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Pan Female Dominant, 45,  Southeast, Texas
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Last Online:


 Dominant Female



 5' 0"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

 Lives For:





 Canes and Crops


 Orgasm Control







 Massage (Getting)




 Curious About:






 Foot Worship



 Romance Novels




 Pantyhose Fetish

 Role Playing


 Hard Limits:

 Gas Masks



Primarily relationship minded, but open to something less permanent with the right person. I have got some years of experience in kink and always looking to learn more. Play is easy to find. I am looking for a relationship based on love, respect, and full authority transfer.

I know what I want and I am tired of settling for less than that. If you want to do things my way, we could have something amazing. If you want to try to manipulate me into doing things your way, it will end quickly.

I do not use the chat feature here. Period.

I do not do online domination or play. I have zero interest in watching you do anything on cam. Period. Please have something better to offer me.

I am not monogamous but expect my partners to be. Fair or not, that is how I roll. I do have one partner now that I will NOT replace.

Ask about My offsite blog as it gives a lot more information about me in general as well as my view on various kink and relationship topics.

Yes, I have another profile here. This is kinda the stripped down model. I check this one more often.

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Journal Entries:
8/11/2017 5:07:28 AM
This site has some serious connectivity issues.  Some days I get on no problem, other days it's near impossible.  I've met some great people here over the years, so I won't give up on it just yet.  But as a back up...  you can also find me on fet and Dating Kinky as "PryncessT".  You can also contact me through my blog mentioned above in my profile.

7/24/2017 6:56:48 AM
I am NOT relocatable.  Hence, why I don't check that little box on my profile.

If you are NOT able to relocate, don't check the box.  It's pretty simple.  If you are only able to relocate to certain areas, say so on your profile.  It's misleading otherwise. 

If you ARE able to relocate, don't rush me.  I move glacially slow, for a reason.  Here is what you can expect... 
We will correspond here for a bit, then move to email.  After email, we move to Skype for text chat, then voice and/or video chatting.  After that, we move to phone number exchange.  (from first message here to phone exchange could take as little as 6 weeks or as much as 6 months depending on the person and the connection) And THEN we start planning a visit.  After several visits, then we can start to discuss the logistics of YOUR relocation to my area. 

6/20/2017 5:29:20 AM
It's a sad reflection of the site that I get excited when I see a profile that indicates the writer knows the difference between dominate and dominant. 

10/24/2016 6:10:37 AM
That first message ~

I view a LOT of profiles here, but don't send out that many initial messages.  There are a few reasons why.

I enjoy reading others' views and ideas so I click on a lot of profiles.  Many of them are obviously looking for something different than what I offer so I don't message them unless I think they might be a potential friend that I can discuss things with.

If the profile does not say willing to relocate and is more than 100 miles away, I probably won't write.  I will never assume that someone is willing to travel to see me unless they say so in the profile.  Same with photos of facial hair.  (I like the look, hate the feel) I'll not assume that one is willing to shave just for me as I've met many that are not.  Although I want my partner to think I hung the moon, I'm really not that arrogant. 

If I do message, there is something in the profile that either really speaks to me, or really baffles me.  

I know a lot of subs feel it is not submissive to make that first move.  Hogwash!  That's like the vanilla folks saying a woman can never ask a man out.  Who makes these rules?  Who says we have to live by them?  Crazy!

So, if you find my profile interesting, say so.  I'm usually pretty friendly and am always happy to answer any questions.  Don't sit off to the side hoping I'll notice you.  Speak up and get my attention.  And if I look at you and don't message.  Don't assume that I'm not interested.  Take a chance and say hi.

10/18/2016 6:21:55 AM

Things I am into:
  - Obedience
  - Honesty
  - Devotion
  - Communication
  - Intelligence
  - Submission
  - Pain
  - Helpfulness
  - Mild humiliation
  - Biting
  - Invading you
  - Intimacy
  - TPE


Things I am NOT into:
  - Feminization
  - ANR
  - Degradation
  - "no limits" slaves
  - Age play
  - Hosiery
  - Role play
  - Bedroom only submission
  - Arrogance
  - CFNM
  - Rimming
  - online only relationships
  - men that call women "girls" or "females"
  - "body worship" aka licking random parts 

9/7/2016 7:05:42 AM
Some of my requirements...
You need to be within 10 years younger or 15 years older than me.  (exceptions can be made if the personal connection is amazing, up to a point.  Absolute limits are 20 yrs +/-.)

Your penis must be at least 5.5 inches long.  There are upper limits as well, but those can be discussed if needed.

You must be clean shaven or willing to shave your face after you are mine.  

You must be willing to do housework and yard work, give hugs anytime I want, explore pain play, perform sexually in the manner I choose, when I choose and not harass me when I am not in the mood.

Although I am not opposed to marriage as a concept, I am not going to marry you to help you immigrate. If you plan to move from out of the country, you need to be able to secure that on your own merits.

Live in situation is possible eventually.  That will NOT happen immediately and may not happen ever.  It is dependent on many factors.  If you are planning to relocate to my area, you need to be prepared to have your own place nearby.

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