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My main kinks
Consensual non-consent (from sleep play, to fear struggle play, to kidnappingimprisonment)
Restraintssimple bondage
Roleplay
Interested in exploring my little side pet play.
*I prefer meeting in person rather than online play, but will only meet those who seem to be a good match.
If you just want pics or online interaction you can find me on Fetlife (AriannaKinMO), Instagram, Reddit, OF (Ariannak12free), etc.
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Hustlers taboo nights
Update: The second time i went to taboo, i got the privilege of trying the violet wand for the first time. @Seventhsun did the demonstration with a few different attachments, including one he'd made himself called the "jellyfish". i learned that not only do i have a high tolerance for it, but i really like electrical toys. ;P
He asked permission to "go below the belt" with it lol, and when he asked how it felt i said, "It needs to be stronger". Apparently, it wasn't very common for a girl to say that to him when they have electricity going through their pussy. Lol ;D
First time at taboo: i went to Taboo night at the Hustler club, and got to watch a scene by @KotBegemot. It was the first rope scene i'd ever witnessed, and it was different then i had expected--it was more time-consuming, but also more sensual in person. The rope work was incredible, and even the way he UNtied her was beautiful.
...The only thing i did was climb in the cage towards the end of the night when fewer people were watching :P Next time, i hope to be braver and actually partisipate in a scene ;) |
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Went to my first FLOG party recently. I still didn't participate, I was just watching and learning. The best part was watching the knife play--so hot! ;) |
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Just a silly list of my sex/kink experiences. Kinda the opposite of my sexual bucket list. Enjoy ;)
? i lost my virginity at age 19 to a 57 year old guy i met off Craigslist personals...He tied me to the bed. i cleaned his house in lingerie with close pins on my nipples, and addressed him as "Sir". He had hooks in his ceiling, a drill-powered dildo, a dog kennel, among other toys. This was my first experience with a Dom (but i already had a knowledge of BDSM and an interest in kink before meeting him).
? i slept with a guy in someone else's bed, when he was supposed to be house-sitting for a neighbor. i had met him off Fetlife. That was the first time i ever had my ass licked (and it actually felt kinda good). He was so damn cute, but when he wanted me to lick his ass i just couldn't do it--and i'm pretty sure i never will do it lol.
? i got picked up by a guy in a white, unmarked van with no windows at night. He drove around delivering pastries to various stores, then we parked behind some BBQ restaurant. He told me he'd never cum from a blowjob yet, so i tried extra hard to get him off--and succeeded. However, he couldn't get it up after that to have sex, so that was kind of a bummer.
? i've had a FFM threesome at a little asian chicks house when her parents weren't home. We got fucked side-by-side bent over the couch. Downside was he didn't last long, and i definitely didn't enough attention to really enjoy the experience much.
? i've had sex in a pool. This was the first time i'd had sex without a condom. To this day, it was the best sex i've ever had--and i had seen the guy before on a few occasions so i know it just wasn't him. Sex in the pool was just super hot.
? i invited a stranger i met off Craigslist to my house. i was naked on the bed, ass up, face down when he arrived. He used his belt to tied my hands behind my back, and fucked me like that.
? Grabbed a strippers huge cock. Damn that was a fun night lol.
?Went to a sex club on my 21st birthday. i was already so wasted, but they gave us free jello shots. i was played with by several men, and sucked a few cocks, but was too drunk to do anything else--i had a hard time moving off the couch to get myself in a position to be fucked lol.
? Went to a nude beach in Miami, Florida.
? Since i started doing the nude photography, i've been naked in a few interesting places--a swamp in Florida, St.Louis during the daytime, in various parks, in a creek, corn field, a friends house, and more. Never in my life had i pictured myself doing these things--especially since a few short years ago i hated my body, and didn't even wear shorts!
? Did my first CNC scene in the woods behind a Steak n Shake and was left with scratches, bites, and bruises.
? Finally went to my first munch (the Kinky in St.Charles munch), and a play party (Taboo at the Hustler club).
? Was pretty much forced to sit on a guys face. Facesitting wasn't something i had ever tried before. i didn't enjoy it whatsoever.
