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So I have been thinking more and more about what I want and don't want. As time has evolved I have come to understand more and more of what I want and don't want. So perhaps if I list it out it will make it clearer to people so there are fewer questions and misunderstandings.

Wants

1. I want a male or female that enjoys being spanked for no reason at all except that I want to.

2. I want someone that understands I am NOT going to sleep with them, give them a bj, or anything else. You MAY have an opportunity to get some relief but I am not here to be of service to you.

3. I want someone that can keep their mouth shut and not run it off all the time. I am not here to argue with you or have some kind of fight. If you don't want to serve in the ways I wish then don't message me. I am tired of men messaging me and telling me all the things they want and then telling me they are a challenge so I will have to MAKE them do some things. Believe me....if I want you to do it you will. There may be things I will make you do but you will be in no position to argue.

4. I want someone that enjoys bondage for long periods of time. I may enjoy just binding you tightly, putting a nice tight sensory hood on you so you have time to think and sweat, and leave you. Granted I may interact with you but coming over and swatting hard between your legs, applying clamps to your nipples, etc but I am not here to entertain you.

I DO NOT WANT....

1. someone that thinks this is a joke
2. someone that thinks they can get what they want or mold me
3. someone that is cocky and self absorbed
4. someone who is married or over 40 (nothing against those married or over 40 but I don't want to have to go behind another woman's back -not cool- or someone significantly older than me)
5. someone who thinks that switching might be fun at some point

I hope I have made myself more clear. I am not trying to be a bitch but when it comes to this....well I am. I may seem tame when you first meet me but once comfortable I greatly enjoy a male squirming, sweating, begging and crying. I have never had that with a female but I am open to trying it if I haven't scared you away.

I am not always mean and I do greatly enjoy giving my submissives a reward but the submissive MUST earn it.

If I am not the person for you that is fine. Good luck in your search. I wish everyone here the best and hope to hear from you soon. Just remember be respectful and actually write me. I will do my best to write you back as soon as I can.

Thanks
11/15/2008 1:08:54 PM

I took off for a bit after having a disappointing time here for the second time in a row.  Am I looking seriously right now?  I don't know.  I hate investing myself in learning about someone and then having them take off.  So I am here, I will speak with people, and if you happen to catch my interest I won't stop chatting with you just because but don't expect me to jump right into finding another potential pet.  I really hate disappointment.

9/21/2008 2:23:36 PM
Well, I have recently been talking to a couple of great guys.  I look forward to continuing to talk with them.  I have not only met a few submissive men that are of interest but I have also met some Dom's that have been kind and well spoken.  It is nice to see that there are Dominant men out there that are not threatened by Dominant women as some around here seem to be.  I don't need to throw insults and neither do dominant men and it is nice to see that some here understand that and are gentlemen as well as strong, dominant men.  And to those men, thank you.  You are a good example to all men. 
10/11/2006 5:45:50 PM
So last night I went out to dinner with a submissive man that I met on here.  When I arrived he was polite, respectful, and real.  We had dinner and he paid.  I did not expect it, I brought money with me, but he insisted.  Chivalry is not dead. 

During dinner we had a nice conversation about everyday things and soon dinner was over.  We left the resteraunt and soon we were in my car, chatting for another hour and a half. 

I had a wonderful time and look forward to our next meeting.  I am here to tell everyone there are normal, sane people out there.  Where will the road lead us?  I don't know but I do know I enjoyed the evening immensely and look forward to the next meeting.
8/8/2006 6:13:21 PM
I bought a new book today.  I purchased the book called "Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns" by Phillip Miller and Molly Devon.  Now for many of you this is not a new book but I had heard of it and knew I can always learn more so i purchased it. 

Within the book they were speaking of naturally born Dominants and submissives and one of the examples was how the male bound his teddy bear when young.

Now I had always thought that my interest in BDSM started around age 13 but then I realized it started much earlier than that.  My mother still brings up how when I was in 3rd grade and even a year or two before, I would bind my Barbies to chair legs. (I think she still worries about that to this day)

This book made me think of that and finally make that connection.  Perhaps my interests in this were far before the book I read as a young girl.  Perhaps it was something that always turned me on, always made me grin, even when a child.

And even now it makes me grin.  Although my mom's reaction is different story.  -laughs- 
11/20/2005 1:43:46 PM
I would like to again thank the people writing me.  I have been very busy lately so I have had time to sign in and read messages quickly.  I am very glad that people have shown interest in me but I need people to know that I am really looking for no one younger than 25 and no older than 38. 

It is nothing against anyone older or younger but I am not on here just to look for someone to play with.  I am here to also build a possible relationship with someone that intertwines both play time and "down time'.

Again thank you for showing interest but please do not expect a response if you are younger than 25 or older than 38 here because I have little time on here to begin with.  Thank you for understanding and I do hope to continue to hear from you.

Be good or don't get caught..  ;-)
8/14/2005 9:56:41 PM
I wanted to thank everyone that has written me.  I am pleased with the responses as well as with the polite manner in which most have responded.  It is amazing to me how some people message you and there is just something about them that jumps off the page.  I have learned to trust my gut feelings on this and I am glad to say, so far, I have not been disappointed with those I have messaged.  Thank you again for all who write.

Mistress A
ImpulsesLovSlave
 
 Age: 23
  Florida