Why Do Submissives/Slaves Ignore Good Dominants

Disclosure: Nothing said here in is documentable, it is personal opinion and should be taken as such.

This is a inquiry for Submisives/Slaves/Bottoms without Dominants.

We are dominants, have been for many years. We're well versed in the lifestyle and have level heads on my shoulders. She has posted several journal entries on different topics in the lifestyle on her profile and he intends to do the same. We don't expect submissives to bend to our will simply because they play on a different side of the coin than us, more to the point we find it frustrating to have a submissive contact us and already be in subspace.

We do not have a submissive and have been openly seeking friends, both dominant and submissive, as well as a submissive of our own should we find someone who's life matches with ours. We both have our own profiles that openly state we are together and point people back to this profile if they have any questions about us. When contacting potential submissives we try to always do so from this profile so as not mislead anyone. We read profiles, we read interests, we read journals when they are posted. Before we message someone we do our research. We have an idea if we have similiar interests, if we can step into a dominant role with them and fulfill their needs. We have seen submissive after submissive complain about being contacted by rude or inappropriate dominants who contact them expecting their submission immediately with messages like "are you ready to get on your knees and take it all you cumm guzzling whore?" or "How would u like to get slapped around, spat upon, humiliated verbally & physically, used like the secret fuck meat u know u are?"

We, on the other hand, approach them with specifics of how we would match, try to find out more about their needs, and create the important emotional bond needed in a long term BDSM relationship and yet, we hear nothing from most of the submissives we've contacted. Not even an "I don't think we're a good match." Could someone PLEASE explain this to us?!