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| Hardworking, fit academic by day, pursuing graduate psychology (and theology in my own time)--my vanilla friends would never know. :)
I'm interested in meeting cool, intriguing people and forming some meaningful friendships and connections here. I'm a bit new to the lifestyle, so I'm not looking to jump into anything serious and exclusive right away. Just being friends would be wonderful, too. I've always been privately in love with the D/s dynamic, but I haven't explored it much, so I'm hoping to learn more about who I am and what I genuinely enjoy.
I can come off as a bit shy and reserved sometimes, but I'd like to believe that that's simply part of being polite, patient, and at peace with my life. I'm loyal forever once someone earns my trust, and I'm spiritually incapable of maliciousness. I aim to be super friendly, caring, and respectful to everyone, and I try to stay open-minded that most people are actually good people, if misunderstood now and then. I don't have time or patience for jerks, though. I know who I am, and I love who I am, and I think any relationship and friendship should enhance each others' happiness and mutual care and respect. Beyond that, I'm laid back, playful, polite, and mischievous!, and I aim to let the course of time color in the shades and tones of a person as I get to know someone new. No rush. :)
To me, being submissive means that I can confront the otherwise untouchable parts of myself by handing you the keys to who I am, or at the very least watching someone I adore pry the key-ring out of my sweating palms. It means I don't have to worry, and for one of the rare, treasured and perhaps sacred moments of my life, I don't have to be the toughest person in the room. Once someone "has" me mentally, there's nothing I enjoy more than wanting to please.
A few important things: I can't really stand perennially negative attitudes, not my thing. I'm a very upbeat person. I've also lived through way more than my fill of physical pain in my adult life. I'm great now, but intensely painful S/M, also not my thing! And, well-placed humiliation can be a lot of fun, but because I get so much of my satisfaction out of wanting to please, I think I can get my feelings hurt pretty easily with being demeaned too much. Perhaps it just depends on the dominant. I sense that with a really good, safe and sane connection, I'll follow you anywhere you want to lead me.
No picture due to my career, but leave me a message and I'm happy to send. (If you don't hear back from me right away, there's a very good chance that grad school is swamping me at the moment.) Again, I'd be delighted to make new friends in the area, though. Have a great day!
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