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Before I am willing to speak with you in-depth, show Me respect by addressing Me in every communication as Divine Princess, Supreme Goddess, Precious Angel, Luscious Rainbow, or Enchanting StarChild. 

Next, these 20 Questions must be answered and sent with clear photos of your face & body. Please note, I prefer clean, shaven men with excellent hygiene. Send both close up and full length portraits of you, in both casual and/or dressy attire.

The task at hand is to make training you fun & easy!

1. Are you legally single?

2. Are you currently in Love with someone?

3. Are you truly monogamous?

4. Do you consider yourself a romantic?

5. With whom do you live currently?

6. Do you have any children? If so, how many and are they grown or not? Do you want children?

7. Do you always practice safe sex?

8. Are you on any medication? If so, what & why? 

9. Have you ever been arrested? If so, what happened?

10. What is your current occupation? Do you love it? Is it your ultimate career path? What is your work schedule each week? Do you have any other obligations?

11. What do you do for exercise? How often do you do it?

12. What kind of car do you own? Make, model, year & color?

13. What is your erect shaft size? Length? Circumference? 

Please read this article to better understand this important factor in compatibility ~ http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_100/102b_love_tip.html

14. What is your experience with Tantra? How long can you make love for without ejaculating?

15. What is your experience with FLR & at what Level 1-4? Why do you desire a FLR?

16. Will you consent to not smoke, nor drink much coffee or alcohol?

17. Are you into Goddess Worship? What is your skill level in this area? How do you imagine this contributes to your personal evolution?

18. Do you consider yourself a submissive (part-time service) or slave (full-time)? What is your experience in this area?

19. Describe how you most wish to serve My Interests? What are the primary activities which you most desire to offer Me? What has been your most consistent sexual fantasy in recent months? (Please review Profile Interests before responding.)

20. How much time will you devote to O/our relationship? If you don't live in the area, how soon will you visit?

Thank you for your cooperation. Co-creating a beautiful Life is what I'm all about. To do this, W/we have to want many of the same things, feel connected emotionally & spiritually.

Many blessings on your journey of awakening,

Divine Angel

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Feminine wisdom significantly predates the patriarchy. Female supremacy is a natural reaction to the oppression women have endured for so long. 

Submitting to Me is about following through on My requests. Stroking your ego only works some of the time. I'm eager for a noble & submissive man who knows how to engage me.

If I do not respond to your email, I am either too busy or decided W/we’re not a match.   Multi-chakra, body, mind, heart & soul keys unlock O/our Love. 

ADDRESSING ME

Call Me: Precious Angel, Divine Duchess, Supreme Goddess, Sublime Princess, Luscious Rainbow, or Sweet StarChild.

PHILOSOPHY 

As we align with our hearts' desires, we feel ourselves ascending like Angels rising. My Soul has the preferred qualities of epic Goddesses. These beings paved the way & modeled the evolved qualities of the feminine heart & soul.

I blend FLR, Chivalry, D/s, & FemDom, with Tantric Goddess Worship. Cerebral men & fetishes have their place but affairs of the Heart surpass all others. Things evolve naturally through stages: Stage 1 establishes trust, respect & credibility with how W/we ascertain compatibility. Stage 2 proves your potential by agreeing to My terms. Stage 3 means you are accepted as My slave; surrendered to being trained by Me, for My well-being. Stage 4 occurs as we find W/we desire more. Be deep in your heart, or I'll disappear. 

BACKGROUND:

A rare blend of fantasy & reality, I can be tender, playful, reverent, or fierce. I am a Gift for you to Cherish. Goddess Worship began long ago in India. I choose it as My Path to help end war.  As the Sacred Feminine flourishes, Life on Earth improves for everyone. "The world will be saved by the Western Woman." (Dalai Lama) 

My contract with the Divine is producing mainstream programs to elevate the status of women: media, events, music, film, books, et al. Women have been subservient for millennia. It's time to balance the scale.

LTR CANDIDATES

My strict protocols weed out most applicants. But it only takes the right "one", right? I only want sex in the context of Love. For me to consider you for a LTR, you must be 5'10" - 6'5", above average intelligence, communicative, endearing, possessing advanced stamina & self-discipline, offering high-level decorum. The task is to keep Me smiling.

Only single, straight (not bi), monogamous, respectful, reliable, obedient, meditative, successful, fun, generous, & evolved men are eligible. Size matters: The Kama Sutra explains 3 sexual body types. I require a sacred shaft at least 7" long & 5" around when erect; able to make love for 3+ hours, taking Me into euphoric meditations of Love. Premature ejaculators need not apply. Breathing up rather than spilling your seed makes you more virile;  therefore, more desirable. 

