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I am experienced both in life and in the lifestyle. I consider myself to be patient calm deliberate and understanding; nonetheless I am also demanding and insistent when called for.
I do respect agreed-upon limits but my quest is for the unlimited.

I am currently  in love with and in a long-term relationship with a woman known here as Dzera. We try to be fully open with each other on all levels and of course she will be fully aware of all parts of my life, whether she is directly involved in them or not.  

Both us as a couple and me individually are open to other social interaction with the right people, which under the right circumstances might  include a serious relationship or more limited types of play and good old fashioned fun. 

What should you be like?
Be different,  be real, be yourself.
Honesty, purity of purpose and integrity are the basic requirements.  All the rest can be discussed.