?Had sex standing up behind a building after the Kinky in St.Charles munch at Vettes...For some reason i had trouble accomplishing this position before--i started to think i was too short or something to have sex standing up. When i think about it though, the guys i had tried it with before had been around my age. They were young and didn't know what they were doing lol. Now i find myself wanting to get fucked almost everywhere standing up. It was so easy; i didn't even have to take my underwear all the way off. And, it was so incredibly fucking hot.
? Sucked a guy at a park, out in the open. It was for photoshoot, but still, i'd never done anything like that before. ;P
? Went to my first kink class ever (It was just a free little class at the Rodao Drive adult store on erotic blade play).
? i tried my hand as a Top once. i restrained him to the bed, put the blindfold on, and began to tease him in the play room at Sweet Bellas adult club. i think he enjoyed the blade play the most.
...More to come...soon hopefully! ;) |
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Just ramblings...
i never let the waters go over my head, never let my emotions for someone consume me. When i have a crush, it usually passes without a word being shared between us. i don't take the risk, don't make the leap to form a connection. i'd gone without a tender touch or a passionate kiss for so long, i forgot that's what i wanted. i got so used to one night stands, in my mind i categorized "boyfriends" in with "true love" and "fairy tales".
i gave up on relationships before i ever really had one. They always ended before i could think about falling head over heels. Until recently, a relationship was an unobtainable concept for me--you spend too much time with me, and you start to see flaws and imperfections i like to keep hidden. Most people have experienced a broken heart, while i've never let mine be touched.
Even now i can't let off the brakes. i can't get in too deep. With everything he says, i wait for that one word--but; "I like you...but...". Everything ends. i know the crash, burn, and broken heart awaits me at some point.
Still, it's opened new doors, revealed possibilities i'd long given up on. More and more i find myself wanting to walk into the fire. i want to lose myself. i want to be set free of the inhibitions. i know it won't happen anytime soon, but with someone, at some point, i want to let myself fall--because i believe in that saying, "It's better to have loved and lost..." |
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Sweet Bellas adult club
Even though i had been there breifly before, i was nervous at first. The DJ didn't help. He acted like all the other guys would be aggressive and pushy, yet he was the only guy that night that annoyed me--but i won't go into a rant. :P All the other guys seemed great--they talked to us, but kept their distance. When i was touched, it was brief, and i liked it. They didn't harass me.
There was a pool in the play room, a stripper pole on the stage. They took volunteers and did some wax play. In the lounge, there were these confidential folders and if you looked inside you had to do what they said--it was a cute game.
i'm still nervous about playing in public, so i was glad the play room was empty most the night. We only had a few spectators come and go. i really went out of my element that night, and Topped for the first time ever pretty much. First, i restrained him to the bed and blindfolded him. Then, i began to tease him--first with a pin wheel, then a knife. i clicked the blade open close to his ear, and said, "Now try not to move, because this one's sharp." Now, i don't really enjoy Topping for any scene--however, his reaction made it totally worth it. |
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Vanilla me
i've always been a bit of a contradiction. i've never got into a fight--but i try to keep a knife in my purse and have several hidden in my bedroom. i'm shy, terrified of small talk, and hate to be the center of attention--and yet the back of my car is covered in eye-catching naughty stickers and i'll dress slutty in public on occasion. i love violent rap songs as well as mellow country beats. i love learning, but didn't finish college. i like to be touched and kissed softly, but then fucked hard. i love long drives--as long as i'm not the driver. i want a dominant guy, but it's actually better if i make the first move.
i only open up to certain people. i've learned that my shyness doesn't go away with time, no matter how long--my stepdad has been around since i was a baby and i still get nervous around him, for virtually no reason. Other people i gradually get more and more comfortable with, some people faster than others. i prefer to be around people that don't judge--whether it be others appearances, race, religion, weight, lifestyle choices, sexual orientation, etc.
In general, i'm a very happy person. i'm easily entertained, and don't have much drama. i only smoke or do drugs once in a blue moon. i don't drink often, and usually not much. i'm disease free, and don't have any major health concerns. i think my biggest flaws are my weight, my social anxiety, and tend to get frustrated easily.
i am still evolving. i'm not quite the person i want to be yet, but i'm getting there. i'm trying to be more active in the lifestyle, and have been going to different events and classes. i'm exploring, learning, and trying new things. i'm slowly becoming more confident, and less shy. i speak my mind and stand up for myself more--however, that has resulted in a few angry outbursts that are very uncharacteristic of me.