My favorite gifts to receive: devotion, praise, reverence, body & soul worship, pampering, massage, being chauffeured, adornments, flowers, salon services, spa weekends, vacations, & obedience.  Training you will take time & effort, to educate you, regardless of O/our relationship.  You must be FUN & EASY, though reverent. How close will you get to Me: admirer, helper, worker, chauffeur, trainer, sound engineer, chef, lawyer or accountant, patron, valet, bodyguard, masseur, romantic gallant, confidant, devoted husband? Be clear what you are offering.  How far will you submit?  Free fall into submission & discover O/our Ecstasy in subspace.

FLR LIFESTYLE

There are 5 Food Groups in FLR: Leisure Time, Sex, Life Direction, Finances, & Household Chores. In FLR, there are Four Levels of FLR (see Journal entry for more info). Women have varying degrees of leadership in making decisions for each area. After many years in this lifestyle, giving men & women advice with My FLR  coaching programs, groups now invite me to be their speaker. My slave must support this mission to raise the status of women around the world, through My various efforts.

RAISING THE STATUS OF WOMEN

If you would like to help raise the status of women, learn how to be a better submissive, how to honor the feminine, interrupt sexism, & make it safer for women to achieve & explore their freedom as women. Around the world, for eons, women continue to be raped, tortured, treated like objects, and controlled without freedom or basic human rights. Making daily choices to uplift women &  portray women in dignified ways is an easy way to purify your being & raise your consciousness. Healing emotional wounds is essential.  If you would like to help in other ways, volunteer your services to help produce My mainstream media for educational & entertainment purposes. Initiating policy changes in local, state, or federal laws in your country is really admirable. Men have the power to make it safe for women to not only be safer in their communities, but also live more joyful lives, both personally &  professionally.

• Always address Me as Sublime Princess, Precious Angel, Luscious Rainbow, Enchanting StarChild, or Divine Goddess
• Stop talking or spending time with other women without My permission
• Beg Me every step of the way to give you an opportunity to prove your devotion and worth to Me as my slave
• Answer my 20 questions and read My entire profile and journal
• Once you have submitted these answers and read My entire profile and journal at least twice, set up a time to chat by phone at My earliest convenience.
• Once you’ve chatted with Me by phone, set up a time to meet in person at My earliest convenience
• you will remove your profile from all dating and BDSM websites
• you stand, kneel, or sit, as I command, in My presence
• Daily You will ask Me how you may serve Me
• If you do not already meditate you will begin now
• you will pleasure yourself without spilling your seed until you can do so for at least an hour and then two hours
• you will memorize My list of interests
• If you do not know how to massage, you will enroll in a massage course
• If you do not know tantra, you will enroll in a tantra class online
• you will text, email, or leave Me a voice message or call Me every morning and every evening to tell Me what you have been thinking about and what you would like to do to or for me
• you will study how to perform a Goddess Worship Puja on Me “nyasa-style”
• you will draft a slave contract for me to approve
• you will confess to disobedience and take responsibility, accepting respectfully & expressing gratitude for any disciplinary actions for any transgressions
• you will dress or undress yourself as I require
• you understand the use of the SafeWord will result in immediate cessation of that days interactions until W/we have discussed the matter thoroughly
• you will be available for Me whenever I request it
• you will maintain your body in peak physical condition & clean hygiene to please all of My senses
• you will not spill your seed without My permission
• you will plan dates for U/us during the week, as well as weekend get-aways, based on my Interests listed in My profile
• you will diligently apply yourself to progress as I require My slave to satisfy Me

As your Goddess, I promise to communicate, maintain clarity, consistency, provide consequences, monitor safety, and respect your limits.

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Before I am willing to speak with you in-depth, show Me respect by addressing Me in every communication as Divine Princess, Supreme Goddess, Precious Angel, Luscious Rainbow, or Enchanting StarChild. 

Next, these 20 Questions must be answered and sent with clear photos of your face & body. Please note, I prefer clean, shaven men with excellent hygiene. Send both close up and full length portraits of you both clothed and/or unclothed, in both casual and/or dressy attire.

The task at hand is to make training you fun & easy!

1. Are you legally single, as well as in practice? Is your Heart free to Love? Are you currently in Love with someone?

2. Are you truly monogamous? Do you consider yourself a romantic?

3. With whom do you live currently? Do you have any children? If so, how many and are they grown or not? Do you want children?

4. Do you always practice safe sex?

5. Are you on any medication? If so, what & why? 

6. Have you ever been arrested? If so, what happened?

7. What is your current occupation? Do you love it? Is it your ultimate career path? What is your work schedule each week? Do you have any other obligations?

