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I'm a mix of sub & service top; bottom & switch; more D/s than S&M; Pansexual or Bi, depending on who's defining it. I believe that if everyone was more concerned with their partner's pleasure than their own, we'd all win. That, or we'd bump heads trying to go down on each other. I'm a talker and a big geek. Grounded and goofy.
I can discuss the issues of the day, kink topics, history, science, etc. But I can get truly lost in epic talks about movies, anime, video games, technology, computers, comics... On more than one occasion I've been told to stop talking and start fucking.
Still learning about myself, the community, kinks, psychology, terminology and everything else. I want to explore, experiment, and experience more. I can do fine with mostly-vanilla or a light dynamic of dominant roles in the bedroom; though, I'm always interested in exploring something more. If the mood is right, I can top, but I'm not the Dom type. It all depends on the relationship and the partner. I'd like to get back out there and meet someone new, but I'm getting over an injury to my hands. It really messes you up when you feel like you can't do ...well, everything from typing to holding your lover. So I'm in a weird place.
Misconceptions and Such:
  • To me, Bi has nothing to do with being selective about partners. Because I am very selective.
  • Nor is it in any way anti-trans.
  • It's just the most well-known word for saying you prefer more than one gender.
  • I identify as a sub, not a slave. I'm still learning and at present I'd say I'm light to moderate.
  • Some people seem to think that sub men are ineffectual pushovers. I beg to differ.
  • I generally don't use D/s capitalization protocols. If I'm not capitalizing words, it's probably because I'm typing quickly.
  • Safety is always a must.

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MistressBianka
 
 Age: 37
 Houston, Texas