From a relationship POV: Most people are courteous and polite at first; they're a good host. i'm the opposite. i'm a bit stand-offish at first. i mean, at work I'll let customers slide if they're short some change, i'll hold open doors for people, etc. i'm not a total grouch lol. But, if you're in my house, in my space, in my way...i don't want to get you a drink, a towel, or even a band-aid if you need it. As i start to like someone though, i get more generous and sweet. i'll offer to buy them food, give them a ride somewhere--hell, even sew a hole in their clothes. And i'll actually want to talk, to kiss, and to cuddle.
Life goals: i've always had humble aspirations--i don't wish for money, fame, a big house, a luxury car, a prestigious career, or anything like that. i don't have big goals or a 5-year plan. i just want to be happy. i want to live a life i don't need a vacation from. i want to do what feels right whether it fits societies norm or not, and i want a man i can share that sort of life with. The rest of the details aren't important, or are subject to change.
Biggest pet peeves: when people don't have a clear mind (like if they've been drinking, smoking, or doing drugs), dogs that aren't trained, people that don't use their blinkers, and people that stand in the middle of a walkway/leave their carts in the middle of an aisle.
Hobbies:
Walking/hiking
Erotic photography
Writing/reading
Interesting facts:
i love snakes.
i don't kill bugs; i catch them in a cup or something and toss them outside (except for crickets, because i have a slight phobia of them).
i watch porn.
Most of the time, i dislike shopping (except at pet stores or adult stores).
i have vaginal orgasms, which is caused by stimulation of the cervix rather than the clit. Clitoral stimulation like oral and vibrators does almost nothing for me.
...Well, that's probably more than you really needed to know about me, so i'll end it there. :3 |
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More ramblings...With soft/hard limits, you know what i don't want to do. What about what i *do* want to? My hopes is that this list will give you an idea of what sort of D/s relationship i want. The Dom gets final say of course--it really depends on what he likes, but...
i like:
?Eye contact restrictions
?Speach restrictions
?Being naked in the house, and having to sleep naked
?Domestic service
?Sexy/slutty dress codes, having my clothes picked out.
?Giving up control over my appearance--like how long my hair is, nail polish color, makeup, if you want me to tan, etc.
?Having to address/sign text or emails a certain way.
?Having to send sexy new pictures everyday for my Dom's enjoyment.
?Written essays
?Keping a journal
?Keeping a punishment book
?Wearing a collar to bed, in public, even to work.
?Being restricted from using toys or masterbating without Dom's permission.
?Having food ordered for me at a restaurant, and not being able to take a bite before he does.
?Receiving cock pics as a reward
?Being sexually available for his use whenever, wherever. Being interupted from whatever i'm doing for sex.
?Feeling owned, feeling protected
?Assignments aimed at improving myself: being told to practice deepthroat, do stretches, etc. Or even being told to donate blood, help a stranger, etc.
?Games: like being told to drive naked one night, or to take specific pictures. Sex dice, kinky card games, vibrating panties, ice locks, and other toys. Light a candle, and foreplay must last until candle burns out. Maybe a fun/light interogation/torture scene...Stuff like that.
?Creative or thought-out scenes. Like if we're doing a kidnap/blindfolded scene, i want to smell cigarette smoke on him if he normally doesn't smoke so i start to second-guess if its really him or not. If i'm blindfolded but i know where were going, drive around for a while to confuse me. Etc.
?Going to play parties, dungeons, and other various kink events.
?Doing vanilla things together, but maybe making them sorta kinky too--like fooling around in a theatre. If we go for a hike, take naughty pics.
?Sexting
?Giving up control over extra spending money after bills are paid (so if i want to buy a new toy, shoes, or something i'm willing to ask my Dom first)
?Going shopping in adult stores together
?Trade offs: if a want to watch a show on TV that you don't particularly like, i'll have to service you during break. If i wanna do something you aren't thrilled about, i'll have to complete a task i normally don't do.
?i like to feel owned. Make me change the "about me section" on FL to say no other Doms may not contect me without talking to my Sir first (or something like that). Write Your name on my skin for a picture. Introduce me to other people as "Your sub". Etc.