8. What do you do for exercise? How often do you do it?

9. What kind of car do you own? Make, model, year & color?

10. What is your erect shaft size? Length? Circumference? 

Please read this article to better understand this important factor in compatibility ~ http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_100/102b_love_tip.html

11. What is your experience with Tantra? How long can you make love for without ejaculating?

12. What is your experience with FLR & at what Level 1-4?

13. Will you consent to not smoke, nor drink much coffee or alcohol?

14. Are you into Goddess Worship? What is your skill level in this area? How do you imagine this contributes to your personal evolution?

15. Do you consider yourself a submissive (part-time service) or slave (full-time)? What is your experience in this area?

16. Describe how you most wish to serve My Interests? What are the primary activities which you most desire to offer Me? (Please review Profile Interests before responding.) 

17. What has been your most consistent sexual fantasy in recent months? 

18. How much time during the week will you devote to O/our relationship? If you don't live in the Maryland area, how soon will you visit?

19. Why do you desire a FLR LTR?

20. For which of the Interests that I "Live For" are you most skilled? 

Thank you for your cooperation. Co-creating a beautiful Life is what I'm all about. To do this, W/we have to want many of the same things in Life, feel connected emotionally & spiritually. In your answers, you should hope to convey that you feel W/we are a perfect match given your answers to My screening questions, My Full Profile, Interests, & Journal.

Many blessings on your journey of awakening,

Divine Angel

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hdog86it

 wrote to me after actually reading my profile...and it continues to inspire my work, championing the plight of women on the planet...He writes,

The fact that I've not dated is seen as indication that my philosophy is misguided.

For me, his response only confirms it.

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To NaptownSub:

 How do you figure whore? Hmm, perhaps you are too accustomed to such women. I am looking for a husband and clearly state that in my profile. If someone isn't a good match, then I'm a Dating & Relationship Coach who's helped men and women world wide learn about female-led relationship. If you are really a sub and have any sincerity about honoring the feminine, how can you be so vulgar? I don't have sex sessions, I haven't had a date for over a year, because I'm looking for the right man and given our male-dominated society where men so readily disrespect women, how else is a women to weed out the neanderthals on this path of female-led relationship? Where can a man find out how to develop a FLR?

FRIEND POLICY: On other social media sites, friend-ing is popular and doesn't require knowing someone that well. Here, I feel it is different for me. I am more interested in finding a real relationship offline, so I don't invest much time into "adding" friends to my profile here. No offense intended. I'm just more into real communication and real relationships. If you really want to develop a dialogue, I'm hoping you'll take the time to read my Full Profile and both pages of my Journal. By the time you finish reading it all, I know it's long, but, you'll have a very good idea if W/we're a likely match. This really saves more time and heartache in the long run. Best wishes for everyone's Vision of Love...

FLR COACHING & KEYNOTES

Having done FLR & FemDom Coaching for many years, now, I thought I'd elaborate a little to save us both time. I've been a Life Coach for a long time. I've never been a pro-Domme, and really have no interest in it. As a Lifestyle Domina, I help others find where they fit into this menagerie of Female Led Relationship. There's Honoring the Feminine, for most neanderthals. Then, there's more advanced instruction for men and women who are beyond the basics of this FLR Lifestyle.

Started out as a Vanilla Dating Coach, I now offer various programs for men and women to create their Ideal Love Life. FLR Coaching introduces you to the 5 Levels of FLR, helps you ID where you are and how to get where you want to be. Matchmaking is far more expensive than Coaching. All FLR (Female Led Relationship) Coaching Programs are between $75-250/hour, by phone, depending on your financial need and length of program. Sporadic sessions are more than regular, on-going programs. Workshops, retreats, keynotes, and intensives are also available.

Thank you for your kind words and sincere intentions.

Please review my Full Profile, as well as all Journal entries, I know they are long, but then you will have time to feel into who I am and if W/we may truly be compatible.

Follow the instructions given. This will help us get better acquainted to see if we are a likely match when it comes Goddess Worship protocols.

I've clarified there what I'm looking for to help you decide if I am the Goddess you might serve.

In the profile and journal, it's clear what I'm looking for. I hope to hear from you specifically how you wish to serve me, based on what I've written. Please describe how you imagine this could unfold for my greatest pleasure.

Best wishes for your Heart's desire.

