Dominant man, not a sadist (though I do inflict pain when appropriate) but mostly into humiliation. Not bi and not interested in men sexually, but curious about an idea to dominate a couple (lots of possibilities for humiliation there).

I have been into this (for real and online) for about 10 years, and I had a few long term real life relationships with submissive girls but that is behind me (due to some changes in my real life). In other words, I am not looking for a relationship but only want to stay in touch with the lifestyle through communication with likeminded people.

A note for all of you who are in the lifestyle and feel the need to message me and call me a wannabe or fake (not to mention all the insulting words some of you could think of): I am not pretending to be one of you, I am not lying to anyone or asking anything from anyone. I live a happy, fulfilled life which right now can not include BDSM, and all I am interested in is communication with others like me. There are people in a situation similar to mine, and we talk, have fun, maybe even get some pleasure from all this. We also get to know each other and learn from each other and I don't see what is wrong with that and how it bothers anyone.