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| Vanilla relationships get old so fast. You get naked, have some form of foreplay, go through the play-book, then wipe down, roll over and turn out the lights. If you are kinky, twisted and/or otherwise demented such as myself, not only is it hard to talk about these desires with your girlfriend, (or boyfriend as I'm sure some of the ladies reading this have been in the situation) it's even harder to get her to actually want to do them. And I'm not about forcing something on someone who doesn't want it. Or they try and just aren't into it or don't get what it really means to incorporate lifestyle fetish in a serious relationship.
Luckily, I don't that particular problem at the moment, as I am single and in the mood to meet someone who at least likes to talk about fetishes and kinky sex. And maybe meet up sometime just to talk about fetishes and share fantasies, and maybe if we're comfortable, act one out. And maybe if we like that we can take it to a relationship level, one that appears vanilla to the judgmental eyes of outsiders to our private dark twisted, fantasy world.
But thats a lot of maybes. And I don't have a lot of experience at this; some, but not a lot. So you might be in the same place I am, wanting some form of interaction with the reclusive world that we inhabit, be it even via chat or phone or in person at the bar down the street. Or even better in a room at the hotel up town. Then my place and yours until someday if it all works out it's a place of our own.
No one knows that we take turns punishing each other for being naughty, or that you keep me in chastity while I service your needs and go about my everyday business, waiting to be released by the key only you hold. Fetish balls are so much fun to go to, but whats the point if you have no one to go with; all your vanilla friends think you're joking at the suggestion. (If they're good friends, they probably know that you're serious and cover their ears with their hands and go la-la-la-la at the mention of a fetish ball, as if the thought is up there with the idea of their mom and dad playing hide the sausage.)
So, if you're still with me, you should know by now that I'm quite serious about all this, but at the same time I have a wonderful sense of humor. I love to laugh and tell jokes. And I have a wild imagination and as you may have noticed, love to write. How I long to be in a relationship, be it for just fun or for life, in which I can create scenarios for us to play out. How I long to come home from work, or drive to meet her somewhere, only to find a note on the door instructing me to strip down and crawl upstairs. Just the thought of that gets my heart pounding; I can't even imagine what that would feel like for real. Know this, I am open to just about anything, and it's ok if you are shy when it comes to talking about it, because believe me I am. Same goes for taking it slow and not rushing into waters before checking the temp first.
As you can tell, I've put tons of thought into this. In fact I've been dwelling on it for years. I have been interested in this lifestyle for a decade. Several years ago I decided enough was enough and started looking for an outlet for my true self, and that obviously led me here, to you perhaps, if you are still reading this and still liking what it has to say.
I could go on like this for hours, or pages as it were, but that's not the point of this profile, the point of it is to find you, so that we can go on like this forever.
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It's amazing how immature people are sometimes. |
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I should use this more often...and not just to complain about the bad replies and shady offers i get on here, but to complain about other things as well. Because other than porn, bitching about things is what the internet is here for...right?
So I would like to take this moment to gripe about the shitty little, middle of Ohio, close minded redneck town I live in and lament on how I live in the wrong state...or at least the wrong part of this one. Someday I hope to be in a larger, more diverse community. Hopefully one that you are in. Here's looking at you, all you hot Dommes from Cali that keep lighting up my "Who's Viewing Me?" button. Someday. |
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"Spoil me" she says....
YOU want ME to spoil you?
Yeah, right.
I don't even spoil milk.
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Thought so. |
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Here's a great example of what not to send me:
| hello boy, lookin at your profile i think you would make my perfect sub/slave and i would make your perfect mistress :] you got skype so i can start your trainin? im lookin forward to hearing from you. |
Now, I'm pretty sure the profile was fake, because how many women who list themselves as Dominant on here have self taken mirror pics with cell phone in which they have "duck face"?
I so badly wanted to reply "you got shift key? TRY USING IT." |
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| Age: 33 |
| South Bend,
Indiana |
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