Luscious Rainbow

FEMALE LED RELATIONSHIP by Level ~

Defining FLR - Female Led Relationship

     Simply put FLR is when women lead men - men who want to be led by them. Of course this happens every day in all types of situations such as business, education, healthcare and home. The phenomenon is when men want/ask women to lead in their personal lives. Because women already contribute to the leadership of men and men readily accept it, there must be a difference -- the passion men feel about FLR is deep and varied. Imagine a strong man, say a broker who makes 2 times a six-figure income and is otherwise successful in many ways asking his woman to led their relationship. He might ask to participate in pampering her in intimate ways; he might ask to serve her like a butler. Many men want the woman to rule over him, making demands and exacting punishment for any infraction. This scratches the surface of where men want to go for FLR. So FLR to men is deeper and richer than simply being led by a woman or following in a supportive role. It is erotic.

     You should note that any man asking for FLR is crying for help. There are some real or imagined issues that are solved by FLR. It may be an issue of safety, motivation to be a better mate, an obsession with kink, deep desire to serve, a penance for something he did wrong, and effort to save the relationship, a statement of unworthiness or and fanatical idea to worship a women or women in general. All of these, combinations of these, and other motivations are the reason for his cry. Remember this is a man who is likely willing to beg you for the privilege of serving you. To define his view of FLR, it is wise to get to the bottom of things, investigate exactly what he wants and get him to give full disclosure..[read more about Guide to getting full disclosure from your man...]

. A word of warning, full disclosure may include things you might not want to know about your mate. Remember the Carly Simon lyrics "sometime I wish I never knew those secrets of yours".

Women surveyed stated which level of FLR they preferred

FLR spans the gambit from bossy women shaking things up at home to voluntary ruler/slavery. We divided FLR into 4 segments for discussion. 1) Low key female leadership where a woman leads informally and derives little benefit from leadership and has some interest in FLR. 2) Moderate female leadership where women formally lead with benefit but have little/small interest in kink and moderate interest in formal FLR. 3) Formal FLR where the woman has taken control of the [5 food groups]

(element one can control), has an interest in some or perhaps all kink and has a high interest in formal FLR. Lastly 4) Extreme FLR where the woman is elevated to ruler and has a high interest in kink and formal FLR and the man is reduced to a slave. Each of these levels likely has a place where women natural nurture, give and serve their partners at some level. [rate your interest in FLR - take the quiz]

"If you look at FLR it looks like the safest relationship a woman can have. She makes the rules, she sets the boundaries, she has final say and he both loves her and supports her in her role. In any other relationship, women do not enjoy that kind of freedom or safety. This is a functional model for any woman who wants more control and less strife. There should be zero downside to female led relationships when entered into with open eyes and a whole heart between two people who love each other." -- A BBS entry from Asserting leadership

     As we are about to describe FLR has two perspectives

Low Key Female Leadership (Level 1)

     It is a guess but most likely more women would prefer to have an ideal relationship where she and her partner were relatively equal and they made decisions together, had common interests and a great sex life. Most women don't want the idea that she would control her man. The expression "I did not sign-up for that" might slip out her mouth or perhaps "wow, that is unusual" in response to her man asking her for some of the things men want from FLR. Many women are willing to go a little ways down the path, taking more responsibility and control but are not willing to go all the way. These women likely have an interest because they love their man and not because they are interested in FLR or kink per se. So she allows him to take on more house work and pamper her a bit but the moderately to extreme kink and fantasy are left out making the experience satisfying for no one and often frustrating for all.

Possible Perspectives: From the woman's perspective, she is attempting to make things better but is not committed to the program. From the man's perspective, he is moving her in the right direction.

Moderate Female Leadership (Level 2)

     Some women who take the request for leadership seriously indulge their man. These women may have several motivations such as "I am willing to try it", "I could use the help", "I am better with money than he is" and such. These rationale combined together make the experience worthy. Moderates indulge their men in service and kink to but often don't understand why someone who wants to serve must be indulged or punished. They cannot understand "the extreme things". They most often don't want anything to do with punishment or very kinky activities. This level shows a real interest in trying FLR and pleasing their partner. Men with obsessive behavior sometimes push the envelope trying for more and moderates back off, giving less.

Possible Perspectives: From the woman's perspective, she is trying to see if she can make things better and receive some benefits. She cares deeply for the well-being of her mate and is showing it. She is curious to see if it can work. From the man's perspective he, is moving in the right direction and may be satisfied for some time. At some point, he may require more especially if he has not divulged all of his desires.

