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I check in here from time to time to visit with friends. I've got a full plate and you'd have to be nearly perfect to warrant a meet. No offense, nothing personal. just so many hours in the day. What draws me is intelligence, submission, passion and willingness to risk. If you're in decent shape, care for yourself, and have long hair you'd be ahead of the game.




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9/3/2013 2:23:55 AM

I login here and I see, for 6 months, this particular profile.  She's a masochist, and goes on at length about how she likes pain, and how she wants to be punished, and how she'd like to bleed, and how happy she is about all of that.   Here's a quote:  

"...My ultimate fantasy?  Kill me, over and over, kill me worse than the time before, and bring me back to kill me and kill me again.  Make it hurt, make it bleed, torture death and dismay..." 

So I've watched that for a while - she'd end up on the top of the list pretty often, and in the last two weeks she's gotten a bit maudlin, but still loudly proclaiming how much she'd like to hurt.  A bit of a recent entry: 

"...I need to bleed.  I had the opportunity today, and I should have taken it.  I should have watched it drip across my skin and onto the floor and made pretty fingerpaintings. " 

So I send her this message:  "good drama.  nice entertainment.  keep it up. " 

that's it.  7 words.  

So this woman, who wants pain and cries for it in her profile and every journal entry says:  

"I'm glad you're entertained, I think I'll block you."

 

I guess that was too much pain for you, princess. 

 

Lol. 


8/5/2013 5:47:15 PM

Has anyone gotten the audio journal entry to work?  Like the chat feature here, I've never had any luck with it. 

 

Hurdles:  One of the oddest things about collarme is the sheer number of desperate men and couples there are that will apparently go to any lengths to find their unicorn.  They will promise anything, and put up with treatment from the target of their affection that is a little mind boggling. 

 

I see this a lot in the profiles from women here; diatribes on men who don't read, or lists of demands that must be met before any contact can be initiated, or any number of other hurdles that must be crossed before you qualify to speak to them.  Submissives, slaves, switches, Dommes -- all groups are represented. 

 

Keep in mind that a percentage of anyone who's attractive and has something to offer drops off each time you add a requirement.  Yes, you may think that having them read a thousand word profile is a small thing, but you just don't know who just moves on, marking your profile as too much work.    How about you just delete or ignore those you don't like -- if they send you something offensive, haven't they done you a favor right off the bat? 

 

I think that if you're concerned about someone finding out about your facebook account via your picture, for instance, that a much simpler solution is to take a candid shot that you only use here.   There are probably some folks who can entertain being with someone sight unseen -- but if you are attractive, and find matches other places with relative ease, why bother? 


3/7/2013 7:54:45 PM

I logged in and found a profile at the top of the list in which a woman briefly stated that she was unhappy
that her plans had not worked out, she missed where she was from, and felt trapped
and stuck where she was. 

So I asked her to write out her tale of woe. 

She replied that it was a long story, and if someone's not interested in getting to know her, they
don't need to know. 

Tell a story, talk about your desires, make yourself available to others. You'll get more of what you
want, and you contribute to someone elses day -- with entertainment, if nothing else. 

Even if it's a tale of terrible hardship, there's a sadist out there that needs a good laugh. 

 


2/25/2013 12:25:46 AM

I was suprised to learn that 1/3 to 2/3rd of women who are raped orgasm during.  

 

http://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/193e3x/iama_sexual_assault_therapist_discussing_when/

 

 


1/3/2012 6:49:02 PM

So i'm going to describe a scene that I've heard now from three different women; they're all smart, successful, degreed women in their mid 20s to mid 30s, and either submissives or slaves.

 

You meet a fellow, and he treats you nicely, and usually very quickly he's a big part of your life.  Your clothing choices, your choice of friends, who you can contact, where you can go.  You find yourself alternating between dreading that he'll find something out, and sorta wishing he would.  The attention is hot.  He must care if he manages you to this extent. 

 

Except that he's got at least one other woman.  Maybe many.  Maybe you don't want to know.  And he's a bit psycho.  Your facebook page is scanned many times a day.  if you have a blog, he's all over it.  Even when you break up, he's never very far.  He's probably armed.  Maybe you know for a fact he is.  You fear for your life. 

 

But you go back.  And again.  And other men, who don't treat you so roughly aren't near as interesting as this guy.   Maybe it's a wife; she has a safeword that she can banish you with in an instant.  No security.  But you're there. 

 

Three times.  Same story.  Different guys, different cities.  No connection. 

 


6/23/2011 9:45:44 PM

Read a profile from a girl with a pretty common story; she worked in a fellows business, and felt that she wasn't paid for her time or work.  So her solution is to propose that collarme folks pay for for pictures of her, or texts, or whatever.  I lost interest after a couple of sentences. 

 

I think she's forgetting that if people wanted pictures of pretty girls there are literally billiions of them on the net, for free.  Fetish, straight, whatever. 

 

Half escorts.  Somehow I think they believe that they're more moral of they're only spreading it in photographs.  How about you earn it in the traditional way:  Find some guy who's willing to give you half his lifetime earnings. 

 

Or at least offer value for value.  If you're asking for tuition, be prepared to take some lessons. 

 


8/26/2010 11:27:54 PM
I read a profile the other night that I found interesting.  In it the girl described what she wanted, and I asked her a question about her desire. 

She answered my question, and then followed it with a second statement:  "and it turns me on and scares me". 

isn't that the point of this forum?  to be able to pursue your desire, no matter how insane it might seem to someone else?  Your desire is yours alone; like your favorite color.  There is no right or wrong. 

...and if it scares you enough, maybe you shouldn't ask for it. 

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