?i like to feel protected. If a guy at a bar/club touches me without permission, i want a Dom to say something to him so i don't have to.
?Trying new things...There have been a few occasions that i did something i didn't think i was going to like, but then did end up enjoying it. |
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Most days i'm content with typical fantasies, mild kinks, and normal-sized dildos. Some days though, my mind is restless. My body is desperate. My fantasies grow depraved and even somewhat violent.
i'm not experienced with BDSM, or even sex for that matter. i've never had impact play go beyond a few light spanks. i've never been pushed to use a safeword. Unfortunately, my shyness prevents me from getting out there most of the time. But all the guys i do end up meeting take it too easy on me. i ask them to tie me up, but when they do, the bonds are loose and easily escapable. i ask them to choke me, but all they do is cuff my neck with their hand. They're either afraid to scare me off, or end up in jail (for BDSM mistaken as abuse)--even if i ask for it, even if i beg for it. It's somewhat dissapointing. i'm always left wanting more.
Some days i want a cock pounded into my cervix hard enough that i'm sore afterwards. i want a knife at my throat, or a gun to my head and to be told what to do. i want my clothes to be torn off my body. i want to be smacked in the face. i want to be spanked until i start to cry. i want to be viciously facefucked, and if i puke, then so be it.
Some days i want a man to pretend to be my daddy, call me his beautiful princess--then turn on me, and hatefuck the living shit out of me. i want a guy to growl in my ear and tell me all the ways he's going to violate my body. i want to be told what a filthy fucking whore i am for wanting it, and that i deserve everything coming to me. i want to be pissed on, spit on, and then left laying on the floor exhausted and covered in cum.
Some days i want to be kidnapped, blindfolded, and terrified. i want to be tackled to the ground and fucked in the mud like an animal in heat. i want bruises left on my arms from being pinned down. i want to be shakled in the basement and used as nothing but a fucktoy.
Some days i have a deep-seated, unrelenting need to be hurt, to be abused, to feel violated. But for so many reasons, i'm also afraid of what i want. i caution myself against it. i talk myself out of it, hold myself back. |
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My boundaries/limits:
Quick note: Safe words must me discussed before each scene, and they must be quickly obeyed without hesitation!! (And keep in mind this list is still a work in progress...)
Soft Limits:
1. No cameras: no pictures, no videos, no voice recordings without concent.
2. No writing on skin where visible in a Tshirt (or I won't be able to show up to work! Bruises and such are fine--I can just make up an excuse for them).
3. No drugs or alcohol (for either participant) without prior concent, except things like Viagra or other required medications. Concent will depend on the type of play scene, and probably will not be given.
4. No suffocation/asphyxiation, with objects. For example: saranrap, plastic bag, etc. (so choking with your hand is fine).
5. No golden showers.
6. Safe sex: condoms must be worn at all times! (Unless you have recent proof that you're std free, and we enter a monogamous relationship)
7. No ripping clothes without concent (unless you're willing to pay to replace it).
8. No mutual masterbation.
9. No phone sex (stupid limit, i know, but i hate it! Lol)
10. No period play.
11. No bathroom control.
12. I will not grow a natural bush (Had a guy that liked that, but I can't stand not being shaved lol).
13. No predicament bondage.
Hard Limits:
1. No fire, no burns whatsoever! (Candles for dripping hot wax might be ok, as long as I'm not restrained).
2. No needles!!! (eek!)
3. No extremes: No broken bones, sprained ankles, head trauma, dislocated shoulders, no damage whatsoever to vagina or ass (very slight tearing would be forgivable), or things along those lines. No serious hitting/punching, kicking (but spanking and maybe some slapping allowed. Bruises from impact play are also allowed.) No cuts, no blood.
4. No contamination ie: from ass to vagina, ass to mouth, etc. Don't stick your finger and my ass then proceed to finger me either.
5. Safety first: Nothing enters ass that isnt safe, for example: a dildo without a flared base or something that is way too big (and I'll decide what is too big). With struggle play, knots shouldn't be able to tighten and cut off circulation. In an emergency, bondage should be able to be easily undone or you should have something nearby to cut the ropes with. With paddles/floggers, you should avoid kindney, spine area, etc. Be careful with slapping even, as getting slapped in the ear can cause hearing damage. The right type of candles must be used with wax play...The basic, common sense stuff like that.