Formal Female Leadership (Level 3)

     Formal FLR relationships are led by women who are sold out on the idea of leading and have a higher need for and understanding of control. Formals have digested the psychology of motivation for their men and weighed the benefits and risks of the various activities she could participate in or lead. Formals often have very servile mates who are indulged in many kinks and fantasies at whatever level the formal feels comfortable. The relationship likely looks like a reverse traditional relationship where the man is the submissive/supportive wife with the added features of male chastity, indulged kinks and servant like attention from the man to the woman. The woman likely still serves the man as well, providing a more motherly touch to him. Formals have taken charge of the 5 food groups

, those areas of life that men and women can negotiate successfully: 1. Free Time (how he spends it), 2 Finances, 3. Life Direction (where they are going as a couple/family), 4. Sex, and 5. Household Chores. Formals may have a few extreme elements in their program, things that she enjoys controlling.

Possible Perspectives: From the woman's perspective, she is trying to see if she can make things better. She likes the idea of the benefits and some of the kinks. She cares deeply for her mate's well-being and is showing it. Motivated to make it work but understands she is in control, she must move her agenda forward. From the man's perspective, he is content with the relationship and will be satisfied for some time. If he has not divulged all of his desires, there may be pressure for more. This pressure is already under the control of the woman who could grant the addition or shut it down with little or no consequences.

Extreme Female Leadership (Level 4)

     Extreme female leadership is difficult to describe to an observer because it is so intense. Women who practice this likely have taken their man and made him into a servant, object, pet or slave. She likely enjoys elements of BDSM (Bondage, Dominance, Sadomasochism, and Masochism). Those in BDSM practice things most people don't want to know about or discuss. If you can imagine your man naked, wearing only a dog collar and a chastity device. Kneeling very still while his leader places a leash on him and trains him with a whip to obey her every word, you can visualize the extreme nature these relationships can take. I hope people will understand it's what these couples want and they should not have to deal outsiders creating feelings of guilt because it has been agreed upon. Understand as well, that we don't discuss BDSM much on this website.

Possible Perspectives: From the woman's perspective, there may be several scenarios 1) she is indulging herself in dark dreams and desires for power, control, surrender and sex. 2) she is controlling her life so she can expand her agenda with other partners and cuckold him. 3) she has a desire to break him and rebuild such as a boot camp experience, so she gets a man she wants. From the man's perspective, he has fallen into it and likely cannot think of anything else. He may or may not get everything he wants but he is on his way.

[Source: AboutFLR.com]

More vocabulary so we may better communicate ~

Domme

'Domme' usually refers to a non-professional female dominant.

Pro-Domme

Dominatrix

A professional female dominant is usually referred to as a 'Dominatrix', or a 'Pro-Domme', but may simply be called 'Domme' by her close associates or clients.

Domina

--- I used to be a college professor, but now I am a Domme. The pay is better and I do what I do best for a career now!

--- Laura is controlling and Dominant in her relationship with Her boyfriend billy. She doesn't want to quit working at the restaurant, so she'll just be a Dominatrix with him.

--- Every year Dommes from across the country go to a BDSM event called DomCon.

[Source: Urban Dictionary]

Professional or Pro-Domme vs Lifestyle Domina

The term dominatrix is sometimes used to describe a professional dominant (or "pro-domme") who is paid to engage in BDSM

with a submissive. An appointment or roleplay is referred to as a "session", and is often conducted in a dedicated professional play space which has been set up with specialist equipment, such as a "dungeon". In the contemporary era of technological connectivity, sessions may also be conducted remotely by phone, email or online chat.

Women who engage in female domination typically promote and title themselves under the terms "Dominatrix", "Mistress", "Lady", "Madame", "Herrin" or "Goddess", with the capitalization of these terms being a signifier to their identification in the dominant role. A study of German dominatrices by Andrew Wilson has noted the trend for dominatrices choosing names aimed at creating and maintaining an atmosphere in which class, femininity and mystery are key elements of their self-constructed identity.^[6]

Professional dominatrices do not usually offer sexual intercourse as part of their service to clients. The Canadian dominatrix Terri-Jean Bedford

, who was one of three women who initiated an application in the Ontario Superior Court

seeking invalidation of Canada's laws regarding brothels

, sought to differentiate for clarity her occupation as a dominatrix rather than a prostitute

to the media, due to frequent misunderstanding and conflation by the public of the two terms.^[7]

While dominatrices come from many different backgrounds, it has been noted that a considerable number are very well-educated, with a recent survey of New York

dominatrices revealing that 39% had attended graduate school / university, including well-regarded institutions such as Columbia University

.^[8]

Professional dominatrices may take pride or differentiation in their psychological insight into their client's "needs" and fetishes

