone wants and needs at some point, but I'm mainly just looking for someone to put my arm around and laugh with. Be my friend. Then, we'll move on to being things each other needs. I am a very private person and choose not to show my full face since my job is one that values anonymity. However I make it a point to include a picture of my full face in every first message I send as a show of faith. You need only ask. What are you here for, girl? Let's chat.

11/19/2013 1:30:48 AM

If you read my profile entry and made your way to this first journal entry, you have my attention. You know where I stand, and if you're still interested after hearing what I have to say here then I'll be completely willing to hold a Skype interview with you. After that....we'll talk.

Some things you should know about who you're talking to:

I'm not interested in dating anyone over 28 years old, and I'm also not interested if you have a child. I'm sure that you and your baby are both beautiful and if you'd like to shoot me a message anyway simply to talk, that is absolutely fine. But I'm not ready for that level of responsibility. Sorry.
I'm willing to share pictures, as anyone should be on this site, but my profile picture is the most that I can show to the general public. If you'd like to see my face just shoot me a message.
I'm not looking for a poly relationship.
I am completely open to, and quite experienced in, long distance relationships. Living closer to each other is a nice plus, but not necessary.
I am nocturnal. It's pretty rare to find me awake during the middle of the day! If I have not returned your message, it's probably because I just haven't gotten on yet. Be patient. I'll be back to talk soon, promise.
I'd very much like to hear exactly what you'd expect from a dominant if you message me. I admit that I am still very casual about this whole scene, but I would love to have a back and forth about your limits and needs if that's something you'd like to discuss. Pain, Name calling, Daily tasks and Restrictions...if you allow me to know exactly how far you want me to take things, it'll make it that much easier for me to keep us both happy.

And there you have it. The best way to start off a conversation with me is simply to introduce yourself and tell me exactly what I asked in my profile: "What are you here for?" And having the commitment to read through all this and send me an eloquent, friendly, and informative message is the fast track to getting a response. I look forward to speaking with you and I hope we can be good friends. :)