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http://.com/sit_on_santas_lap
I'm a switch, I tend to dominate those around me unless they have a strong personality as it seems to happen through sheer force of personality (just being around them) rather than actually forcing it on them, though I'm very submissive if you treat me right (it's not difficult).
I dislike abusive people (though some of the play I like involves what could be considered extremely abusive) as well as humiliation (I hate it), dicipline is interesting as long as it's not humiliating (though some times it's necessary) or demeaning (a personality is meant to be built up not torn down), sometimes I like to break the rules and push the boundaries of them at times just for the sake of getting attention and possibly because I enjoy the consequences. (If you become angry but not disappointed or angrier than you are disappointed we'll be a poor fit. I am after all here to please you and if I fail and you're not disappointed, only angry that tells me you don't care) This is part of the reason I some times poke and prod at the rules. After all, if you punish and correct to help better me, I must continue to break the rules and pester you to keep you from getting soft on me (obviously within limitation.. Something that would only happen when I feel that it's been too long since you've had to punish me for anything).
As you may notice am a bit egocentric but keep in mind that this is only one aspect of who I am. I'm not interested in girls more than one or two years older than me unless they look and act younger than I am. I prefer younger women because I can relate to them much more easily (we have more in common). As much as I can be a dominant person I feel more at ease submitting to a girl than having her submit to me.
I get shy easily, especially when I feel put on the spot which is a
typical reason why I'll stop talking, leave, or refuse to do things, feeling embarassed. It's something I need to work on (not that I really want to... I enjoy who I am).
I like girls that are shorter than me, I dislike men (a lot). I'm very vain and shallow (in all the right ways) but I don't consider all beauty to be physical, I have a very complex method of determining if you are beautiful (personality and mind included among a long list of other variables), it will show through in the way you present yourself in appearance and during discourse.
Although I am fairly new to the scene this is only in the sense that I have only been to one play party and no munches. I spent much of my spare time reading on the things that interest me or drawing.
I want more experience with someone who will be patient but stern and I don't mind it being public provided that it's subtle (depending on where it is since it's acceptable to be as I am in those places). I'm also not just looking for fun though I am still up for it, I would prefer a long-term relationship.
There are so many things I'd like to experience and so many things I'd like to experiment with, where to start... You tell me. (^-^)
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| Age: 21 |
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