, as well as their technical ability to perform complex BDSM practices, such as Japanese shibari

and other forms of bondage

, suspension

, torture

roleplay, and corporal punishment

, and other such practices which require a high degree of knowledge and competency to safely oversee. From a sociological point of view, Danielle Lindemann has noted the "embattled purity regime" in which many pro-dommes emphasise their specialist knowledge and professional skills, while distancing themselves from economic criteria for success, in a way which is comparable to avant-garde artists.^[9]

To differentiate women who identify as a dominatrix but do not offer paid services, non-professional dominants are occasionally restyle" dominatrix or mistress. It should be noted that the term "lifestyle" to signify BDSM is occasionally a contention topic in the BDSM community and that some dominatrices may dislike the term. Some professional dominatrices are also "lifestyle" dominatrices - i.e., in addition to paid sessions with submissive clients they engage in unpaid recreational sessions or may incorporate power exchange within their own private lives and relationships.^[10]

However it is worth noting that the term has fallen out of general usage with respect to women who are dominant in their private relationships, and has taken on more and more, the connotation of "professional."

FLR

The term female-led relationship (or "FLR") refers to a model for romantic heterosexual

relationship in which both partners agree that the woman will act as the leader and ultimate authority. If the participants are married, the arrangement may be termed a female-led marriage (FLM) or wife-led marriage (WLM). A FLR involves some form of power exchange

with varying degrees of role enforcement and permanence according to the terms agreed upon by the participants. Some relationships involve total power exchange

(TPE) which involves exchange of autonomy on a continuous 24/7 basis. In a female-led TPE relationship, the female possesses complete authority over the male's life and acts as a final authority in personal decisions. TPE relationship structures may be enforced by consensual transfer of power whose exercise (by the female) is more dissatisfying (to the male) than the loss of the given freedoms. An example of such prohibitive power is financial decision-making authority.

In "safe, sane, and consensual

" BDSM, power exchange is always negotiated. The terms of a power exchange are made explicit, such that roles are clearly defined and consistent. Terms of an exchange may be drawn up in a contract between the participants; the terms of the arrangement, whether with or without a contract, may be periodically re-negotiated as a relationship evolves. However, since these re-negotiations change the established power structure of the relationship, they should be done only when they are mutually beneficial and consensual.

[Source: Wikipedia]

More definitions ~

Cuckold (sexual act)

In the realm of FLR 'cuckold' means a man who allows his wife or mate to have another male lover and participates or watches, and may or may not be used to clean her vaginal area after sex with her lover. Historically cuckold is a derogatory term for a man whose wife is or has been unfaithful. [wikipedia]

Desexualized

In the realm of FLR 'desexualized' means limiting or removing his access to sexual release and changing his socialization and sexuality. This can be as simple as chastity, orgasm denial and use of numbing creams or thick condoms or a great as reversing his sexuality from predator to prey.

Domestic Discipline

One mate punishing another - usually by spanking, some kind of whipping and or time out.

Dominance

Ruling over a sub - in this case commanding a sub to do things.

Equal relationships

Any relationship based on a the principles where both partner have equal decision making power - they make decisions together. Sometimes called 50/50 relationship.

Female Led Relationships

Any form of females control, leadership or management of a relationship with her man. 1. where she is leading, 2. where he is willfully following, 3) both acknowledge their roles.

FemDom

Female dominance (or Femdom) is those BDSM relationships and BDSM scenes in which the dominant partner is female. Often a dominant woman, she may be prefer to be called a domme (pronounced /'d?m/), femdomme, domina, dominatrix, or dom, depending on context or personal preference. A female dominant in a master/slave relationship is often termed a mistress, not to be confused with the colloquial usage of mistress as a kept sexual partner without a similarly formalized power relationship. [wikipedia]

Goddess Worship

A form of kink which includes obedience and acts of worship such as foot worship, bowing, servant like behavior - one form of worship is tribute where the goddess gets paid by the worshiper.

Healing relationships

The type of relationship that happens "on the rebound" where people look to fill needs they did not get in a past relationship. Also called a transitional relationship.

[Source: AboutFLR.com]

Happy New Year! I heard that 2013 is the Year of the Goddess! That would be truly a Happy New Year! 2012 was pretty spectacular in that I got to visit Maui for a few months, take interesting road trips in California, and spend time with family. Now, back in Maryland, I'm eager to hear what you've been learning in regards of women who love to feel like a goddess and the men who love to worship them. With recent global & national news, women are still finding it hard to walk safely on the streets of many communities. Even if you don't think we're a match, I hope my profile can inspire you to go on and inspire other men to respect women. Please interrupt physical, sexually or emotional abuse wherever you find it. Together we can make this a better world.

