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****Since it will be a few weeks before I can get some recent photos uploaded, just a description of what I look like: Mostly Irish-American with some German, Swedish and Cherokee Indian thrown in: I have black hair, green eyes---am 5"6, weigh about 133 lbs, give or take a few on certain days, have an athletic build and have all the right curves in all the right places, like most women do: I do have large breasts, surprisingly, some men do not like this but I am a size 44D: all me, by the way. Have a decent behind and hips to match, more muscle tone then most women as I work out and lift weights--just wanted to give you an idea as some have a preference for blondes, redheads...etc, etc...*****
Hello, hope everyone is doing well. First, I am not in the exact location that is on my profile, but within 50 miles--just for privacy reasons, I don't go about shouting out my lifestyle choices and I don't want anyone to discover me on here. Secondly, pictures coming soon, just do not have any recent ones. It would be misleading to post a pic that is older than a few months, so I will get some taken and posted as soon as I can. May be awhile, as I am very busy with work, classes and volunteer work. I am not experienced as some people are on here, but experienced enough to know I am a natural born submissive who needs someone who is Dom in my life--kind of like air for me. I have never been a slave, but would consider it if I found someone I could completely trust--I am leaving the BDSM interests alone as I feel those are better left open for discussion, the only hard limits I have are these: no children whatsoever, no animals ever!!!, no human waste and little to no blood. I don't consider any of these healthy for myself or for you. Other then that, I am open to experimentation and exploring. Please do not make the mistake of assuming that just because I am a submissive and a follower, that I lack intelligence. I am actually very highly educated and a professional. It would be wonderful to find a Dom/Master who has a sense of humor, is kind hearted but still has a firm hand, someone who is capable of running a household, making all of the decisions and one who respects women, even though we most likely agree as to what a woman's place is in her household and what her priorities should be. That doesn't mean it has to be a demeaning situation, more like an old-fashioned relationship.
Have had several relationships, one D/s "light" one, several vanilla ones, one with a woman who I still care deeply for and consider a very good friend, and one marriage which miserably failed--should've known better at this point in my life as to know what my needs and wants are, and sadly, in no way shape or form, did my ex-husband fulfill those roles.
Aspects of the vanilla life that I enjoy:
shopping, reading, writing, working out, gourmet cooking, love to travel, flea markets, antique markets, farmers markets, sports, amusement parks, history buff, fine foods and wine, art galleries, movies, love to spend time around family, strong advocate for children's rights, volunteer with American Cancer Society, American Liver Association, food pantries, Red Cross and any organization that works with fostering and socializing animals for adoptions. Also volunteer with several hospitals in the area, visiting patients who have no family or friends--just visiting with them and reading to them, sometimes its as simple as just sitting by their side and watching TV. Love to host parties, very much of a care taker and a pleaser. Making others happy, makes me happy.
Consider myself as somewhat weird at times, with a wacky sense of humor, a bookworm who can spend hours in a book store or a library. Things I have to do daily is exercise and write in my journal. Keeping in touch with family and friends just to make sure everyone is doing ok, is also very important to me.
Please note that I will answer anyone who is nice enough to send me a message (only exceptions are scammers and I see right through them--if a scammer does slip by me, it won't take me long to figure it out and you will simply be blocked) if your nice enough to send me a message, then please be assured I hold enough respect for you to answer, it may take a few days--even up until a week, but you will get a reply. Don't particular care about your race, gender, age( as long as you are legal) ..etc as long as you are Dom. Would prefer someone who is on their own and taking care of themselves--not sure how a man can define himself as a Dom and still live with his parents--guess it's possible if someone knows for sure they are a Dom and are very young...late teens-early 20's . I am in my 40's and most of my pals are in their mid-late 20's up until mid 50's--but please do not hesitate to send me a message if you think we might click, let's give it a shot and see what happens. Take care, hope to hear from you soon.
