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Hullo All,
About me:
My name is Abbigail. I also go by Abbi, Araebesque, Ari, Mili(only my gaming friends really use that), and Parker(when engaging in certain role-play). ?I am a young bi-sexual submissive with?occasional?switch?tendencies. ?I have completed my freshman year of college at a local university, and I'm currently working in Florence, SC. My boyfriend and I have a healthy, non-BDSM relationship, and he understands that while I love him, it is my nature to need a firmer hand occasionally. That being said, I love to play with people, so I'm always open to short play sessions and new friends. I am looking toeventually build a healthy D/s, D/s/s or D/D/s relationship with a Dom/me that remains understanding of the fact that love and fulfillment are separate.
I love the color green, deep rich, emerald green in particular. I'm very cuddly, a bit mouthy and I'm MUCH more shy in real life than I seem on here. Also, Star Wars is my Bible. ;) Not really, I'm not particularly religious, though I do find paganism, greek and celtic in particular, to be extremely interesting. ?I also find language to be an very sensual thing. Someone with a certain voice or accent, or someone purring in my ear in another language gets me hotter than anything.
My personality:
First?and foremost?I am a musician.?I sing and play piano, and violin is on it's way into my?repertoire? Mayhap I am not as talented as I would like to be, but it is my passion and it will never leave me. Yeah, I'm that person who bursts into song for no apparent reason, because something you said triggered my internal jukebox search engine. :D
Beneath that, I am many things:
I am a gamer.?Although I'm not particularly talented at it, I do love to spend hours on LoL, Minecraft or Skyrim; stealth sniping anything that moves with my bow. ?I did recently?acquire?a bow in RL, an old recurve that I'm (attempting) to teach myself to shoot properly so I can?bow hunt.
I am a sub.??
- It is my nature to try to please those I care about, and I believe that part of being a sub is having a strong, trusting, caring relationship with whoever my Dom/me turns out to be.
- I enjoy housework, cooking, giving massages, and generally being loving to whoever I am with, and my Dom/me will be no different. ?If you believe that romance and emotion have no place in a D/s relationship, or you are not willing to invest yourself in one with me, then I'm fairly certain we won't get along well in the long run.
- ?I am only somewhat experienced sexually.What experience I have had was fairly vanilla. ?I am yours to mold and make beautiful, if I choose to allow you to do so. I am particularly interested in some of the more elaborate rope work I have seen throughout the lifestyle, and I have interest both in being bound and learning the knots and binding for myself.
- I have hard limits. I am always willing to try new things, and sometimes it turns out that I hate what I tried. If you cannot respect my limits, then you are not respecting my humanity and I want nothing to do with you.
I am a cat person.?This is extremely self-explanatory, and I do not feel the need to expound upon it. If you need a definition, you, most likely, are not a cat person. ;P
I am Bigendered.??I was lucky enough to understand this about myself younger than most, and I am?grateful?for it. For those who are wondering, no, I do not have double?genitalia, nor will I ever. Being bigendered means I identify as both male and female mentally and emotionally, and that sometimes I may feel like a guy versus a girl, or that two personalities are warring in my?head. It means that sometimes ?I shear my hair off and dress as a guy because that personality is dominant within me. Any Dom/me I sub for needs to understand this about me and be prepared to accept it. It is not a phase, it does not go away,?and you cannot force me to be who I am not.
I am the messiest OCD person you will ever meet. I believe that everything has its place, and that it should be in its place. But sometimes when no-one is home, all the shit I KNOW I put away jumps out of it's place and shakes it's collective ass until my room looks like a declarable warzone. :D
What I am looking for in a partner:
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Why don't you start a conversation with me and find out. I really hate people who make themselves out to be exactly what you're looking for, only to realize they're abusers and scum, looking for a quick jerk, someone to beat, and just generally being a waste of human skin. ?You know me a little better now, and if you've read all this and I somehow still interest you at all, at this point I hope you're thinking of sending me a message anyway. So I'l look forward to hearing from you.
Ari
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