"Men are terrified of a woman's depth of love and the energy that moves as a woman's sexuality and emotions. And, at the same time, men want nothing more in this life than to merge completely with a woman's devotional love and wild energy. Only as a man outgrows his fear can he handle a woman's tremendous love-energy without running. And only such a man is worthy of Her devotional offering in a committed intimacy." ~ David Deida

How to Treat a Goddess by Anonymous Man ~

• Never having an agenda when I touch her, so if i m playing with Her elbow, I am playing with Her elbow maybe for an hour without it needing to lead to anything, because I just enjoy doing it so much in and out of itself.

• Staying present and listening to her. I like to play with Her body like the most exquisite musical instrument, playing with it to create the most exquisite divine music.

• Telling Her what a privilege and pleasure is to spend time with Her and how much I love and lust for her.

• Seeing Her being magic even when She doesn’t think She is being magic, and reminding Her of how much a magical Goddess I really feel She is.

• Touching, and being there for Her in a way which shows i m going to take care of her, and She doesn’t have to take care of me. This would be by touching Her confidently, showing Her I know what I am doing because I know how to massage Her and bring Her pleasure, this also means I can appreciate, and respect Her as well as prompt Her to tell me Her boundaries, so that we can have an amazing harmonious time. After all if I don’t hear Her authentic NO, I would never know what Her authentic YES is.

• Being really really turned on by her, without ever making Her have the responsibility to do anything about it. My turn on is mine, and mine to enjoy, if I treat it as such She would feel flattered, if I make my turn on Her responsibility, something that She should take care of, that would turn Her off immediately. By making my turn on mine I make that into something that makes me alluring, and exciting for her, rather something for Her to avoid and be afraid of.

• Pleasuring Her sexually without expecting Her to do anything in return, I would love Her to please me as well. But this is not why I please her, I do it because I love to do it, I want Her to do it when She loves to do it to, when She is present and enjoying to do it, not because She feels obligated.

• Letting Her go and be and do what She needs rather than clinging to her, white knuckling and keeping Her chained to me.

• Letting Her own Her own body and share it with whoever She wants, while knowing She has my full blessing and love.

• Never losing sight of just how much I love and appreciate her, and how grateful I am for having Her in my life, and by consistently reminding Her of that. Again I don’t do this to fish for compliments from her, but because I genuinely feel She is the crown jewel of creation whose company is such an honour, and feel that in every cell of my body.

• Being generous to Her, when i may not be even able to afford it, because Her happiness makes me so happy, and having Her receive me so fully is such a healing gift to me.

• Believing in Her and Her super powers even and especially in the moments She has forgotten about said super powers.

• Never making myself small, never hiding my light, never hiding my joy, my need for freedom, creativity, self-expression just to make Her happy. Because I believe W/we are both here together to grow, and if either of U/us wants to hold the other back, so that the only way to be together is being small, then I would want to end that relationship.

• Taking responsibility for what I feel, and not taking what She says and does personally.

• Fully appreciating, wanting, savouring, loving Her as a sexual Goddess, lusting after Her and at the same time not making the nature of our relationship only sexual, and physical. So if I am in a situation that She wouldn’t want to be sexual, I still enjoy being with Her enormously, spending time with Her enormously, by cuddling with her, talking to her, dancing with her, watching a movie with her, cooking with her. Its Her, the precious time I spend with Her that matters so much and not Her being sexual all the time. This in turn relaxes Her so that She would soon be interested in sex again.

How do you find a Goddess that you would treat as such you may ask? You find your Goddess by believing you are a great man who deserves to have a Goddess, and that you are the prize, that by being with you She will benefit greatly as She surely will.

So gentlemen, this is how I would treat my Goddess, how would you treat your Goddess? And Goddess, what do you think? Please share!

[Author prefers to remain anonymous on this site, but be aware they have this copyrighted.]

Before I am willing to chat with you, these 10 questions must be answered.

Also, be sure to send clear photos of your face & body. Please note, I prefer clean, shaven men. Send both close up and full length portraits of you both clothed and unclothed, in both casual and dressy attire.

The task at hand is to make training you fun & easy!

1. Describe how you wish to serve Me as your Goddess? What are the primary activities which you most desire? (Please review my interests before responding.)

