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Pan Female Dominant, 37,  Margate, United Kingdom
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The TLDR (Semi-Compact) versionI am primarily seeking friends. Whilst play partners are an option I am open too, finding them is not my main focus. I am especially interested in chatting to other people who identify as dominant or switch. I live with my beautiful submissive fiancee and I am always looking to learn and develop. I do not like titles from anyone who I have not agreed a dynamic with. If you feel the need to use an honorific then Maam is ok however Mistress is purely for my submissive and any other titles are for negotiated dynamics only. I am a polyamorous and pansexual. I only practice ethical polyamory. I do not cheat, nor will I enable cheaters. I love to laugh, to geek out, to cuddle.... I love falling asleep with arms around me, or to fall asleep holding one I love close in my arms.I identify as a Primal and Sadomasochist. I do bottom occasionally to have my masochistic urges met however it is rare and only tends to be with trusted friends.I love music, concerts, anime, netflix, singing, live theatre, sewing, general creativity... I love my friends and am happy when I around them and I am insanely loyal.Temple-Moon-Moth, my amazing brat princessMy girl - My fiancee. She is everything - submissive, slut, brat and friend. I have never met anyone I wanted to take on as mine until her and she has stolen my heart. She is collared to me and so very precious to me. She makes me happy, proud and grateful for her in my life every day. I also do not keep anything from my girl. She is aware of anyone I play with and that is something that will never change. I love her so very much and she makes me happy in so many ways. I feel content and at peace when she is around me and to put it in a nutshell she makes me feel blessed. She came into my life when I least expected it and I am so very very glad. I plan to spend the rest of my life with her.My LDR Love I have an amazing man who means so much to me. I do not see him as often as I wish due to him being several hours away from me but when I do I treasure it. He is a lover, friend and partner. He is poly and yes he is made aware of if I play with or sleep with someone. Please do not ever expect me to do something without him knowing about it. I practice ethical polyamory only.My Play LikesIn a general sense, play wise Im into a lot of things. Particular fetishes being breath play, edgefear play ,CP, knives and swords, face slapping, degradation, sensual domination, sensation play, pinning, resistance play. I like needles and would not mind exploring medical play more. I have recently discovered in the right mindset I rather like watersports and degradation play. I love my violet wand and electrical play in general.Things I wish To Learn More AboutI really want to learn more about rope, that is likely my primary -want to know- thing at the moment. I would love to learn how to suspend someone. I enjoy cupping and really want to learn fire and blood cupping.And the rest..Style wise I love the alternategothfetish50s styles of dress though I can easily blend into a vanilla environment. I like rockmetal music as well as some pop, soul, jazz... a little of everything really. I also love to write poetry and stories, read, sing, watch movies and do a million and one non lifestyle related things. I am articulate and enjoy using my brain I believe a good mind is a tragic thing to waste. I am tattooed and pierced and my hair colour changes rather often.I enjoy fetish clubs and events and socializing, also always happy to chat, swap ideas and techniques etc.I attend the Thanet Munch and when I can make it, Watford Munch.I cant think of much more to say here, Im thinking that anyone who is interested to know more will most likely ask, feel free to drop me a PM.












 Dominant Female


 United Kingdom

 5' 5"

 180 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Submissive Transgender

Dominant Female

Dominant male

Submissive Female

Male Slave / Sub

Switch Women

Switch Male

Domme/Dom Couples

Sub/Sub Couples

Female Led Couples

Male Dom Couples


A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Local BDSM Community

 Going to munches

 Intellectual Discourse


 Rock Music

 Show Tunes


 Garage Sales

 Musical Theater


 Electrical Play

 You massaging me

 Mental Bondage

 Modern Primitivism

 Treating you like an object

 You worshiping me with recitations and rituals

 Sensation Play

 Spanking you

 Dominating you with a strap-on

 Board Games

 Card Games

 Role Playing Games


 Body Art






 Lifestyle BDSM


 Alternative Music



 Amusement Parks


 Fine Dining



 Renaissance Faires



 Blindfolding you

 Tying you up

 Disciplining you with a cane

 Collaring you


 Rear End Play

 Erotic touch


 Hair Pulling


 Medical fetish play

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Public Play

 Sensory Play


 Wax Play


 Arcade Games

 Comedy Shows

 Horror Movies


 Online Chatrooms

 Online RPGs

 Science Fiction

 Web Surfing



 Heavy Metal Music



 Curious About:

 Going to the Opera

 Scuba Diving


 Body Worship

 G-spot Stimulation

 Fire Play

 Oral Service

 Outdoor Bondage


 Suspension Bondage

 Vacuum Stimulation



 Antique Shows

 Corner Time



 Hard Limits:


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Journal Entries:
11/13/2017 8:30:58 PM
It's been a long few months but finally back in my own home where I belong. You don't realise how awesome your own bed is till you don't have it! For once I am actually not feeling sad that Winter is coming, lots of long evenings in front of a flickering warm fire watching tv in my cosy home. Bliss!

5/8/2017 3:51:18 AM
Today it became official with the arrival of matching engagement rings. I am the luckiest woman in the world. I get to spend the rest of my life with T-M-M. She's not just my girl, she's my lover, friend, submissive, brat and princess... My partner in every way... My universe.

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