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I'm an intelligent, experienced Dominant looking for fulfillment and frolic with a submissive . I am seeking an ongoing relationship that may or may not include vanilla dating rituals, depending upon how we feel about each other. Be assured that I will take my responsibilities seriously. You should, too.
I'm 40, 5'4", 180#, with brown eyes, a deep voice, black hair, strong hands, and a devilish mind...>:-} This is but one facet of my personality. I have many other interests and desires and fascinations...
Ideally you should be pretty and curvy, as I am smitten by the hourglass figure of a real woman. I gravitate towards those who are smart and funny and a bit wild. Bonus points if you're a performer or artistic. Race unimportant. D&D free. alcohol ok, just as long as it isn't making your life difficult. I am naturally Dominant and controlling. I tried to smooth this out and be like everyone else, but like most things not done as one true self, it just didn't work out. So finding a woman of like mind has lead me to this site. If you are looking for the typical "lifestyler" though, I am not him. I find alot were the little punks who couldn't get girls in Highschool and are attempting to bully their poor broken egos into repair. In some cases they are simply insecure men choosing a position they feel is secure. I love women. I simply feel there is a hierarchy, and am this way both in and out of the bedroom, so you will need to be able to handle this. I have no real need for ropes and the like, unless used as a toy or prop. Otherwise I think of them as more of a crutch. If I tell you to sit a certain way, or do a certain thing, you should be able to hold said position. Were I to do the same to an animal IT would, and you pet will need to be smarter than an animal, or in the least as obedient! There will be times though when I just feel like having some fun and watching you squirm, or simply don't feel like being bothered with you. After all variety is the spice of life, no? I feel that if I need rope to hold you constantly, then you aren't mine are you? As to the other props, whips, paddles, riding crops etc, I tend to replace them with my hands and belts. Although this is more because I simply haven't found need to go shopping for said items.... yet.
I am looking for an attractive sexy, and even sultry woman. Race and age are of no issue If you don't have a picture up, you are most likely not for me either. Unless your job is super sensitive there is no need to hide who you are, and if you are still too ashamed to put a picture up, then guess what? You aren't ready Besides, if your colleagues are on here; They are in the same boat! Now you have something to talk about at the water cooler. lol
Although the spirit of this profile is a stern one, I do enjoy fun, laughter, and joy. The spirit in which this was written is more to depict the person you will see were you to cross the line. I understand and respect those who toe it, and have even enjoyed such a woman, but in the end what I say goes. As I said I have a deep love for the fairer of the species, and as such have no desire to break your spirit, only to correct you should you veer from the path. My intensity however will match the infraction.
Daddy/little girl does not refer to the ages, real or pretend, of the participants. Nor does it imply closet desires. It refers to the environment that two people have created. A Daddy Dom is so named because of the qualities he possesses and the service he provides. So, what are these qualities? What is a Daddy Dom? A Daddy Dom wants to be the center of your universe. He wants to be able to provide for your every need and care. But more than that he wants to be able to shape and mold you to the image he thinks you should become. He sees in you someone who, in his mind, can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He believes more in you than you believe in yourself. What he wants in return is to be able to bask in his image of you, the image he has created. How does he achieve his goals? Through love, respect, and discipline. His love for his little girl goes without saying. He accepts every part of her and works to emphasize the good while improving the bad. He loves her as much for who she is as for who she will become with his guidance. It is this love that allows him to train her. He could not invest so much of himself in someone he did not love completely. This love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel great pride in his possession. He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given him and takes great pains to increase it's value. It is extremely important to him to know she can be with any man and she chooses to be with him. He knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, more important than in some other D/s relationships. In order for the little girl to really trust she must know he means what he says. He must constantly deepen her respect for him. If he does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If his submissive finds that she can manipulate him out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. He needs to empower her as much as he wants to possess her and it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect. The discipline is also important when it comes to her protection, both from those outside the relationship and those within. He is the one who makes the decisions about how she will relate to the world in general and his discipline ensures that she follows these rules. I think most Doms have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the role of male authority figure in their submissive's life and using their power to enrich that life. Daddy/little girl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that it's participants crave.
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