2. What is your erect shaft size? Length? Circumference? 

Please read this article to better understand this importance factor in compatibility ~ http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_100/102b_love_tip.html

3. Are you single & monogamous? Who do you live with?

4. Are you on any medication? If so, what & why? 

5. What is your occupation? Do you love it?

6. How long can you make love for without ejaculating?

7. What do you do for exercise? How often do you do it?

8. What kind of car do you own? Make, model, year & color?

9. Have you ever been arrested? If so, what happened?

10. Will you consent to not smoke, nor drink much coffee or alcohol?

11. Do you consider yourself a submissive (part-time service) or slave (full-time)?

En francais ~

1. Décrivez comment vous voulez me servir en tant que votre déesse? Quelles sont les principales activités qui vous a le plus envie? (S'il vous plaît examiner mes intérêts avant de répondre.)
 

2. Quelle est la taille de votre arbre debout? Longueur? Circonférence?
 

S'il vous plaît lisez cet article pour mieux comprendre ce facteur d'importance dans la compatibilité ~ http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_100/102b_love_tip.html
 

3. Êtes-vous célibataire et monogame? Qui voulez-vous vivre?
 

4. Prenez-vous des médicaments? Si oui, quoi et pourquoi?
 

5. Quelle est votre profession? Avez-vous l'amour?
 

6. Combien de temps pouvez-vous faire l'amour sans éjaculer pour?
 

7. Que faites-vous de l'exercice? Combien de fois avez-vous fait?
 

8. Quel genre de voiture possédez-vous? Marque, modèle, année et une couleur?
 

9. Avez-vous déjà été arrêté? Si oui, qu'est-ce qui s'est passé?
 

10. Est-ce que vous consentez à ne pas fumer, ni boire beaucoup de café ou de l'alcool?
 

11. Vous considérez-vous un soumis (service à temps partiel) ou esclave (temps plein)?

Are you here to learn? I'm interested in knowing what you have experienced in your Female-Led Relationships, Dominant/submissive, Domestic Discipline, Chivalry, Tantra, FemDom, or Goddess Worship efforts? One-liner intros are rarely inspiring. Follow the directives in My profile if you desire to continue. I need someone who has depth of character & self-awareness, though is more interested in My pleasure than his. I have so much more to show you than you will likely ever realize.

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Please feel free to Google such terms to learn more:

A. Female-Led Relationship is where the Woman is leading - 'running the show'. It does not mean the couple doesn't discuss things and share responsibility, as a couple; it simply means She is the general leader.  

B. Female Dominant is where the man has no power and no say. 

C. Domestic Discipline can be where one of the partners (or both) supports the others' behaviour (or life goals) using discipline. This is time and effort consuming and there is is a need for clear rules so as both partners know what is what. (Obviously it can be a part of a FLR but does not have to be)."

D. FemDom is generally more about fetishes than building a lasting relationship. Which is your preference? Be as clear as you can.

The key areas in a relationship are:

1. Sex - W/we all want spontaneous sex but most of U/us have it at night in our bedrooms and it is likely something you have done before. Control of sex can mean yes or no, what and when, how, who, how much or how hard. Sex takes time too, so controlling time is key to controlling sex. 

2. Life Direction - A decision to move, improve one's education, have children, make or leave friendships, and other major decisions guide one's course. This takes time, so one can control it with free time such as spending your free time improving your circumstances. There is also the personal/spiritual/cultural/sexual direction of a person's life.

3. Free Time - Time doing what you want comes after the decision to make time for others, time together, time apart, time for O/our common interests, time with friends -- all take away from O/our free time. Free time also includes decisions W/we make for O/our time that take an effort -- if you require tedious training, you infringe on O/our free time. 

4. Household Chores - if you hire a housekeeper, gardener and handy man, then you free U/us up to spend time doing other things. Be clear, there is a lot of details to keeping a house going. There is laundry, shopping for food and sundries, taking the trash out. When a Woman controls time, She likely also controls chores because they can be added to a schedule and She can train someone to do it as She would. Management 101 - delegation of responsibility. 

5. Finances - Financial control has long been the domain of men.  It is the ultimate control of a relationship when a mate has no control.  They find it difficult or impossible to invoke change, take care of themselves or leave. Financial decisions can be shared or dictated.

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I suggest you read My profile often enough to learn how to best communicate with Me.  Yes, I like gifts. Who doesn't?  How do you intend to atone for transgressions? I require a man who is well-mannered, obedient, take orders well & is completely reliable.  I love being sweet & lose interest if a man has no depth or leads with his fetish fantasies. While I do want to know your fantasies, My slave will be more interested in Mine.

Only the strong survive. Only the sincere will thrive with Me.

Suggested Reading ~

The Tao of Love & Sex by Jolan Chang

The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida

Cultivating Male Sexual Energy by Mantak Chia

Five Love Languages for Singles by Dr. Gary Chapman

How to Worship the Goddess & Keep Your Balls by David Bruce Leonard