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I'm not a submissive, but sometimes I want to give up control and become someone's plaything. Every now and then I want to be used and abused, defiled and violated. I'm not a pain slut, but my fantasies are violent. The idea of being tormented by a sadist who enjoys my suffering turns me on. I look at bruises, scratches, and bite marks as signs that a good time was had. I'm not a whore, but I like to be treated like one now and then. Being used for someone else's pleasure without regard for my own, being degraded and treated as a sex object, these things excite me because they're so far removed from my daily life. I'm not a swinger, but I love group sex and dream of gangbangs. Having all my holes filled just appeals to me, plain and simple. Men, women: it doesn't matter, I aim to please. I'd like to find an honest, intelligent, polite and creative sadist to use me as he sees fit. The most important thing is that we hit it off and have some chemistry - it's hard to get excited about playing with someone I can't even talk to. Sex is a must: a huge part of my submissiveness is being treated like a fuck toy to satisfy someone else. The right pervert would be equally comfortable working with toys, his hands, or just random household items. A Dominant with experience is desirable, but I'm willing to work with a novice if he can admit when he isn't sure how to do something and is willing to ask questions rather than assuming he knows everything. My interests include:
  • bondage/restraints
  • electrical play
  • throat fucking/gagging
  • crying
  • crops, paddles, canes, etc.
  • large insertions/dilation
  • consensual non-consent (if you're not sure what I mean by this, please ask!)
  • breast torture
  • anal & enemas
  • exhibitionism
  • corsets/lingerie/latex
  • humiliation
I'm willing to consider plenty of other things if my partner enjoys them. I have some hard limits, but we can get to those later. I get a lot of messages on here. I've tried to be polite, but I'm no longer going to respond to the ones that don't give specifics about you and what you are looking for. For example, do you have any INTERESTING or UNUSUAL kinks or fetishes (bondage and spanking don't count)? Are you looking for a girlfriend, long-term submissive, or an occasional play partner? Is there a specific thing you'd like to do with me or are your interests more varied?
Thanks for reading!
12/14/2013 9:03:25 AM

I just decided what I want for Christmas: a subscription to my favorite porn site!  Alas, I doubt anyone would go for that, so maybe it will be my gift to myself.

11/15/2013 9:30:17 AM

Hey, guys?  You're all capable of reading and writing in English, right?  I guarantee that if you send me an original message that says relevant things about you and what you want from me, I will give you a delightfully provocative message in reply and I will be more than happy to tell you my filthy fantasies and the many ways I would debase myself for the right man.  Just ask!

 

That's the carrot, now here's the stick:  if you send me a message that's one line long, says nothing about what you want, or is a blatant copy of a message you send to everyone with a vagina, I will verbally eviscerate you.  So if you want to go that route, I hope you have a thick skin.

mistressmonic
 
 Age: 34
 Manchester, United Kingdom