***Just wanted to add some information: If you have gotten this far in reading my profile, Thank You!!! I know it is a very long one, and if you got to the end, that tells me how deep your interests goes. I did do a few journals on here that some folks have not read, and that is okay, I completely understand--this is a lot of information that I am throwing at you, so not reading the journals is completely understandable. I did want to add some of the journal information on here though--first, for some reason my chat here on CM is not working, and it's bothering me quite a bit--I don't want anyone to think I am rude and ignoring your chat requests, I would love too chat--but for some reason, it is not working. If we exchange a few messages and I know a little bit about you, I will hand out my Yahoo ID that I set up for this purpose only. Secondly, I have been bombarded with messages, bordering on the insane here--I am sure it is the same for all of the new folks who open up a profile--but I haven't had much of a chance to even begin replying to messages, and I don't know why, but cyber time seems to differ from real-time in that some people are just impatient and want a reply right now--I have literally had this profile open for about 44 hours, and already have gotten a few from people along the lines "I am sorry you are not interested" or "I took you for your word in your profile that everyone would get a reply back" to "why am I unworthy of your interest"...please!! I am trying my hardest to be respectful and polite and answer messages in the order they have come in: and to be honest, I have only replied to those who sent me a message today along the lines above--I haven't even answer some of the folks yet who sent me a message literally before I even finished filling out my profile interests. Due to work and my volunteer work, I do have set aside time to do this (and find the time to get my sleep and workout) --I am very serious that I am real, am seeking a long-term Dom/Master, any living situation that I feel is right, I am going to pursue that--but in the meantime, I have to live and function in the vanilla world, work--meetings--volunteer duties--family dinners--time with friends, or being there for a friend when needed..etc. This will all change for me (and I am A-Ok with that, believe me) when I connect with my partner or partner(s), and my priority becomes devoting most of my free time, if not all of my free time to building respect, comfort, friendship, figuring out limits, what is expected of me..trips and then living arrangements. I will just be honest, if you are really really that impatient for a reply, in that I haven't even had two full days to get back with you, then that tells me a great deal about how much patience you will have in training me and teaching me on how to fulfill you needs. Again, lengthy profile and if you have read of all of this, thank you very much, it means a lot to me that you took the time.
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Hello Everyone---A sincere Thank You to everyone who has taken the time to send me a message. I have sent replies back to a few, who didn't read these journals-and that is ok. If you read my long, long profile and made it to the end, and still took the time to message me, well, that just sort of blows me away. The few that I replied back too, I got the feeling from their messages they were feeling ignored,and that is not the case--to be honest, if I had realized how many messages would be coming in during this initial "newbie" phase, I might have waited awhile before opening up a profile. I am still getting a lot of messages, but it has slowed down now--for that I am grateful. I literally have pages of messages to respond too, and EVERYONE who took time out of their busy lives, to send me a message, will get a reply, I promise. This week has been exceptionally busy with work things, and an ill family member who has had surgery. I will start getting back with everyone beginning this Saturday. One thing I can say, is that I will narrow this down as quickly as I can--you just cannot show the proper respect nor devote the time to building a relationship of this kind, if you are speaking to multiple potential partner or partners--that is not fair to either one of us, and I am not the type to play around and waste anyone's time, if I don't think there is a connection there. Just wanted to let everyone know where I am with this, and please do not feel like I am ignoring you. That is not me, I am huge on manners and respect (this is why I will answer everyone, I have seen somethings on other subs/slaves profile that it would be unrealistic for them to answer all of their messages, well bull!! Show respect where respect is deserved, that is all I am going to say!!)Please just have some patience with me. Thanks!! |
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If you are putting yourself down as one of my "admirers", why aren't you leaving me a message? Thanks to all who have done this, as I just took a look at that--but I am highly curious, because most of you who did this, chose not to message me? I would love to hear something from you--a hello would be nice, just saying..... |
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Hello, just an FYI--will be out of town for work for the majority of next week. I will return on Thursday as an immediate family member is having surgery. Just wanted to let everyone know to expect an reply from me sometime from next Friday evening (will probably just go work out and take it easy for the night, health is very important to me, and that sometimes means slowing down some and letting your body recover) but I will be finally getting the chance to sit down and actually answer these messages beginning Friday evening through Sunday night. I plan on devoting the majority of my time this weekend to doing just that--I know some of you, at that point, will have been waiting for a reply from me for over a week, and I do apologize for that. I just didn't expect to receive so many, I'm sure that is normal for anyone new--but it did take me by surprised, but I don't easily get overwhelmed, thank goodness. I know that no one on here knows me too well, but please think of me tomorrow and on Wednesday as I give presentations to a crowd of potential clients --oh, about 1200 of them. I also believe in the power of prayer, so if you think of it, and you pray yourself, ask a little prayer for my close relative who is having a somewhat serious surgery on Thursday. Thanks!! Look forward to finally getting my replies out there!! Everyone have a great week.
