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Hetero Male Submissive, 35,  London, United Kingdom
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Hi my name is Phil. I am a mid 30's submissive male. I'm ultimately looking to be part of a Female-lead relationship (FLR). I am looking for love, and I have a lot of love to give. I am looking for someone who wants me to submit to them as much as I want to genuinely submit. That way we will both feel wanted, needed, and ultimately loved. Someone who is willing to be in charge, to be the boss and allow me to absolutely worship her for the Goddess she is. I'm not going to bother mentioning my kinks as I get real pleasure from pleasing the one I am with. I am hoping to find someone with similar vanilla interests, someone who is open minded and philosophical about our human journey through life, someone who loves nature and animals, and who is curious about the stars. I am a working professional leading a fairly busy life. I love to travel, I love animals, and I try to keep fit. I have quite an easygoing personality although I cannot stand time-wasters nor those who constantly mythologise themselves. There is just no truth in that kind of behaviour! I try to practise compersion although it can be difficult at times. I hope to find someone that shares a similar outlook to me. If you do contact me, please, please, please, be honest, just be your real self. I will be my real, honest, self. Thank you for reading. ~fin













 Submissive Male


 United Kingdom

 Willing to Relocate

 5' 8"

 70 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female


 Lives For:

 You tying me up

 Being allowed to worship your feet

 You putting me on a leash

 Sensory Play




 Female Led Relationships (Beginner)

 Working Out (Expert)



 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets



 Being blindfolded

 Being allowed to worship your body

 Being allowed to wear your collar

 Being gagged by you


 Being allowed to be obedient to you

 Being allowed to service you orally

 You binding me with plastic wrap

 Role Playing

 Shibari (Beginner)

 You telling me when I'm allowed to speak

 Suspension Bondage

 Wax Play

 Alternative Medicine












 Female Sovereignty


 Lifestyle BDSM


 Alternative Music

 Blue Grass


 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Folk Music

 Heavy Metal Music



 Rock Music








 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops



 Renaissance Faires

 You disciplining me with a cane

 Eye contact with you not allowed

 Local BDSM Community (Beginner)

 Being massaged

 Being allowed to be your servant (Beginner)

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Fire Play

 Hair Pulling

 Hoods (Beginner)

 Being allowed to do all of the housework

 Being humiliated by you (Beginner)

 You placing masks on me

 Being allowed to give you massages


 Sensation Play

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Rubber Fetish

 Being spanked by you

 Vacuum Stimulation




 Libertarian Politics



 Country Music

 Modern Paganism

 Curious About:

 Anal Play (Beginner)

 Cages (Beginner)

 Chastity (Beginner)

 Electrical Play (Beginner)

 Genital Punishment (Beginner)

 Gas Masks

 Medical fetish play

 Mental Bondage

 Orgasm Control



 Intellectual Discourse






 Modern Primitivism

 Outdoor Bondage




 Erotic touch

 Public Play

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