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Hello Aall.
Im too busy these days to do more than chat occasionally. If youre curious, bored, or are just looking for an online friend, reach out. If youre looking for something more, Im not the Dom for you... but Im happy to give you independent advice if youre struggling to find the right Dom and need guidance.
Aox
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The number of kinksters in NZ who have found collarspace is entirely too small. Tell your friends to join! |
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I've been pondering my recent experiences in O/our collective world and realize that I am very atypical. I am Dominant, but not a brute. I am strict, with cause, but not purely Sadistic. I expect strict obedience, but I believe such obedience should be given willingly because I have proven Myself worthy, not because I am merely physically abusive. A truly submissive woman is a blessing, as she recognizes her place in the world. There cannot be light without shadow and there cannot be Dominance without submission. I refuse to deal with "brats", as they are playing games and are not truly submissive. The subs I seek are incredibly rare and, therefore, are incredibly valuable to Me; I will not share them or otherwise devalue them in My eyes. As W/we bond, her Yin to my Yang, the trust and fulfillment deepen until W/we are inseparable.
Are you seeking Me or am I seeking you? Send Me a message.
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Finding the right sub here in NZ is incredibly frustrating. Kiwi women are great, but far too many lack the elusive submissive gene. ;-)
Yes, my standards are high, but I don't apologize for that. |
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Lots of stress at the moment. Anyone need a good solid caning? ;-)
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I've been a Dom for a long time and some of the changes I've seen in recent years...especially in those new to the BDSM dynamic... bother Me.
Too many subs try to top from the bottom and too many "Doms" let them.? At the risk of shocking some of you newbies, there are some things you should know:
The Dom makes the decisions, not the sub.? As My sub, you will do what I ask you to do,? when I ask you to do it and you will do it because you *want* to do it.? I don't have time for those who try to test the power dynamic.? Accept it and love it or you will be cut loose.?
I will use you how and when I see fit.
I will maintain complete control of the relationship.? Any freedoms you have will be because you have proven yourself worthy and I have granted them to you.
you will be completely open and honest with Me at all times.? If you fail, you will admit it and accept the correction that follows.
I expect you to share your fears, concerns, limits and feelings with Me.? However, I will ultimately decide what is best for you and you will accept this, knowing that I am your Dom and I will make the right decision.
In return, you have My guidance, care and protection.? I take very good care of My subs or slaves, but you must earn your place.
Do I make Myself clear? |
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Happy New Year A/all. May 2013 be your best year yet. |
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Hello A/all. Firstly, no, I'm not dead! Secondly, I apologise to My CM friends who didn't know how to contact me for my sudden departure. Things got busy and, while I intended to check in, it was always on my "I'll get around to it." stack. The last few months have been a complete roller coaster; a virtual whirlwind of activity, with no time for myself. Hence, my activity on CM has been zero. Even now, I have very little free time, so don't expect to see me here often. If you'd like to catch up, write me here on CM. if you're someone With whom I communicate frequently, I may give you a private email address where I may be reached to avoid these problems when I'm away. --Aox |
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Congratulations to the New Zealand All Blacks for winning the 2011 Rugby World Cup! I've enjoyed the tournament, but I'll be glad to see things return to normal in Auckland. |
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I've been mentoring a "sub" lately who has turned out to be a switch... And let me tell you, I'm fucking exhausted. Give me a *true* sub any day of the week. |
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Happy Mother's Day to all of my sub friends with children. |
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A new collarme user (you know who you are!) just asked me what I think of the site. I had to reflect a moment. The site is a good site, but there really are a lot of flakes and confused people here. You wouldn't believe the number of times I've written a sub and she has responded back with a great response expressing her interest in me. Yet, when I go to answer (usually a day or two later), the account no longer exists. Frustrating, especially when it seems I might actually be interested in the sub. Should I respond more quickly? Perhaps. However, I lead a very busy life and don't spend much time on CM. I'd much rather meet someone here, exchange a few messages to see if we have anything in common, and then meet in rl to see if there is any chemistry.
In any case, their loss. If you're serious about contacting me (and why would you write a lengthy response if you're not?), then send me an off site email address if you're leaving CM.
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Vanilla? Me? Well, maybe just once. I'm going out to the movies tonight and my normal companions are all tied up (pun intended) for one reason or another.
Anyone interested in meeting up at a theatre (Albany or Queen St) and catching a movie? My treat, no strings; just fun, popcorn and conversation. The only catch? You need to meet me there; it's safer for both of us since we probably don't know one another.
It's 5:30pm, Sat 16 April now. Send me a message with a phone number in the next hour if you're interested. |
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Ah, I just love giving a good fisting! I was recently with a new sub who was scared to death of the idea. Two sessions later, I'm wrist deep and she's having one of the most intense orgasms of her life. It truly is all in the technique. Lots of foreplay, lots of lube, a relaxed setting, lots of patience, lots of time, exceptionally clean hands, and very short nails are the keys to a great first experience. |
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Anyone want a good beating? Lol. I'm primarily a sensual Dom, but I think stress is getting the better of me. I need a release and giving a good strapping or caning might just do the trick. Any pain sluts want to volunteer? |
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I've been mastering erotic hypnosis for the past few months and it's been an absolute blast. I had my doubts until I made a sub orgasm, in public, with just my voice. Given that she doesn't orgasm easily, this was nothing short of amazing. The power of the human mind is awesome. If you're curious and would like to chat, I'd love to hear from you. |
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I just had the funniest thing happen. I encountered a sub who took from my profile that I'm a bi switch. WTF?! Why? Because I had checked that I'm looking for various types of couples.
Let me set the record straight officially. I'm not only a straight Dom, I'm an alpha Dom. Asking me to not be a Dom is like asking the Sun not to rise.
Well then, why do I show on my profile that I'm looking for Dom/me couples in addition to subs? Easily explained: I'm simply looking to expand my circle of like-minded friends. Nothing more.
Even when it comes to subs, I'm also looking for friends. I'm extremely selective when it comes to the subs I make mine, but I'm extremely open to befriending and guiding subs.
Remember, don't jump to conclusions. If you're not sure, ask. |
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| Age: 24 |
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