PS: Pics will be posted (tasteful ones) the week of 10/21--sorry, my friend who is a photographer can't take the pictures until the weekend of 10/18--and these are going to be pictures of everyone in my family for a Christmas gift for our mother--no worries, there will be plenty of pics of just little ole me--as we will probably all be goofing around and taking our own silly pics with our cheapy cameras...you know how it is--everyone grows up and it takes time for everyone to get the same day free..and we have teens doing their "time" in fast food, having to request that day off, but anyway, the pics--as promised are on their way.... |
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Hello, the chat feature on this site is not working for me, not sure why--but if you have made a request to chat with me, I know several of you have, I am not ignoring you. From my computer background, I can see some technical flaws with this site. Once we have exchanged messages a few times, I will give you my Yahoo messenger ID--not a problem at all. In the meantime, I will check about why the chat isn't working for me, my guess is that I need to change some of my settings. I am very surprised of the amount of messages that I am getting, and thank you to the few who explained the filtering on this..I appreciate that so much. I knew it couldn't be that I am just such a "heavenly creature"...ha, ha--I knew that other new profiles had to get the same amount of messages too. A few other things, when I do post my pics, they will be of a vanilla nature, no nudes or anything like that--also if we do have a video call via Skype or Facetime, please don't ask me to get naked for you, it's not gonna happen. Believe me, these things--sexy pics, sexting, naughty IM's--once it is out there, its out there forever. Hopefully, things will progress smoothly and we can look forward to a real-time face to face meeting, on the first one, please do not expect anything sexual to happen...now the second and third time...weelllll....:)...Also, I will answer everyone who sends me a message, as I said before, if you are kind enough to think I am worthy of getting to know, then I hold enough respect for you to get back with you. I don't leave people hanging in the dark. I know a few of you have stated to please not keep you waiting long, I will try--but I am replying in the order these have been received, but I will get back with you as soon as I can. Now not to be sarcastic, ok maybe a little bit, to the ones who have sent me a weird or rude message...why? Don't you have a life? Better things to do? Your own sub/slave to bother..oh yeah--with your lovely personality, I can just see a woman jumping to be by your side. Other then that, a HUGE thank you to the kind Dom who took a lot of his time to type me up some of the things to look for and how to handle situations--I am so grateful and I don't take the time you put into your message for granted--I have printed it off and highlighted certain areas--I will definitely get back with you when I can, but from your message, I know you are watching my profile and reading these journal deals, so I wanted to go ahead and thank you since it will probably be a few more days before I can reply. Thanks to everyone!!! |
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Where's the filter that lets everyone know that a newbie has joined the group? There's got to be one, because there is no way I could have become bombarded with messages like this. Just to add a few comments: yes I am real, yes--I am serious and I have no intentions of wasting your time (or mine), I don't care about your money,age,race,religion or what country you are from---if things get that far, a background check will be ran anyways. (hope you would do the same on me, just for your safety) Scammers--I have a past background in programming, don't try it on me, that is all I am going to say. Yes, my profile name is ArizonaSun. I was born in Arizona and that is mainly how I came up with it. If you got through my lengthy profile, you will see where I am honest and telling you that I am within 51 miles of the location that I put on my profile--that can put me in Arkansas or Missouri, if we chat, I have no problems proving my identity to you and where I am at--as of right now, being discreet is extremely important for me, professional wise. I am sorry that my profile is a long one, when I write I tend to write, write and write-should see my personal journals--I am just as comfortable communicating in the written form as I am verbally. To be honest, I have won several contests as a writer, I have also tutored children struggling with English and all of the little "rules" that come along with it. When I was younger, most people thought I would be a author or a journalist, instead I ended up in a variety of fields, but not those two--more like a hobby for me, not a way to make a living. Thanks for the advice that some have sent to me regarding hard limits and what changes could be made to my profile(this is the first profile I have created, anywhere!!) --I will certainly read over those again and take them into consideration. Finally, no situation is too kinky for me--if you want to know something, just ask...it's not a big deal and I will be completely honest with you. We're all a little bit on the kinky side, why else would we be here??? Thanks.... |
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| Age: 20 |
| Detroit,
Michigan |
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