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Hetero Male Dominant, 40,  Kansas City, Missouri
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a recent transplant from CM, so kind of saddened by the fact that my journal entries for the last 10 years are gone, still nice to know theres still a place to come too

resurrected my old profile....

ll tell you what I believe

I believe for a girl to be owned she needs to learn to be obedient.

I believe that being obedient does not mean youre not above the occasional practical joke, or being playful with your Dominant in public.

I believe that sex is an adventure. and any adventure is better when you do it with someone you care about.

I believe that just because youre a Dominant doesnt mean you cant be weak in the knees when your slave looks at you the right way.

I believe that you dont have to be a sadist to believe that pain and punishment are sometimes necessary.

I believe if you cant curl up with your girl on a couch and just enjoy the afternoon, youre doing something seriously wrong.

I believe I can be a gentleman, a nice guy and a romantic and still be cruel when the situation requires.

And most of all, I believe there must be someone out there who feels the same as me.












 Dominant Male

 Kansas City 


 6' 0"

 224 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Female


Online Romance


 Polyamory (Beginner)

 Hard Limits:


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Journal Entries:
4/3/2023 12:21:41 PM

  For some reason, whenever I try to send a message to someone, it rediraspects me ot the "Intrests" page (lifestyles tab) I'm not sure how to fix this, and I'm attempting to create new profile if this one is unsalvagable


  ANyone I've been talking to lately (yes you!) please send me some alternate means of contact, I can recieve messages, just not send

8/26/2017 8:22:12 PM
11 years ago when this site was "Collarme" and my profile was "Archer6"...I was blogging on this journal about how I saw a stray cat hop into the subroof of my parked car...of course I adopted "Meow", and he was my buddy for over a he's gone....just had to blog one more time for closure

2/16/2016 11:43:30 AM
  Not sure I understand the concept of others creating fake profiles to point out that someone else is a fake. Did you get burned that bad?

  Of course nothing prevents them from creating a new fake profile, or even  continuing with their old one if they haven't gotten reported enough

Lots of fakes here, fact of life, either deal with it or move on or try that 'other" bdsm site

1/21/2016 12:26:18 AM
  Huh...after ten years on Collarme/Collarspace I've finally been "blocked" by someone. I wonder if this means I've finally "arrived"

1/11/2016 1:33:54 PM
  Four months after my previous journal entry about the Chiefs.....consider myself officially face palmed

9/17/2015 8:50:48 PM
No team...and I mean no team in the NFL can pull defeat from the jaws of victory like the Kansas City Chiefs

5/16/2015 12:57:06 PM
 Yes! After all this time I finally got my degree!!!

4/16/2015 10:35:39 PM
Is it me? Or is this "Fifty Shades of Grey" is poor a poor representation of bdsm, just Gor all over again?

4/12/2015 3:50:54 PM
  Keep Will Smith's head, I need HBO, Game of Thrones is on tonight!!!!!! No spoilers!

4/3/2015 7:12:14 PM
ARRRRRGHHH! Bring me the head of Will Smith!!

2/19/2015 10:51:09 PM
Just learned the word "vagina" is derived from a latin word for "sword holder"


  now i have newfound respect for the sword swallowers at the circus

2/16/2015 12:22:48 AM
  Can anyone explain why some Doms always want their subs or slaves to wear no panties and/or be nude as often as possible? I know I may be in the minority here, but isn't that always like finding your Christmas presents unwrapped for you?

1/19/2015 9:26:47 PM
  Hey it was brought to my attention that my profile pic isn't showing up, furthermore I apparently can't add an attachment to my emails "picture failed to load successfully"....anyone have any tips or help they can offer?

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