6. No brown showers, no human toilet, or really any toilet play!
7. No rimming (I'd prefer it if you didn't lick mine, and I definitely won't be licking yours).
8. No anal fisting.
9. No persons under 18 to participate or watch!
10. No cutting off of circulation to extremes (skin red = ok, skin starting to turn purple = bad)!!!
11. No body training (extreme corsets, nipple legntheners, etc)! No body modifications, saline injections, etc!
12. No water torture, waterboarding, no drowning/holding my head under water, etc.
13. No breeding play, no scenes where there would be a pregnancy risk.
14. No human ashtray
15. No sleep deprivation
16. No age play under 18, so no ABDL.
17. I will not shave my head, or dress as the opposite sex.
18. I will not concent to getting a tattoo, branding, or piercing. |
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(i'm particularly interested in a Primal Dom, Daddy Dom that's not just an age player, a Dom with a sadistic streak, or a Dom/rigger).
Just a few traits i'm looking for in a Dom:
?If He is hosting, i'm only willing to drive 2hrs at most.
?Single (i don't like FFM threesomes, and a guy having girlfriend or being married is a real turn-off for me. Other play partners is fine though.)
?Clean/hygenic (smells good, has clean teeth, and no stds, etc.)
?Healthy (most notably no erectile disfunction issues)
?Average size cock or larger
?Muscular (not asking for a bodybuilder, but i'd like a Dom to be able to forceably hold me down for rape play)
?Some stamina (b/c i don't like being on top lol)
?Knowledgeable (at least in safety precautions)
?Wants some control outside the bedroom
?Is interested in going to public events/play parties on occasion, and wants me to wear a collar in public (i don't want a discrete relationship, don't want to have to hide)
?Sadist
?Organized (has rules in mind, knows what He wants from a sub, has some sort of plan, has some toys and/or equipment)
?Experienced (at least more experienced than me--and that's not a lot to ask since i have very little experience)
?Patient (i'm still very new to BDSM, a Dom can't expect me to get everything right away, obey Him without fail, and trust Him immediately)
?Has a certain level of seriousness towards the lifestyle (will consistently enforce rules, and doesn't think D/s is just a game)
?Between 30 and 45 years old preferably (Don't get me wrong, i love preverted old men, but i seem to run into some issues when playing with them--like not being able to spank me due to arthritis, ED issues, no stamina, etc.)
?Sex drive (Some people can do pet play without sex, or abduction play without sex, and that's awesome. With me though, i want everything to involve sex...maybe i'm just young. Lol)
?The last trait im looking for is hard to describe in one word...so let's say we're about to do some impact play.
Scenario 1: You may start slow at first if you're unsure of my pain tolerance level. You may know the safety precautions. You keep on smacking my ass, just the sound of it arousing you. You assume just hitting my ass is enough of a turn on for me and i'm enjoying it. But in my head i start to think, "Ow...ow...ow...fuck! Why am i doing this?" So play mighy end early, and we switch to somethng else.
Scenario 2: You paddle my ass, but tell me what a hot little whore i am, and that you like hurting me. U take more powerful swats from the paddle, and you tell me my ass is going to be red for days, and that every time i sit i'll think about you. The paddle hurts but now i'm so turned on. You give a few merciless swaps, then wait a moment until i unclench my muscles before continuing. You can tell when the pain is getting to me, and you sofly stroke my sore skin, telling me that you're proud of me for taking it. i certainly don't want to say the safe word after what you've just said! You swat me again and again, mercilessly and without pause, but stop before i say the safe word. You tell me i did good. You'll push me father next time.
So i guess i want someone that's a bit intuitive--that knows when i'm uncomforable, usure, or am nearing a limit...and that just may just come from naturally after playing together a while. But i also want a Dom that knows how to push limits and make a scene more enjoyable.
...And ideally He should like: taking naughty pics of me, the fox tail butt plugs, and lingerie--because that's pretty much what i'm all about. Hopefully we'll have some other fetishes in common as well--most notably bondage, sleep play, and rape play. |
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| Age: 23 |
| Tampa,
Florida |
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