am a 42 y/o BBW who is interested in finding a partner that can share in my lifestyle. I am looking for someone whom I can enjoy the real side of life with as well as the fantasy side. I am looking for a long term relationship, but don't take that to mean I am not into having fun without one. Especially with a huge cock. Maybe more than one. (Yeah!!!!!)

I am a true romantic at heart and would like to find someone who is not only strong, and willing to be my protector and possibly keeper, but can also be soft and caring and open to sharing their feelings of life with me.

This lifestyle has been part of me for my entire life. (I used to tie up my dolls as a child, especially that B*rbie bitch.) I prefer the submissive side of my lifestyle choices. I am not looking for a 24/7 Dom/sub relationship at this time but I am looking for a strong person to fulfill my life and take me to Subspace when the desire hits us. I have been openly active in the BDSM club scene since 1997 in Chicago and I am looking for the same here in Wisconsin which hasn't been easy. Let's get something started ;)

I adore the movie Moulin Rouge and if you will be my Christian, I will be your Satine, and I would absolutely melt if you sang to me like he does to her.

I am not very well traveled but dream of seeing many places with the one I love. Fly me to your location to see if you might be the one I am looking for.

I have been camping since I was very little and enjoy it very much. I also would love to spend time walking on a beach holding hands, sitting at home cuddling in front of a beautiful fire reading to each other, or just munching on popcorn watching our favorite movie. I can cook and enjoy it but it gets to be too much work for only me so it has been a while since I really got down and dirty in the kitchen.

I would like to get into better shape, so if you are into sports or heavy physical activity I ask that you be patient with me until I am able to keep up with you. Otherwise I will sit by and cheer you on as only a devoted partner can do.

If this kind of life interests you, please contact me and let me know. Who Knows...You could be my TWIN FLAME but we just haven't bumped into each other yet. ;)