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A Man becomes what he thinks about the whole day long. Marcus Arelius, The Nature of Things. I seek fellow travelers exploring their dark side. What is it that you seek? What is it that you desire? What is it that you covet?
I do not suffer fools well. Please be direct and to the point. If not, then be well but be gone
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Marcus Arelius said over 2,000 years ago.. "A man becomes what he thinks about all the day long." What is it that you've become? There are 3 eternal questions to life. They are.. Who am I? no, not who we 'act' to others or even ourselves. But who am I really? The good, bad and the ugly. The next question is Why am I here? (what is my purpose in the cosmos?) and the last one, that none of us get to in this lifetime? Is this all? When we look within the darkness of our own souls and humanity and embrace it as part of who we are, we are much happier people in life. be well Arelius |
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What fools these mortals be...... Willie coined that phrase nearly 400 years ago. If you have a play with yourself fantasy, all well and good. However, if you are a bush league player? Undoubtedly, it is not wise to get up to the plate with a major league pitcher. Don't weep if you are beaned with a pitch. Suck it up and take your base. lol
be well,
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The making of a slave? Hum.... I am more of the mind that as Doom said What is the riddle of steel my child? Flesh is stronger than steel. There are very few men I do not know that I could 'beat into submission." How is not a women not child's play? No, it's not sexist, it's fact. I have engaged in hand to hand mortal combat. This experience alone gives me the edge, no matter how well trained they are. As Bruce Lee once said "boards do not hit back."
If the desire is in the heart and soul, then the beauty of the servitude in obvious. If it is forced and not given? Then you own nothing but dreams...
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The making of a slave? Hum.... I am more of the mind that as Doom said What is the riddle of steel my child? Flesh is stronger than steel. There are very few men I do not know that I could 'beat into submission." How is not a women not child's play? No, it's not sexist, it's fact. I have engaged in hand to hand mortal combat. This experience alone gives me the edge, no matter how well trained they are. As Bruce Lee once said "boards do not hit back."
If the desire is in the heart and soul, then the beauty of the servitude in obvious. If it is forced and not given? Then you own nothing but dreams...
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T'was Puck that said "What fools these mortals be" My sole purpose of 'blogging' was with the hopes of educating the 'great unwashed'. Sadly, there are those that are destined to be 'road kill'. When you politely tell a newbie, excuse me, first day you're a newbie, second day you are happily 'cyber collared' by a cyber wannabe Dom, third day, you are not collared and 'experienced' with a rewritten profile, it appears you need to find a mentor more than you need a cyber Dom.... The 'don't judge' me response is exactly why so many end up road kill.
We are judged all day, everyday by our actions, not our kink. If you are a sub that has been turned more times than a turnstyle at Fenway Park? Expect any Dom/Domme worth their salt to take a pass... Why? Simple answer... They are not looking for a saddle nag that's been mounted by every wannabe Dom, troll or cretin in cyber. If you are just seeking a 'fuck and a flog' then say so.... To seek a Master is a horse of a different color....
be well
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Gawd do I hate commercial airlines. lol Well, back across this side of the big pond. It was actually pleasant in London and raining like hell in Boston, go figure..... It certainly could be worse, it could be snowing.
I must admit, there are some real hotties on here, then they open their mouths and you see how ugly their soul is.... It's this simple. I can take a goat's ass to LA and get a cutter to make it look like Julia Roberts... Guess what? It's still a goat's ass and shit still comes out of the hole. lol If use your looks or sex like a commodity, it will be treated as such.. As is with all commodities, they have a shelf life. The man who spends 389,000.00 on an 08 Rolls Silvershadow two years from now, will go buy a new one. Not that there is anything wrong with the old one, just a commodity to be updated, not an object d'art to be treasured. So, word to the wise? Lead with your soul, your beauty will shine from that.
Be well,
Arelius
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A word to the wise to the subs/slaves out there? If a Dom is willing to send his photo or personal info to you on a kink website? Either he is so independently wealthy, no one can touch him or he has nothing worth loosing. lol The safe bet is they have nothing to loose. So, when you say that your collarme mail filters out those without photos? The safe bet is you will get mostly bottom feeders. lol
In my case personally? (before I get asked by email) I can give you millions of reasons why I would never send a pic to a kink website. lol I never object to sending them to email addresses. For you see, I am a apex alpha male, with black Irish good looks, muscular, and yes, I thank God every day he didn't give me a little dick. lol (ya, ya size doesn't matter, but you only say that to the ones with the little dicks) lol
So, you can take it from where it came... However, you may wish to reconsider your position or continue to deal with cellar dwellars. lol
be well, be safe
Arelius
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You are not a slave if every third or fourth word in your profile is, I want.. lol When you read a profile that says 'slave', one would assume that somewhere in their rant, they would mention what they have to give. lol
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I have just discovered that somewhere there is a McDom's out there. You just drive up to the clown, specify your order and voila, Dream Dom lol I hope they serve McSub and McSlave there...... There has to be.... Hey, lots of the profiles are more like reading off of a menu than actually looking for a person. lol
Seriously folks? There is no 'perfect' Dom or stepford subby. First, to the younger subs/slaves? How much experience do you really think a 20 year old male has? It might be better to find a nilla boyfriend and experiment together. So many young male Dom/Masters end up subs and slaves later on down the road. Why? Because they are not self realized. They are still acting upon their beliefs of what the community expects of them. They have only begun their journey. It is sort of like giving the keys to an 18 wheeler to a student driver. It's an accident on the way to happening.
To the young Doms out there? I suggest you stop thinking with your dick for about 20 minutes. You might consider finding an older mentor that can advise you. "It is better to remain silent and have people think you a fool than opening your mouth and take away any doubt".
To the trolls? I have never understood you. Is it somewhere in your pea brain that you believe that because they like to be spanked they are easy? lol I think a crach whore will fill that need and with less effort. Is it you won't put out the 10 bucks? You do more harm than good.
Let's start with the basics. In being a sub/slave, that doesn't mean they are everyone's sub/slave.
The lifestyle is more like the highest of American ideals... The right to self determination. You deprive them of that, then you own an illusion that will soon come crashing down upon you. If you nurture them in their journey, you might find even if things don't 'click' you have found a friend. There is nothing more in the world than a good friend.
Arelius
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Please do not 'offer' another your sub/slave. I believe you presume too much. Why is it a given that you believe I would find your training to my standards? Isn't it more appropriate to release them, letting them respond on their own accord? Undoubtedly, however it appears in many cases gentrificaction has passed them by.....
Arelius
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How does one call themselves 'Master' or 'Mistress' without posession of a sub/slave? They can't... This type of self agrandizement is a sure sign of a complete lack of understanding of what it is to be called 'Master' or 'Mistress'. In many ways accepting the title is no different than marriage. Commitment... Commitment to give equal care and consideration to the level and depth the slave/sub gives themselves over to you. When one is truely pleased at the level of service and servitude, then one must treat that slave/sub as an Object D'Art. To be a prized posession.
Sadly, it appears that those titles have been cheapened as an excuse for sheer base brutality. A scene or session is supposed to be more like a symphony than a dentist office's muzak.... It depends on the sub/slave's levels of dopemine, endorphines and adreniline as to what stanza the scene is at..... A empathic Dom knows, due to their level of connection to their sub/slave, exactly where they are at.... It is the mark of a true Dom....
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| Age: 32 |
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